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Threesomes

Understanding a woman who enjoys sharing her man with another woman.

By Jackie SagastumePublished 7 years ago 4 min read
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Most women find the idea of sharing the man they love with another woman infuriating. It brings out feelings of jealousy, anger and straight up “I’m going to beat a bitch’s ass if she touches my man” feelings but some women find that sharing their man with another woman is exotic, titillating and a huge turn on. I am a woman that is extremely turned on by watching her man have sex with another woman. I fantasize about it during sex and really enjoy it when it happens in real life. My husband and I have been married for fifteen years and we have had a handful of threesomes throughout our marriage and each time it has been one of the best experiences we have had together sexually.

My husband always knew from the get go that I enjoyed being with women and that I found women sexually attractive and one day I told him that I would be open to having a threesome with him and another woman, him being a man, of course he was game to try it out. We never sought out anyone and agreed that if it was going to happen it would not be planned, we would just go with the flow and let it happen. I remember our first threesome as if it were yesterday. We had been introduced to this girl by a mutual friend and this girl was having a tough time with her family at home and needed a place to stay. We invited this girl to stay in our home and we really grew to like her. One day her and I were hanging out and it so happened that we started making out with each other, I was laying down, she was on top of me and we were heavily making out and exploring each other’s bodies with our hands and our mouths. The entire time this was happening my husband was watching. I motioned to my husband to join in and he did not hesitate, he came up behind her and started grabbing her breasts and kissing her neck as she and I continued to make out.

He entered her from behind and pounded her doggy style and all I remember is feeling a rush go through my entire body to see him in another woman, giving himself to her and her accepting him inside of her it made me so wet and excited. To watch her moan and watch his pleasured facial expressions made me feel so excited and I felt such pleasure that I orgasmed multiple times. Just watching them have sex together made me feel so erotic and I couldn’t help but touch myself until I orgasmed again and again. The whole experience was fun, adventurous and exciting. The best part is that there were no feelings of jealousy and there was absolutely no weirdness between all of us either. I think that setting rules and making them very clear between all the parties involved helps the situation go smoothly. Some of the rules that were set were we could not have sex with another girl unless we were both together, eliminating the situation for jealousy or animosity to develop.

The biggest rule is that we had to trust each other and we could not throw the fact that we had sex with another woman in each other’s face if we were angry and fighting. I always tell my friends who think that I am insane for being able to share my man with another woman that I am not built like most women mentally, there is something in my head that finds it exciting to watch her man pleasure another woman. I don’t get jealous because I am confident that I keep my man happy and I trust that he is faithful to me and that he will only be with another woman if I say it is okay and only if I am involved in the whole thing. Giving my man that trust and him knowing that he does not need to cheat on me, he must simply bring the girl home and we can both enjoy her, gives us the peace of mind of enjoying our little adventures without any complications.

We have been very lucky that we have not had threesomes with girls who are conniving and vindictive and who respect what my husband and I have going on. My advice to woman who are thinking about having a threesome is do not do it if you are simply doing it to please him, you must want it just as much as he does if you want to enjoy it and get the most out of the experience. Do not do it if it does not bring you pleasure or if you are not 100 percent confident in yourself because if you are not confident in yourself, watching your man be pleased by another woman will mess you up mentally and will bring up feelings of jealousy and resentment against your man. When you do not have that full confidence in yourself is when situations such as these go very badly and leave your relationship full of doubt and negative feelings towards your partner and whoever else is involved. Those bad and negative feelings all mixed together is a recipe for disaster for your relationship.

To all the woman who don’t understand how and why some women can ever share their man with another woman I say this, you will never fully understand so just don’t try. Just know that everyone is different and we all like different things so don’t judge us women who simply find pleasure in taking part in something fun and freaky, because at the end of the day to each his own and just know that we are having way more fun in the bedroom than you are.

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Jackie Sagastume

I am 35 years old and I have been writing poetry since I was in elementary school. I love to express myself through words and find that writing is a coping mechanism for me because my life is complicated.

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