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Explore common and little-known fetishes. Learn how to satisfy a fetish and how to interpret the fetishes of your partner.
CNC, Consensual non-consent / forced. All the kinky things!
CNC. Consensual non-consent. This means that the person on the receiving end is consenting to participate in Acts mostly revolving around rape play or seemingly illegal Acts. Of course they are not actually illegal because it is consensual and both people involved have already went over rules and safe words with each other. If they haven't this can be very dangerous. If you are doing CNC and you do not have a set safe word and you have not talked about it beforehand, you won't know when they're acting like they're hurt or something is wrong or if they actually are. Remember that safety is the number one priority. You do not want to start something like this without both people agreeing to it and knowing exactly what is going to happen and what's going on.
When Daddy Calls
The phone rings. "Hello?" "Are we allowed to tell and be insulting in e-mails, miss?" "No..." "No what?"
Jane SmithPublished 4 years ago in FilthyAll about knife play
Knife play is one of my favorite things when it comes to foreplay or BDSM. While it is very fun and exciting, it can also be pretty dangerous. This is why it is in the edge play category along with blood play and anything else that could hurt someone if not done right. Lets go over what knife play entails.
Make Me....
Time..... before it seemed so conventional, to fleeting to care about who came and left my life. But now, time was passing to fast for me to grab on to. Because of him. His presence, his looks, just every thing about him. He passes me, looks at me, holds me in the ways that i have never been held before. Just his touch makes my heart speed up. His eyes when they meet mine, every thing that i think and feel seems to become more primal. I want only him, I need only him, in so many ways he has become all that i want all that i need. Every time we touch, hug, I need every bit of him to claim me, to dominate me, to drive me to the edge of pleasure and send me head first over the edge with him.
JadedPleasuresPublished 4 years ago in FilthySubmissive vs. Dominant
Submission is not the easiest thing to do for people such as me, a control freak, still I was willing to try. The hardest part for me was not doing what I was told, I can handle that, it was having to not take the lead. I get off on the simplest of things and being the boss is the best thing to me. I can almost orgasm from hearing myself tell someone what to do to please me. “Don’t Stop!” “Harder, faster!” and my favorite “Please baby please!” never tend to get old. My experience was short lived but still long enough to know that it was not for me. Which is weird since I am a people pleaser and in all honesty I definitely was turned on enough to try again. Now I’m curious to know if I could get out of my head that I don’t like it. The most important thing to me is the person who I’m being submissive for. Same as when I’m being dominant because I can’t take on that role with everyone. My first time as a sub , my partner knew exactly what he wanted for me to do and was assertive without being aggressive. I could have very easily made to feel ashamed or scared .
Chanelle LahrmannPublished 4 years ago in FilthyPleasurable Pain
Kyte lays there, tied to the bed in a Y shape, his wrists and ankles restrained by soft leather cuffs. Wearing only black swim trunks, his inviting body is just waiting. Not that he will wait for long.
Moonlit Sky.Published 4 years ago in FilthyMy Fingers, His Skin.
Our friend tied him up with a series of knots that I don’t yet know the intricacies of. He told me before I went into the room that if I wanted my boyfriend untied, all I had to do was pull the loose string hanging beside his body.
Moonlit Sky.Published 4 years ago in FilthyBDSM contracts
So this topic is one that confuses people especially people new to the lifestyle. I want to tell you the basics and what you need to know about contracts.
Lena BaileyPublished 4 years ago in FilthyMake $3,000+ a Week Doing Next To Nothing *must read*
Make $3,000+ a Week Doing Next To Nothing If you've ever had any doubts about working within this wrecked society or even so much as leaving your house, then you might want to open your eyes a little wider for this one! Can you fathom financial freedom that brings new opportunities to the horizon? Something so simple as power, a scaling aggression, and a weak man could be your ticket out of this so called pay check to pay check lifestyle. Findom could change your life and get a silly rich man to empty his pockets.
The Darkest SunrisePublished 4 years ago in FilthyWait...you put WHAT in WHERE?
Figging: (Definition): inserting a piece of raw, peeled ginger into the anus, historically used for torture. This practice is now a method of corporal punishment in BDSM, a popular fetish, and has been altered to also include insertion into the vagina and urethra.
Lorah CatherinePublished 4 years ago in FilthyMy Letter to @johnbaku on why FetLife Needs Dedicated Columnists
The following is a letter I sent to @johnbaku of FetLife. Many of us are seeking community, looking for the best ways to get ourselves out there, and want to learn about what matters to us. In the many moments of the day my curiosity, interest, and energy level changes. I want what I want and believe that FetLife is a better place to turn to then the 24 hour news cycle right now. I'm sharing my letter in hopes to get your thoughts and perhaps encourage change to better FetLife because this community has made a difference and connected so many of us over the years. The world you experience is the real world and talking with each other about what matters can make it better.
Joseph CrownPublished 4 years ago in FilthyUmmm...Daddy?
Sometimes Daddy has to change our plans. It's not his fault; he has a job that keeps him in contact with the most influential people in our city. We are often asked to dinner, and that requires that I be prepared to change evening plans at a moment's notice.
Phoenixx Fyre DeanPublished 4 years ago in Filthy