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10 signs they are NOT the one

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By Honeybee ArticlesPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
10 signs they are NOT the one
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In today's world finding true, unconditional love can be hard. Too many people want to bounce around, afraid of commitment or ghost you after you think things are going good. I'm going to keep it honest, blut and straight to the point. If the person your talking to is in this list. Bye Felicia!

1. You connected on a dating app.

Honestly, some people may find their soulmate on one of those sites but that's a very slim outcome. Just think about it, being on a online dating site is like going to the pet store looking for a new puppy. You don't know anything about the puppy except that it's cute and you want to bring them home. That's exactly what online dating is. Don't waste your time, you want someone to be into you for who you are, NOT for what you look like.

2. They just got out of a relationship

Rebound. That's all I have to say about that. Their lonely, their feelings all over the place and their still hung up on their ex no matter how much they try to deny it. You get together with someone in that situation they only in it for one thing.

3.They are always busy

Again, don't waste your time. You're just going to look desperate while somebody out there will want your attention. Nobody is too busy, if someone wants to see you, they will make the time.

4.You haven't met their friends or family

This is for a couple who has been together for a while. The time eventually comes where you want to meet their friends, and their family and every time there is always an excuse. Their friends canceled last minute, or somebody is sick, whatever the excuse don't buy it. If your partner was truly into you, they would be showing you off to the world.

5.They are very protective of their phone

Okay, I don't know about you, but the first thing that comes to mind is cheating. Or something very close to that, that they don't want you to see. Whatever it is, it isn't good. If they keep refusing to let you use their phone, without good reason. Byyyeee

6.They don't talk

Communication is a huge part of being in a relationship. Their your best friend, lover, home and everything. If you can't have deep conversations or talk about why they had a bad day talk to them and tell them you need them to open up. If they refuse, trust me the problem is on them.

7.They constantly bring up their ex

Unless the person you're with has kids with their ex, there is no reason to bring them up. If they have a habit of comparing you to their ex, or saying their ex use to do this or that, they aren't over their ex. Don't let yourself fall into trying to please someone who is still in love with someone else

8. They only care about looks

Listen, they aren't going to change unless they begin to actually love themselves. People who only care about looks will never love you for who you are, they will only care about how you make them look. Don't be surprised if they start commenting on your weight and talking about diets or going to the gym.

9.Cares too much about social media

Social media is entertainment, not the real world. If it takes an hour to take a picture and that's before photoshop it's going to get old really quick unless you're into that kinda thing too. But honestly, unless social media is your full time job, give it a break. A person who care more about what strangers think than the people who are with them are always going to need attention from strangers.

10. They don't support you

Somebody who doesn't support you isn't relationship material. Period. Relationships take work, marriage takes work, kids are work, life is work. If your partner doesn't have your back they aren't thinking about the future with you. You deserve somebody who wants to build a life with you.


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