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The Most Sexiest Things You Can Ever Do for Her

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By Mind & RelationshipsPublished 3 years ago 6 min read
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Being sexy entails more than just good looks, charisma, and self-assurance. Even if you have all of these things, you will not be considered eligible.

A girl may decide to go on the first few dates based on the appearance and personality of the guy. But it all wears off.

That's sexy in the short term.

What you want is long-term sexy, and that's what keeps her coming back for more. That is what makes her fall in love with you.

Tell your friends about her.

Almost nothing is more enticing than informing your entire social circle that your wife or girlfriend has good news to share. Make a little noise about them. That demonstrates that you recognise her worth.

This is what one of my friends just did with her boyfriend. We were out drinking when she mentioned his new job.

He's a little shy, but she made room for others to become involved and, for a brief moment, turn the conversation to him. It was silky and natural. You could tell he was grateful.

It's possible for you to do the same.

It's sexy to make others feel valued, as if they're a member of your tribe. It demonstrates that you really want them to be a part of your life.

Make her vibrator your mate.

You do know she has one. Don't let her cover it under the bed in a small plastic container or wait until you're out of earshot. When you begin having sex, inquire about it. Enable the vibrator to play a role in your sex life.

It isn't a danger to you. Vibrators make sex more enjoyable. Embracing the vibrator denotes self-assurance of your sexuality.

You can then move on to other sex toys. You can experiment and read articles and books on how to improve sex.

Be open to new experiences.

It's not just your current life that makes you interesting; it's the life you're going to create with another. New restaurants should be tried. Take a journey together. Take classes with your mates.

Make an attempt to plan things out on your own. Women are also the relational coordinators in relationships. It's sexy to relieve some of her mental stress. It's sexy to expose her to new experiences. It's particularly sexy to take her on little adventures.

Make a note of her birthday to get it right.

This is a date that you can memorise as soon as possible. Find out what she enjoys, like the kind of cake she prefers.

That's sexy, because she doesn't like coconut flakes or dense chocolate. Surprising her with a sexy little present. It does not have to be costly. All you have to do is demonstrate that you pay attention during conversations. Hint: it's not a Pandora charm in the slightest.

Here's why it's so important: If you can't get her birthday right, you're telling her she can expect a lifetime of superficial presents and favours she has to pretend to appreciate.

Making her eat a cake she doesn't care for? Making her express gratitude for jewellery that causes her to break out in a rash? That isn't enticing.

You're capable of more.

Create a rich personal life for yourself.

It is said that you must first love yourself before you can love another. That isn't entirely accurate, but it does point to something that is.

You must see yourself as a complete person.

You must live a life that is not dependent on finding your soulmate. This is what makes someone attractive — not only physically, but also psychologically. Make a world that others want to share with you.

Create a world filled with friends, passions, hobbies, sports, books, or something else that makes you happy. This is the kind of environment that prevents someone from appearing clingy and dependent. It's what stops you from worrying about why she hasn't responded to your text yet.

It must be your universe, filled with things you genuinely enjoy and find meaningful. It is not necessary for all to be attracted to this planet. But the right person would, and that's exactly what you want.

Focus on improving your emotional intelligence.

It's sexy to deal with the feelings. It's not a good idea to keep them hidden. Someone who conforms to masculine standards isn't strong or self-reliant. Their feelings are leaking out in a variety of harmful ways.

They simply aren't aware of it.

If you don't want to, you don't have to cry in front of her. But, at the very least, you can learn to sob on your own.

You need to speak and reflect about how you're feeling so that you can steer your feelings in the right direction. If you ignore your feelings, you'll most likely take them out on the wrong person.

Allow her to live a life apart from you.

It's unrealistic to expect others to give up their life in order to fit into yours. All you date has their own set of friends and habits. They'll try to do stuff that aren't related to you.

It's sexy to be okay with that.

It's the first advantage of having a rich inner life.

I sometimes come across a couple in which one partner feels entitled to any aspect of the other's life. He wants to meet all of her relatives, and he calls her every day to check in on her. She can't leave the house without asking him when she'll be back.

This isn't sexy; rather, it's possessive and creepy.

When two rich personal lives collide, a great friendship emerges. You've got your stuff, she's got hers, and you've got the best of both worlds — the life in the centre.

Make yourself a partner in the process.

It's easy for a shared life to become a shambles. You'll have twice the amount of dishes and laundry until you move in together. The toilets are twice as dirty. A sexy man is aware of this.

Self-sufficiency is a hot commodity.

That means you do half of the laundry, prepare half of the meals, and clean half of the house.

Ask her, "Am I doing enough?" if you really want to please her. “Could you think of anything else I can do to assist you?”

Obviously, this arrangement benefits both parties. Bring it up if you believe she isn't doing enough.

It's sexy to look after someone.

This advice is applicable to both men and women. It's all about paying attention to the smallest nuances and nuance. It's all about looking after yourself, her, and both of you in the long run.

Taking care of others entails listening to them and knowing them well enough that you don't need to ask them what they want all of the time. You just have a feeling. Around the same time, you have to strike a balance between what you think you know and the fact that you don't always get it right.

The most sexiest act of all is taking care of someone.

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Mind & Relationships

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