Did You Lose Interest For Sex?

If you feel that lately, sex life is not as important to you as it once was, do not ignore the symptoms and, until you identify the problem, analyze all its aspects:

You rarely have sex

You come tired from work and you just don't feel like having sex. So your only sexual activity takes place once every two weeks and then only out of complacency.

It is natural to have problems in your intimate life since you do not have them. Kerner, the author of "She Comes First," believes that we should have sex at least once a week to avoid falling into monotony.

Many other reports suggest that most women have sex for reasons other than carnal desire. Once you enter this circle, you will see that desire inevitably follows arousal, you just have to find the reason to light the wick.

The partner has become predictable

If you've been together for a while, then this can be translated into a "problem."

If you want to maintain the same enthusiasm even after a few years have passed over you, you need to keep the sex "fresh." Don't be afraid to try new things that will please both of you; it can anticipate your every move.

You have to spice up the relationship, otherwise, you get to a stage where nothing surprises you anymore, therefore having sex will seem boring and, automatically, will not arouse your interest.

You have low libido

If the sexual activity has become a kind of "must do" for you, it means that you are facing FASD (female sexual arousal disorder), or, in free translation, lack of sexual desire.

You will probably contradict me by saying, "But I have orgasms during sex." But you should know that most women who have this problem have an orgasm and therefore confuse the desire to have sex with the action itself.

Your mind has a switch that is off when you don't feel like it. Especially if you've been complaining lately that your head hurts, that you're tired, that you have a busy schedule the next day - but we know very well that they were just excuses.

Fortunately, for most women, this decrease in libido is temporary. It is mainly caused by mental reasons such as depression, stress, anxiety, previous failed sexual experiences, etc.

 Our advice is to consult a psychologist to help you identify the causes of the problem before thinking about using medications, which exist even in such cases. You can go for testosterone treatment or you can use "cream of desire", a preparation that has the effect of stimulating the clitoris and is found in sex shops.

You can't have an orgasm

Failure to reach orgasm can be to blame for your bedroom problems. It can be caused by many factors, both psychological and physical.

You may not be stimulated enough (and this is where his guilt comes in), you may suffer from stress, inhibition, or be overwhelmed by everyday problems. The latter can distract you during sex and do not give you time to enjoy what you are offered, therefore, goodbye orgasm!

Medication can also intervene between you and the climax. Antidepressants such as Prozac may be to blame. Valium can be just as good if you take something like that.

Simply let go of the tide and think of the pleasure that awaits you

You have pain during sexual intercourse

Penetration pain can have many causes, including endometritis (which can lead to infertility), ovarian cysts, vaginitis, or even poor lubrication. It could also be the cause of a sexually transmitted disease.

Evaluate your relationship and decide if you can bring a drop of pathos in these stages of compassion that inevitably appear after a while. Always remember that the sexual part of your relationship is very important. Keep her alive!