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Plaid: an essential accessory for all seasons Plaids, those versatile pieces of soft, comforting fabric, are no longer simply reserved for cold winter evenings. Today, plaid has firmly established itself as an essential accessory for all seasons, bringing warmth, style and practicality to our living spaces.
By Benjamin Pauly3 years ago in Families
my body will never be the same again
Despite being the same weight for most of my 39 years, my body's shape has changed immensely. Thankfully I have never had much problem with my body or worrying about what it looks like, I do think I have my husband also to thank for this. My mum and sisters are not body positive but neither are they body negative it was just never mentioned growing up it just wasn't a thing. None of us are particularly bothered by make-up or looking glamorous although my older sister has always been very cool! When pregnant with my two children, I put on weight, but with my first, it dropped off fairly quickly. My second was different as she was a big baby for my small frame and after her birth, I was put on medication due to post-natal anxiety. The medication had a plethora of unwanted side effects one of which was weight gain something that I had never experienced before. I’ve never had to watch what I eat and I’m not a massive fan of forced exercise so when I for the first time did not like what I saw in the mirror I started down the road of dieting and exercise and it was debilitating. No one else seemed to notice except me, whilst seeing my reflection or my clothes getting a little snug. I tried for a month to restrict my eating and up my exercise but not having a huge appetite anyway I began to feel unwell as I was restricting myself and with a small baby to look after I decided to go down a different route and come off my medication. Now two years on when I look at my bumpy body I’m proud to say that it made two babies and I’m comfortable in my now ageing skin. I think no matter how much exercise I do, there is only so much kale I can eat in a day it will never look like it did 20 years ago and frankly I can't be bothered! I still do have body hang-ups occasionally like everyone, I wish my teeth were a bit straighter, my boobs and my bum have started to go south and I have age spots on my hands but there is nothing I can do about it now. I want to set the same example to my two daughters that my mum did to me which is just to be nonchalant about it, neither positive nor negative. Not easy with a teenager growing up with TikTok and Instagram but I have instilled in her that it is better to eat what she wants (within reason) and be happy in her skin. Thankfully she is very much into sports so is quite fit and strong! When she gives you the gift of children. She’s given you herself. Her life will never be the same. She will change. Her ambitions. Her priorities. Her body. Her work. Her entire life will uproot. She’ll push her own desires and even her own self worth to the back of the shelf whilst she focuses on everyone else in the family except herself for a while. Your job as a husband isn’t to support her through pregnancy. It’s not to “provide” for her. It’s not to “get annoyed” because she’s always cranky, bored because her body has changed and it’s certainly not to start looking for greener pastures…. There will be days when I don’t like what I see, this year in particular as I turn the big 4–0 but I’d rather age gracefully by looking after myself and being grateful for the body and skin I’ve got as it’s all I’ve got. Thanks you for reading:)
By Muhammad Arifin 3 years ago in Families
Will I ever sleep again?
It's 10:42pm and I wake up angry after my kid wakes up, I go into his bedroom and try to calm him down. She was in a half-asleep state, screaming gibberish, and it was difficult to talk to her and calm her down. My 2 year old has never been a good sleeper so I'm used to it, but I only got 20 minutes of sleep myself, feeling dizzy and trying to wait patiently outside the door, peeking through the crack in the door until I saw her eyes closure. From the other side of the landing, I heard loud laughter coming from my teenage children’s bedroom. I rushed into her room and found her lying on the bed, staring at her phone. I scolded her that it was already very late and the curfew started at ten o'clock in the evening, and threatened to confiscate her mobile phone if she dared to make any noise. All I got in response was a blank stare, no answer, no apology, nothing. As I walked back to the landing, the toddler stirred again and I fought back tears. Why is raising children so difficult for me and why don’t they sleep? ! My teenage kids, like any other 14-year-old, are glued to their phones 24/7. I regret giving her TikTok, but peer pressure forced me to. My child decides whether he sleeps or not and nothing I do seems to affect his sleep schedule. Both of my kids are at extremely difficult developmental stages in their lives where they don't know who they are or what they want, so they take it out on me because I'm their safe place, but I often don't feel like a safe place when I can't control my emotions and I feel like I'm losing my mind trying to help them control their emotions. I have never had to practice mindfulness so often when they all yell at me and take deep breaths to no avail. The teen explained a complicated situation to her friend that didn't sound like a problem to me, but it was important to her. At her age, friendship is everything and a small quarrel can mean the end of the world. Meanwhile the toddler screams because first he wants toast, then bread, then toast, but wants it in the blue bowl, which needs to be washed, but then he doesn't want jam Or butter, even if he asked for it repeatedly. Then the teenager will blame you for not listening when the screaming continued! I guess when you become a mother, you never sleep well. You always get a little nervous when you listen to your phone squealing or beeping. Whether they were in the same room or separated, we were constantly worried about them, and my own mother confirmed this. I think the point of this article is that raising children is very difficult no matter how old they are. You think you've gotten through one difficult phase, only to face the next one filled with different challenges. I know I'm not alone and I try not to complain because I'm truly grateful and blessed to have my girls. That's me, sometimes I just need some rest and sleep!
By Muhammad Arifin 3 years ago in Families
Explain why popcorn pops to a kid who loves watching it in the microwave.. Content Warning.
Popcorn is like a tiny explosion of joy in a bag. You might have wondered why those little kernels magically transform into fluffy, delicious snacks when you pop them in the microwave. Well, get ready to embark on a journey into the world of popcorn popping – it's a mix of science, fun, and a dash of magic!
By JOSIAH NWOKO3 years ago in Families
I was laid off after 25 years of working my way up in the insurance industry. It was the best thing to happen to me
I was 20 years old when I started an entry-level job in the insurance industry. Twenty-five years later, I was a director reporting to the CEO when my position was eliminated.
By Mirela Nan3 years ago in Families
Exploring the Pinnacle of Cool: Unveiling the Top 3 Cooling Boxes
In a world that embraces adventure and outdoor experiences, the need for reliable cooling solutions has become more critical than ever. Amazon, a hub for innovative products, offers an extensive array of cooling boxes catering to diverse needs. To guide you through the maze of options, let's delve into a detailed exploration of the three top-tier cooling boxes available on the platform. These aren't just mere containers; they are technological marvels designed to elevate your cooling experience to unprecedented heights.
By Matúš Kohútik3 years ago in Families
Maximizing Fertility
The article explores the importance of sex positions in conception, recommends specific positions for increasing chances of pregnancy, provides tips for maximizing conception, debunks myths and misconceptions, and emphasizes the significance of timing and understanding the body's signals for increased chances of conception.
By Timothy A Rowland3 years ago in Families
Unlocking the Art of Family-Friendly Road Trips: The Tablet Holder Revolution
Picture this: You're cruising down the open road, wind in your hair, and the promise of adventure ahead. But suddenly, the harmony is shattered by the infamous chorus from the backseat, "Are we there yet?" We've all been there, and it's enough to make even the most patient parent consider turning the car around. But fear not! In the next few minutes, we're going to unravel the mystery of stress-free family road trips, where tears are replaced with laughter, and chaos gives way to bliss.
By Devan Bast3 years ago in Families
