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Fanfiction As Sex Education: Good or Bad?

by Alisan Keesee about a year ago in geek
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A bit of both, perhaps?

Fanfiction As Sex Education: Good or Bad?
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I read my first fanfiction when I was about 12. By my current (and most avid fanfiction reader's standards), it was an amateur fic that was cliche and the storyline was mostly author self-serving. However, my 12-year-old self found happiness in the story, surprised something like it even existed.

As I grew older and entered fandom culture and became more familiar with the Internet, I began to read more fan fiction in various fandoms and even began to write fan fiction. Currently, I have probably read and written millions of words worth of fan fiction.

When I first started out, I avoided fanfictions that contained overt sex or smut. In my early and mid-teenage years, I was uncomfortable reading about sex, however, I naturally began gravitating towards more mature storylines and themes, which in turn led later to sex.

Now, nearly everything I read contains at least some explicit sexual content. Sometimes it's just glossed over, or simply sexually explicit in dialogue or language. Other times, it's porn in written form. I am an adult and it is not necessarily considered inappropriate to read and enjoy these sorts of things (probably taboo and trashy), but among the fan fiction community, it is well known that it isn't just adults reading explicit sexual content.

Despite most fan fiction hosting sites filtering explicit content differently, it is not hard to come by if you know how to search for it. Some parents may find it alarming that their children are accessing such sexually explicit content as a teenager, but after having spent time extensively within the fan fiction community, I think it is, for the most part, healthy and normal.

In the early days of fanfiction, sexual content wasn't really monitored or filtered in any way. As it slowly became an issue (people who chose not to read such content being exposed to it, unhappy parents, etc.), sites like, Archive of Our Own, and Wattpad all have Mature filters or ratings that filter out Mature-rated or marked books from a typical search unless specifically searched for.

This works for the most part. Though, not every author marks their works as Mature (whether due to ignorance or consciously to reach a larger audience). If found out, this usually ends up with a warning and/or the book being taken down (and usually re-uploaded with the proper identification).

While smut and sexual content has served as entertainment and fantasy fodder, the smut and sexual content in fanfiction has taken on another, unexpected duty--sex education.

It's not a secret that sex education in the US and around the world is lacking, wrong, or biased, so, oddly, fanfiction authors took it upon themselves to educate the younger readers reading their work. In my time, I've read or written explanations/ analogies of consent, condom use, birth control, sexual assault/ harassment, unhealthy relationships, pregnancy, signs/ reds flags of abuse, LGBTQ relationships/ sex, STIs, STI testing, and more. The list could go on and on. While obviously unhealthy elements of relationships and sex are sometimes romanticized or glorified, oftentimes readers go into a fic knowing this and either criticize it or enjoy it understanding the cognitive dissonance (this cognitive dissonance could be a whole article topic in itself).

I have learned more from fanfiction and finding my own reliable sex education sources (such as Sexplanations) than I did in my high school sex-ed class. Fanfiction taught me about kinks and which ones applied to me. It gave me the opportunity to figure out my own sexual preferences and biases without actually having sex. It helped me make informed and healthy decisions regarding relationships and sex. It helped me decide what was best for myself and my body, rather than having no idea about my own sexuality, preferences, or body.

Fanfiction gave me permission and freedom to explore facets of myself that I was hesitant or scared to without judgment or the opportunity to make a mistake that could impact the rest of my life. It allowed me to explore my sexuality in a healthy way that allowed me to mature and figure out things about myself that many people don't know even after they have had sex!

Exploration, discovery, and doing both of those things in a healthy way are vital for personal and sexual growth. Reading fanfiction and other sexually explicit material isn't always just a way to get off in your teenage years, it can be a healthy way to express and discover your sexuality.

Before ending this article, I would like to clarify that I'm not trying to advocate for abstinence with this article. Everyone has the right to make that choice for themselves and reading and learning from fanfiction and other sexually explicit material can supplement whatever decision is made. I only want to advocate for fanfiction and how it can contribute to healthy sexual maturing and growth.

My 2021 Perspective

Coming back to this article a few years later, I find myself agreeing and disagreeing. I agree that fanfiction and reading can be a healthy way to explore sexuality and sex related topics at a young age. We see this often in Young Adult novels that contain sex, or at least, sexually based topics.

With that noted, the cognitive dissonance I briefly mentioned, I have some new thoughts on. I do still believe it exists and continue to experience it. For example, if I read a book or a fanfiction with a mafia theme. Obviously, in real life, I would not find this sort of person wholly redeemable or appealing. However, I can suspend real life to enjoy the story without compromising my real-life morality, decisions, or understanding of the world.

Even with my adult brain, I cannot read anything that glorifies rape or sexual assault. It can be part of the story, sure, but I find it wildly inappropriate and problematic, if it is either of the lead characters that we are supposed to root for or ship, perpetuating assault, abuse, or violence towards their love interest or partner (non-consenually).

Of course, some aspect of that is my own personal preference. Some may not be able to read something that glorifies drug use or violence, which is fine. While there are many topics that are fairly universally condemned, even with cognitive dissonance, as inappropriate and problematic, there is nothing wrong with enjoying a relationship dynamic that may not be entirely healthy, so long as one can recognize that and not perpetuate or romanticize it within their own life.

So, where am I going with this? As I’ve gotten older, I’ve become thankful that I did not read explicitly sexual material when I was a teenager. I came across some very mild smut, but nothing scarring or uncomfortable. Not too much more than you would find in your standard YA novel.

Teenage brains and adult brains are different. Teenagers--while smart and intelligent--cannot yet perform the same functions of cognitive dissonance that an adult can. While a teenager can make good decisions and be a well rounded individual, they can easily fall victim to predators or abusive relationships/environments due to the media they consume.

Again, though, another caveat. While I do think that teenagers should be shielded from certain sexually explicit types of media, I do not think they should be shielded from sex altogether. How do we expect teenagers and young adults to make smart decisions with their bodies (both as a teenager and an adult) if we do not teach them about sex?

Obviously, this is usually tasked to sex education classes and parents themselves. But, as authority figures, teenagers are more likely to dismiss them than the media they consume. Therefore, if the media they consume can help educate them, I do not see the harm in that. Pretending that teenagers do not know, don’t want to know, or should not know about sex is simply adults denying the facts that teenagers are complex beings that can understand complexity. They just need to romanticize the good and healthy aspects of relationships and sex, instead of the bad ones.


About the author

Alisan Keesee

I am a 25-year-old Seattle based writer who lives with my cat. Originally from a small, unincorporated Washington town, I have a penchant for boybands, black coffee, and true crime. I am a graduate of Western Washington University.

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  • Ekultme2 months ago

    Sex education is actually a necessary subject to protect young people

  • Ben RS4 months ago

    As an avid fanfic reader and writer, many of my fics are on this site, I find this interesting. I was one of those kids that were trapped from finding fanfic smut when I was in middle school due to those mature locks that I didnt know existed and I needed to turn off. I am queer and sex ed was practically nonexistent. I remember in high school I wrote a terrible and completely unrealistic as I did not know how sex with two people with volva worked(I'm afab non binary), so you can find a lot of inaccurate sex information. One piece of bad practice you can find in smut fics thing is anal without lube, don't do that.

  • Aleisha H5 months ago

    Hey I found this really interesting, I was just thinking about this yesterday and realised too that while lots of fanfic can be pornographic, one of the best parts of it is that so much of it (giant generalisation here probably) is written by women - so there is a lot of female pleasure involved where that is not the case in a lot of porn. Unfortunately though I think it's probably mostly girls/women that read it too, perhaps? I have no evidence to back this up just what i imagine!

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