Don’t worry, you are not alone in this! If you are single or in a relationship, but can't get that good dick or pussy, I am here for you and your horny ass.
So here are some of my ideas to help you accommodate your horniness during quarantine!
1) Masterbate
If this was not obvious already...a little bit of solo action with yourself can feel amazing! I personally have 5 different vibrators that I interchange with each other to continuously excite myself. Relieve yourself of the stress of life and transport your mind to an explosion of bliss with that big O.
Be sensual with yourself! Turn on some sexy jams like P*SSY Fairy by Jhene Aiko or R.M.B by Kye Russoul and Nitra Nicole. Watch porn that excites you and makes you crave touching yourself and enjoy the process! Have foreplay with yourself and do not be afraid of it!
Honestly, the bigger the build up, the better the orgasm.
If it starts to feel stale and you are getting bored of masterbating alone, you need to switch it up. Include new toys, try different sex positions with yourself, and learn what positions lead you to those sweet orgasms.
Masterbate in different rooms if you must!
The shower, a chair, standing on your bed, against a wall with your legs up, get CREATIVE! Let your creative juices flow. *pun intended*
If you have a roommate during quarantine, let them know that you need half an hour at least to have the room to yourself. Or turn on the music loud in your room or the shower to drown out your moans and the vibrator so you can go to town discreetly.
2) Be a Tease
This can be interpreted in a lot of different ways.
Wear some sexy lingerie and look at that beautiful goddess in the mirror and say “I am that bitch.” Seriously. It feels AMAZING to look at your curves and how beautiful your body looks.
Appreciate your own dimensions, every crevice, every scar.
If you are into makeup, do a new look! Put on those lashes and eye-catching eye shadow and POP OFF.
Make some sexy nudes or teaser videos for yourself or send it to a friend, a partner, a hoe or two, ect. to feed your ego. (Making them simply for your own pleasure is 100% fine too!) You are HOT! This quarantine does NOT take that away.
3) Take an Online Pole or Chair Class
How many times have you looked at a stripper or that movie Burlesque and sighed in awe of how sexy and attractive the actors and actresses looked on the big screen?
YOU CAN BE THEM! All you need is a chair to try this out! Youtube has plenty of free classes that you can find online. Find a chair or pole in your home, a sexy song you like, and search up a free sexy chair dance online.
Change the lighting of your room to “mood” lighting and record how desirable you look because you are a SNACK. Wear some revealing workout clothes or lingerie to spice it up and change the filter of your camera to black and white for that cool, dark and mysterious video effect.
Make sure to add a lot of sensual touches to really turn yourself on and embrace your sexual energy. I just tried this new skill this week and 10 out of 10 would recommend it for a boost in self confidence and to give you a space to freely and unapologetically reveal the true essence of your sexual being. Here is a link to one that I tried.
4) Exercise
Exercising can help relieve ourselves of stress and in turn help relieve us of our pent up sexual frustration. I have been following the Chloe Ting 2 Week Ab Challenge and it has done amazing things for me by revitalizing my pent up sexual energy into tasks that benefit my whole mind and body.
Even going for a 30-minute walk every single day will help you!
5) Pick up a new skill or hobby
What is something that you have always wanted to do in your life? Build a car from scratch? Start your own jewelry business? Become a youtuber or podcaster? DO IT. If you have the time to masterbate, you have the time to pick up a skill or a hobby that you are interested in.
Listen to a podcast or music if you want to take your mind off of your hormones during quarantine. An idle body is more prone to thinking about sex and masterbation simply because you are not occupying it with any other tasks.
I hope all of these tips and tricks help you get through your horniness during this crazy time!
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If you prefer a video version of this article:
How to Deal with Horniness During Quarantine
Looking for more content similiar to this? Check out my youtube. I post about dating and self-care advice. (yes, that includes masterbation!)
Always here to support you all in pleasuring yourselves mentally and physically!
About the Creator
Chantel
I range from social justice issues to sexuality articles, all depends on my mood.
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