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Six (Sensual) Tips for Happy Lovers

Fantasy is the answer

By Bettina ZagnoliPublished 7 years ago 3 min read
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I Love Braces

Do you love them? I have always liked them. Not only because they remind me of beautiful Charlotte Rampling in "The night porter ", it’s because I think they are very sensuous items. It might sound contraddictory but I find it very feminine and seductive for a woman to wear trousers, shirt, braces along with ruby red lipstick and nail polish.

If you have big breast, I suggest you cross your braces on your chest, while naked. Some sort of X mark on your femininity.

A Slip of Amazement

Do you think of slips as old-fashioned? I find them incredibly sexy. I still have one of my mother’s. Black, of course.

These days we spend so much time wearing jeans, trousers, and leggings that we have forgotten about slips.

I often write about amazement, as I see so much boredom. So imagine how amazed a man would be if undressing you he found a slip.

So men, buy a slip for your lover.

And ladies, wear it when he least expects!

Put Her Shoes On

There is something extremely sexy about helping your woman get dressed. Help her put her shoes on. She will suddenly feel like a child again. Feet are also one of her main erogenous area.

It must be a very graceful touch. Gently escort her foot with one hand and use the other one to squeeze her ankle or massage her calf (even better if it is bond in smooth pantyhose).

Her foot insite is as sensual as her shoulder. And it leads to little toes you can kiss.

Help your woman put her shoes on means: “see you soon” after a night of sex.

A Mouth’s Gesture

And no, I’m not referring to a blowjob. I am thinking instead of a woman smoking a cigarette with a holder- think Marlene Dietrich and Audrey Hepburn. These days a woman smoking from one of these would be considered trite, but I think instead how sexy such a gesture could be.

I don’t smoke, but I can not help but be captivated by the imagine of a woman’s lips tightening as they inhale as if to kiss, a slight sigh escaping as they do. If It were me I would make sure my lips were painted red, ruby red. My nails would be perfectly manicured painted a matching shade of red.

Any man could not help but be captivated.

Ice Cream to play with

Your mouth is your second vagina and men are inevitably attracted by it.

Slowly lick cream, get some of it on the sides of your mouth and then pick it up with your tongue. Don’t you find it sexy? I do.

It’s a seduction tip very close to fellatio.

Wanna ruffle a man who’s watching you? Play with a cone stuffed with cream and chocolate.

Hot season is coming: after rubbing some tanning oil on yourself, go and by yourself an ice cream cone.

Lost Caress

These days hands are unknown: we mainly use them to click, digit, eat and few more things.

You should focus your attention on these amazing source of pleasure.

Get some oil, mix it with lotion and… start your party!

There are some aphrodisiac fragrances commercially available. I suggest you choose Monoi Tiare Oil, a mark of polinesian women’s beauty.

Plan some time for yourselves. Start from your feet and then stroke each other up to your hips.

Your lips will do the rest.

With love,

Bettina

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About the Creator

Bettina Zagnoli

Sensuality coach, blogger for the famous italian newspaper Il Fatto Quotidiano.it - She is the best italian expert in subjects related to sensuality and every workshop is always a mix of humor and elegance.

website: www.sensualcoach.it

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