Would You Accept a Third Person in the Bedroom?

No matter how curious you and your partner may be about the idea of ​​a new person in the bedroom, you need to consider certain things before inviting another person to your bed.

Is your couple solid? Is the relationship secure?

Most experts believe that when there is hidden resentment between you or when your relationship has no solid foundation, a third person in the bedroom will do nothing but increase these problems, giving you the opportunity for direct reproach and dissatisfaction.

No matter what "formula" you think of (two women and a man or two men and a woman), there must be trust and complicity between you. Only in this way will this exciting experience bring you only pleasure, and jealousy will not be felt. No one would want to be abandoned for their "play" partner.

Do the both of you want this?

One thing is for sure: a threesome will not solve the problems of a shaky relationship! So, make sure that you both want to share such an experience for reasons that are strictly related to pleasure and curiosity!

It is advisable to make your partner understand that he can always say stop, even during sexual intercourse, if he does not feel comfortable!

If your partner does not want such an experience from the beginning, it is proof of love and respect to accept his decision and give up the idea. Otherwise, you will do more harm than good!

If you want to take this step to ensure that your sex life is as original as possible, there is no need to force the note.

There are other ways to spice up your intimate life. On the other hand, if your desire is burning, then threesomes can be an extremely satisfying and exciting experience!

If you are the invited person in the couple, be careful not to fall in love! You have to know how to retire and make the difference between play and reality!

Who is the third person?

So who are you asking and how to ask? There are no rules in this regard, it does not say somewhere who you should choose or why you should choose that person, except that both you and your partner must agree on the person you choose.

The woman asks another woman, and the man asks another man so that the partners can be sure that they have known that person beforehand. Thus, they will avoid the feeling that they are somehow deceived.

Couple communication will be very useful here. You will need to speak openly and decide what is allowed and what is not.

Some of the most important questions are: Will everything be allowed? Will you be able to kiss your mouth with a third person? With the third person, will it be a sexual act that may involve penetration?

Once you have answered such questions, you can invite the third person, who will also have to follow the rules, because, in the end, the game is in your territory.

 Things can take a crazy and euphoric turn during a threesome, but that doesn't mean you have to forget about the rules.

For example, if you and your partner have established that there will be no penetration, then it must remain so because you must respect your partner.

During intercourse, ask your life partner if he or she agrees with certain initiatives. This way, she will feel more confident in him and your relationship.

Remember that during such a moment all kinds of feelings are involved: jealousy, insecurity, resentment, the risk of coming to the surface much faster.

Did you know that…

… 1 in 2 men want to have sex with two women, while only 1% of women would accept a third person in their bed?

Whether you are for or against threesomes, you should not forget the advice of those who know how.

Sexologists warn that before experiencing threesome sex, couples need to think seriously about all the consequences, good or bad, that this moment could have on their sex and sentimental life!