9 Myths About Oral Sex

Whether you have experienced oral sex at least once in your sexual life so far, or are among the women who categorically refuse this form of sexual intercourse, it goes without saying that this topic is not one that you can easily discuss.

Especially for reasons related to the culture of the local space, the system of norms in which we, Eastern Europeans, were trained, and especially due to misinformation, oral sex has been attributed to various myths and negative connotations.

And they can be called myths because, despite these preconceptions, statistics say that oral sex is a common and reciprocal practice in the lives of Romanian couples.

Find out the most common myths about oral sex!

Oral sex, between pride and prejudice

Oral sex is degrading, degrading and the women who practice it will not have the respect and affection of the man next to them.

This preconception, deeply rooted in both women's and men's thinking, is perhaps the greatest misogynistic cliché for women. The idea of ​​oral sex is often rejected by the prejudice and fear of women not to be disregarded if they do so.

Find out which of the myths about oral sex are true or not and think about whether it is worth imposing limits on your relationship, based on simple prejudices!

1. Oral sex is not hygienic

Fake! Careful and regular intimate hygiene is just as effective for men as it is for women. It is true that men urinate and ejaculate through the same channel, but this does not mean that penis hygiene is automatically compromised.

If this myth is one of the reasons why you are reluctant to have oral sex with your boyfriend, before you get to the bedroom, take a bubble bath together, on which occasion you can manage and clean each other without the slightest embarrassment.

Also, a complete set of tests, which you both perform, will ensure that oral sex is not a danger to your health.

2. Brushing your teeth prevents the transmission of disease

Fake! If you know that your partner is ill and has a sexually transmitted disease, brushing your teeth, after oral sex, will not prevent its transmission.

Brushing your teeth and using other dental hygiene products will help cleanse your mouth of bacteria and germs, but they are not a barrier to infections in your body.

Also, if you are not sure about your boyfriend's health and you have doubts about his sexual experiences up to you, it is not recommended to offer him this type of sex, at least, not unprotected, nor to receive oral sex from him.

3. I cannot use a condom during oral sex

Again, fake! There are specially designed condoms on the market, with various fruity aromas, intended for oral sex.

The explanation is simple: some women cannot overcome the fear of not having a strange taste or of not contacting any disease from their partner, and then they prefer to use protection.

You can do the same if only this way you will be calm and relaxed, and you will enjoy the intimate moments spent with your partner.

 4. Sperm helps you get rid of acne

Fake! It's a myth. Sperm will not help you get rid of acne and will not give you any other benefits related to the health and beauty of your skin.

5. Oral sex - an alternative for menstruation

Fake! If you have oral sex with your boyfriend only when you are menstruating, in the idea that this way you will compensate for the lack of penetration proper, find out that you will make things worse.

Men pay a lot of attention to moments like this, even if you are tempted to believe that they only want pleasure, no matter where and how they receive it. Well, that's not it.

If your boyfriend notices that you are only willing to have oral sex when you can't have vaginal sex because of menstruation, he will consider that you are doing it only out of obligation and not because you want it, which will inevitably lead to a cooling of the relationship. to a reserved attitude on his part.

6. I may vomit

Most likely, this can be possible if you are not convinced that you want to have oral sex with your boyfriend or you feel sick, but you do it out of obligation.

Apart from these two situations, it is unlikely that you will experience feelings of vomiting while stimulating your lover's penis with your tongue and lips.

Your partner mustn't force you, no matter how good you feel, and as far as you are concerned, it is not necessary to stimulate or try to swallow a large part of the penis, but to play with your lips and tongue as much as you feel. that you can bear.

Swallowing sperm is not mandatory so discuss this in advance with your partner. It's up to you how oral sex will work.

7. The jaw may become blocked

There is, indeed, a small percentage of cases in which this has happened, but you should not develop a permanent obsession and fear from mere statistics.

In general, blockage of the jaw can be caused by one's state of tension, agitation, and even arousal and can be prevented by adopting a relaxed attitude and alternating fellatio with manual stimulation.

This way you will also get rid of the stress of an embarrassing situation, and your boyfriend will reach the heights of pleasure and ejaculate faster.

8. My boyfriend will no longer respect me

If you start from the idea that oral sex is degrading for you and this will diminish your self-confidence, then it is better not to do it.

However, it is good to know that men's perception of their girlfriends offering oral sex is different from the idea that grinds you.

He will feel wanted, he will know that he has a sexy, uninhibited, and confident woman by his side and he will be eager to bring you, in his turn, to the heights of ecstasy.

9. If I don't have oral sex, my boyfriend will leave me

It is a very possible scenario, but in the situation where he does not love you and does not want from you only sex and sexual experiences as diverse as possible.

When your partner asks you to have oral sex, letting it be known that he will leave you in the opposite direction, the next step you need to do is not sit on your knees and stimulate his penis with cold, for fear of losing him, but of leaving him without thinking.

A man who loves can understand the needs and opinions of his partner related to such delicate topics and does not impose ultimatums, nor does he threaten separation.