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12 Things That a Real Man Does in a Relationship

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By Bryan StormyweatherPublished 2 years ago 3 min read
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12 Things That a Real Man Does in a Relationship
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If you want to know when you are in a relationship with a real man, follow his actions!

Each of us wants to find that man who does not need any adjustment, who knows what you want, respects you, and makes you admire him for his way of being.

Many times we thought that it does not exist or that it is impossible to find, and here we were wrong. A real man behaves so differently from the typologies of selfish and proud boys you meet everywhere that it is almost impossible not to see the difference.

The most important thing is that when a real man is in a relationship he does things so well and beautifully that you just have to love him, love his style, and not try to change him.

How a real man behaves in a relationship

1. He respects and loves you for all that you are

He may not always agree with what you say or do, but he loves you. Not for your body, for the things you have, or your status, but for everything you represent.

He treats you with respect and tries to understand you, but at the same time, he wants the same thing in return.

2. He is totally dedicated to the relationship

He is yours and you are his. He is loyal and knows very well that in a relationship you need to fight to keep it strong and overcome all obstacles.

He maintains and nurtures the relationship through honest communication and teamwork, but he will not accept that he is the only one who does this.

3. It protects you both physically and mentally

Even if she knows that you can defend yourself in some moments, she is there for you no matter the situation. He knows when he needs to treat things calmly or more aggressively to defend himself.

With him, you feel protected, protected and you know that nothing bad will happen to you.

4. It fulfills you intellectually and sexually

Besides the moments when he whispers passionate things in your ear and makes you feel the most desired in the world, it also challenges you mentally.

You can really have deep discussions about life, future, plans, feelings. And all this makes him really charming.

5. Take the initiative and do not let yourself be dominated by pride

He knows that you are the most important to him and he does not shy away from approaching problems with boldness and determination. He doesn't wait for you to solve it, nor does he worry that if you didn't, why would he do it.

6. Is capable of making difficult decisions

He knows that a real man has to make decisions and make certain compromises.

He is not trying to take control but rather to improve any situation, no matter how difficult it may seem.

7. Say what you always think

He is not afraid or ashamed to say what he thinks. He will contradict you and express his opinion, without losing his composure or making you feel uncomfortable.

8. He defends his relationship

Sometimes family, friends, or even people who don't know you may make inappropriate remarks or give their opinion.

A real man does not allow himself to be manipulated by those around him and protects the integrity of the relationship, proving that he knows exactly how he feels, can express himself, and protects his partner.

9. He assumes when he is wrong

Don't try to blame yourself or victimize yourself by hiding your mistakes. He is simply able to realize when he was wrong, apologize, learn, and do things right.

Saying "I'm sorry" for him is not a sign of weakness but, on the contrary, shows that he has the confidence, courage, and integrity to admit his mistakes and correct them.

10. He follows his passions and dreams

It is not entirely defined by the relationship. It gives you space and you have to give it to him as well. He is ambitious, self-confident and wants to go as far as possible and learn as much as possible.

11. Is not intimidated by your ambition

A man with high goals will want a woman next to him who will look like him and will not feel threatened by your independence and personal motivation.

A real man will encourage you to fight for the things you want and will not pull you back.

12. Look for solutions, not excuses

No matter how complicated any situation is, he is always looking for a good option for both of them.

It gives you confidence, answers, solutions and does not hide behind the finger in an attempt to look good to your detriment.

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