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How to Get Your Wife/Girl Friend to Agree Buying a Sex Doll

Relationship & sex

By Julia GPublished 2 years ago 2 min read
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Introducing a sex doll in a couple's like (photo source: metro.co.uk)

I read a story on "the doll forum" that a male member shared how he got his wife agreeing on a love doll in their lives. At the beginning of the story, he shared four characteristics that a man must know about a woman, and those are:

1.) Men value the content of communication while women prioritize the tone. You have to speak her language to get specific results.

2.) Unlike men, most women are not stimulated by conflict. They want peace, calm, and harmony. Women are just like bunny rabbits. When they trust you, things are great. Life is warm, soft, and affectionate, but the perception of aggression or tension easily spooks them.

3.) Women's imaginations are powerful, for good and ill. There is a reason why women comprise 85% of the fiction book market. Words are as powerful to women's psyches as visuals are to men.

4.) The essential point here is to "avoid conflict" with women by carefully choosing words and tones when speaking with them. For example, instead of saying, "Why are you spending so much money?", say, "You know, I was looking at our finances, and I thought that life would be so much more stress-free if we could bring our credit card expenses down. But that I thought we would both have to chill out on our purchases for a couple of months. What do you think?"

The above sentence makes women feel less stressed and improves their relationship together. Now to start the conversation of having a love doll, the trick here is to chill off the conversation and make it looks like fun, then your wife will more or less accept it.

First, the approach will start chilling off by saying, "I was thinking. It would be cool if we could have some of the 50 Shades of Grey bedroom fun." Then watch her response. If it turns out to be positive, you can continue the conversation by saying you will introduce another "girl" in the bedroom, a realistic sex doll. Probably she will agree. But of course, your wife has to be open-minded. If she is a very traditional type of lady, maybe she will reject as often they think it is considered "cheating".

"50 Shades of Grey" Probably are the ‘"Click" Words For Most Couples

If it is the case, I guess you have to wait for another opportunity to explain it is not "cheating". However, it's petty hard but can be doable as a sex doll, just a piece of plastic that may look beautiful but has no life, no feelings, no emotions, and so on. It's a complete dead body or a corpse that is not like a real woman.

Enough of the opposing side. Once your wife is optimistic about the idea, you need to do nothing until she actively asks you about it. There it's time to buy a doll. Why? It is because "to catch a big fish, you've to cast a long line." So you have to wait for the right timing. To recap, to have your wife or girlfriend that agrees to introduce a sex doll in your bedroom:

1.) To act as calmly as possible.

2.) Define your sexual needs, and speak to your partner without stress. If you are too pushy, the wife will turn off, not supporting your thought.

3.) If she agrees with your suggestion, sit there doing nothing and let her ask you again.

If she does that, that means she's ready for it, and you will get what you want at last. Try this method today and see how it goes.

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