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7 Secrets to a Long Lasting Relationship!

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By don rlPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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7 Secrets to a Long Lasting Relationship

No one wants their relationship to end prematurely, but it happens all the time. The bad news? There are specific things you can do to increase the likelihood that your relationship will last—the good news is, once you’ve read this article, you’ll know what those things are!

1) Communicate your needs

It is important for each partner to be aware of what they need from their relationship in order to maintain balance. For instance, one partner might need more time with their friends and less time with the other person in order for them to feel fulfilled. If those needs are not met, it can lead to unnecessary arguments and resentment.

The key is for both partners to communicate openly about what they need from the relationship.

2) Respect your partner’s needs

It is important to recognize that in order for you to be satisfied in your relationship, your partner needs to also be satisfied. A healthy relationship means understanding and accommodating the other person’s needs as well as your own. The first step is to identify what each of your partner's needs are. These may include affection, time together, listening or emotional support. Once you know their needs, find ways to meet them without compromising your own needs or getting caught up in overdoing things (like always trying to make them happy).

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3) Communicate openly and honestly

Communicating openly and honestly is the most important thing that you can do for your relationship. You should feel comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings with each other, regardless of how difficult those conversations may be.

Don't take anything personally! It's natural for relationships to have some conflict from time-to-time, but try not to make it personal. When it comes down to it, don't let your ego get in the way of understanding where your partner is coming from.

4) Accentuate the positive in each other

My partner is my best friend, and I know that no matter what, he will be there for me. He is the only person who can make me feel truly happy, safe and loved. I am so lucky to have someone who loves me unconditionally and always encourages me to be my best self. He has been a constant in my life since I was five years old. We share everything together - we eat dinner every night, we watch TV together and when one of us falls ill we take care of each other. When one of us gets hurt or sick, the other is there to help them get better.

5) Support each other’s dreams

Too many couples forget to support one another's dreams. If you want your partner to be happy, make sure you are always there for them and help them achieve their goals. By doing this, you will feel more fulfilled in your own life and the relationship will be stronger because of it. However, it is also important not to smother or suffocate your significant other. You don't have to agree with everything they do but it is important that they know you support them 100% no matter what they do. That way, if they get into something new or end up going in a direction that you would never dream of taking yourself-they'll know deep down inside that you're still on their team. Asking questions instead of telling someone how to live can create healthy discussions between two people who love each other.

6) Recognize special moments as they happen

It's important to celebrate the small victories, as they are what make up the big picture of your relationship. Little moments and gestures can go a long way in strengthening your bond. For example, if you have a big event coming up that you'll be attending with your spouse, consider getting them their favorite flowers or cooking their favorite dish for dinner. If they're going through a rough time at work, give them a foot rub or offer to watch their kids while they take some time off work to get back on their feet. A little bit of effort goes a long way.

7) Make time for romance

When you're in love, it's easy to get wrapped up in the romance of it all and forget that you need time for just the two of you. One way to keep your relationship strong is by setting aside time for romantic activities like dinners out, walks in the park, or just sitting together with no distractions. It's important not only for the emotional connection but also because it gives you both some much-needed time apart. It can be as simple as doing something together every day: cooking dinner, taking a walk, going on a date night. Put things away before they pile up: When we live with someone else, we inevitably leave our clothes on the floor and dishes in the sink. The problem is when these piles start to grow because then there are many things that remind us of our partner at home when they're not there.

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