Sex. What about it? It's freaking amazing! When it's done right, of course. But either way, it's a gateway to so much. It's like initial sex is the gateway drug to finding out about oral sex, BDSM etc. Anything you can imagine, it's more than likely something you can find in sex. Let's discuss some of my personal things that I want to have happen in my sex life and what I've already had a taste of in the past.
As I sit here and listen to "Got It Good" by Kaytranada and Craig David, I'm reminded of so many good times and the thought of the things that I want to indulge in. I'm in a healthy relationship, yes, but you sometimes just want more. I'm not saying that the sex is boring with us or anything, because it's not. He's just not as sexually experienced as myself, so I get bored easily with trying to teach him new things or trying to get him to just want to do more outside of what we already do. He likes to try to make love to me and I just want to be screwed. Hardcore sex and everything in between. I want it rough. Tied up and spanked type of rough. I don't care for the sloppy wet kisses and sensual moments that he enjoys. We will sometimes have those quickie moments where it's just rough hardcore sex for all but 5 minutes and then he's done. I'm not complaining because it's those moments that get me through the rest of my day, for the most part. So, they are welcomed for sure. But sometimes, I just want more.
Now, a while back, I was looking for ways to make some extra money, so I considered fetish type sites for things like feet play, etc. I talked about it repeatedly and decided not to go forth with that kind of exposure. I don't find it weird or anything, because we all have our own little nasty fetish on the inside. Some of us are just too wrapped up in what society will think to express what we really like. It's like being a closet gay. Express yourself when it comes to what you want to try, or you will never be happy. I made a few profiles on sites like Fling.com, Chaturbate, and even Adult Friend Finder. I've looked for people in my area that I could sleep with just to get that feeling over with.
I'm a freak. I'll admit it. I enjoy everything about sex and what it can do for me mentally, physically, and emotionally. When I'm alone I spend a lot of time just playing with myself and exploring my body. Trying to see what my limits are before I talk a big game with someone else and fail! That would be tragic as fuck!
So, I have many fantasies that I would like to play out one day soon. One is something that I've done before, but it's so soothing that I want to do it again. I've been with a woman before, and it's something about the taste of a woman that is a huge turn on for me. It's a thing that I think people should try. Don't say you would never do it until you've had your first taste of it. Also, another one would be a threesome. I've done that before too, but I was drunk. I don't recall much besides the guy that was a part of it was too drunk to keep it up, so that part of sex was a little shitty, to be honest. I could have done without it from him and just enjoyed the female that took part in the moment that night. Let's see, I also like to try things with food. Sticky foods like honey and ice cream. Anything that will allow my mouth to take a trip on every part of the human body. I don't mind trying something once. If I didn't like it and I felt like I knew what part of it I don't like, I will try it again with taking that part out or adding something to it to make it something we can both benefit from. I know to some people reading this are like, 'ewww, she's nasty.' To others it's more like, 'gosh, I wish I knew who she was! She seems like a good time.' Don't be afraid to explore those sexual things you want to know more about. Read up on them. Watch porn! Join a few sites and see what's in your area. If you are not afraid to travel and learn more about someone, go for it! Enjoy life and the sex that can come with it :)