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10 Tips On How To Build A Romantic Relationship

Ideas to Spice Things up in The Romance Department

By A.OPublished 3 years ago 7 min read
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Can we say your love life getting a little (or a lot) dull or boring?

Are you so tired or getting tired you are ready to just give up and be confined to a life with no romance or excitement or pleasure? You can add a lifetime and a load of romance to your relationship by doing just simple things we mostly take for granted or give little or no thought to at all and these can greatly enhance romance in your relationship and boost excitement to a great length.

STOP! If the above mentioned is you, Don't give up just yet.

Here are 10 practical, doable and easy ways to heat and spice things up again to get nasty and add the very essence of romance and fire to your relationship.

1.You could easily Make this yummy and deliciously fragrance massage oil and take turns giving each other massages. Turn off the lights in the room, light up a dozen or so aromatherapy candles which you could easily get from a store close-by then turn on some soft music and take turns giving each other a full body massage in a very cool evening, do well to switch off your cell phones and avoid every distraction whatsoever for the evening.

Exotic Massage Oil

Preferably use 2 fluid ounces of almond oil with 16 drops of an essential oil, Ylang essential oil preferably, add 12 drops of Geranium essential oil, with an additional 10 drops of Sandalwood essential oil, and 8 drops of Patchouli essential oil, 6 drops of Clary Sage essential oil, also Add essential oils to the bottle of present almond oil, after this mixture, shake mixture gently until everything is thoroughly mixed.

2.Ensure to Set out a bowl of grapes and other luxurious and sweetened fruits, preferably a combo of your spouses best fruits. Light some candles and be sure turn on some soft music as well. Then Take turns feeding each other as you lie naked chatting and connecting deeply, ask relevant questions not about work or business but about individual cores, believes and aspirations, you would be surprised how far this can go in spicing things up and creating a deeper connection. This can really be very romantic for the relationship.

3. Dessert anyone? Whose interested in making a little sweet dessert with your stomach and intestines as a bowl? Start by Mixing up some instant pudding from what is available at home or from ingredients from a local grocery store nearby and dish it out on your stomach at once all nasty, then offer some whip cream to your partner and add some squeeze whip cream that they can add to their liking as well.

No spoons needed for this dessert, eat with your hands and get all nasty and uncivilized. The goal of this is to create irreplaceable unconventional memories you can’t just create anywhere or with anyone. These memories get your spouse hooked on the thought of you like a moth helpless to fire. They are drawn to you for the sweet memories you both share and always are excited when you are around and just as well they always want you around.

3. Endeavor to Give each other a good scalp massage or even better take a romantic nice bubble bath with your spouse using the recipe to be provided below, and shampoo each others hair if that is necessary or doable. While you’re both in the tub scrub each others bodies properly with the available tropical body scrub recipe below. This can be very romantic and spicy for any relationship.

Tropical Caribbean Dream Bubble Bath

Add 3 drops of rose fragrant or an essential oil of choice that is of good fragrance, the add 2 drops of jasmine fragrant or essential oil, with 1 ounce of glycerin,and 1 ounce of coconut oil, another 1 bar of Castile soap (grated of course) add 1 quart of water Mix all ingredients thoroughly together and store in a preferred neat container or vase. Pour this mix into running bath water preferably quiet warm.

The Tropical Body Scrub

1 oz. of Coconut Oil, plus 1/2 cup of sea salt, plus 5-10 drops of preferred fragrance Essential Oil of your choice. Mix all ingredients and slather this all over your skin rubbing in lightly to exfoliate.

4.Add some spice, sweetness and romance by pampering each other. Give each other a nice facial you could easily do at home. Gently rub the preferred facial on your partner’s face with soft circular motions. If at any point some of the facial mask does make it to other body parts, well, that could be easily converted to another source of fun too. Remember its about being nasty as a couple for the memories and the bonding.

The Making Of The Cucumber Apple Lime Facial Mask

For this recipe, Use 1 egg white plus 1/2 cucumber, add peeled 1/2 teaspoon of lemon juice and 1/2 teaspoon lime juice with 1/2 teaspoon of apple mint leaves and 1 drop of lime essential oil. Do Combine the first five ingredients in a food processor or blender and blend them until ingredients are smooth. Next add up the essential oil and mix thoroughly and well. Refrigerate the above mixture for a few minutes.

After refrigeration proceed to Smooth mixture on face and neck area and leave on for about 20 minutes. Rinse mixture well after 20minutes with warm water. This mask will stay fresh in the refrigerator for 1-2 days max and can be reused during this interval.

6. Do well to give each other foot massages making use of the Exotic Massage Oil recipe from the tip #one above.if for some reason oil cannot be made, a substitute already made one could easily be gotten from your nearby grocery store at convenience.

7. Romance your partner or spouse by telling them how you fee about them and what makes you like them so much. Make a list of the things you love about your spouse or partner. Have them make one too. Then make sure to turn down the lights or change the room lights to another color preferably red or blue lighting, light lots of scented candles or normal candles and read your lists calmly on each others arms to each other.

8.Take turns at tickling and fondling with each others back. Pick one night for your turn and the next night for your spouse and make sure to have fun while doing so, this could lead to a hot session of passionate sex and bonding as well.

9.Just Lay in bed together side-by-side and snuggle, if you don’t know what to do, you could start behind your partner and tickle their stomach while you lie behind, just fondle with their body and make them feel close, loved and cared for,make them feel their irreplaceable when they are with you not obsessively tho but with a relaxed and calm foreplay. Next flip over and let your partner fondle and tickle your stomach as well.

10.This trick really and surely should lead to more bonding and building a romantic connection as it just may end up in a long awaited hot sex session between you two, Lay down a shower curtain preferably on your bed after taking the sheets out and pour aromatic and scented body oil all over and lay down together with your spouse in the buff and sticky mess and slide around all over it together rub the oil into each others body and gradually slide our hands into their privates and kiss them gently but gradually, it heats things up and will end up in a hot desired and craved love making session. You will not only have fun, but your skin will be silky and soft as well and you will also feel so relaxed and relieved after it all. Play like kids and have fun times together. This simple tricks above bonds couples more and faster than any fancy materials can and strengthens the bonds as they target the core of the relationship which is more time together , more intimacy and deeper bonding.

NOTE: Life is stressful and somewhat demanding and can sometimes be difficult as it is, everyday we each go out to see what life has for us and in that process we encounter a lot of challenges and upsets, would you chose to also come back home after a very tiring, stressful and sometimes sad day where you are suppose to rest but instead face another session of official communication and relationship with your spouse or you would prefer to have a fun and relaxed relationship where you are always in a hurry to get back home because you know your spouse is gong to make it all go away?

I think the answer is very obvious for most of us. These simple things are the simple reason why some men/women cannot have enough of their spouse while others cannot wait to leave the presence of theirs. The simplest things in life rule and govern the world and it is no different in the world of romance and relationship as well.

Did you know that there is a way to get your man’s devotion back without playing games… manipulation… Or looking desperate and needy.

No matter how far apart you feel you’ve drifted apart...

There is a way to leave the past in the past and start a brand new chapter with the man you love.

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This article is for educational and enlightening purposes, it is in no way a substitute to a professional help and assistance, if cases are severe we advice you seek the attention and advice of a professional close-by for more on ground help and assistance.

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A.O

I am a content writer who writes about blogging, YouTube, Relationships, How-To's, Medium, Quora, Travel, self interests And In-between.

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