No one is Protected From Divorce | Divorce Planning
There are so many people, parents especially who are getting divorced, who think they are “untouchable” thinking NOTHING is going to happen to them.
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There’s no way these dramas and stories are going to happen to them…. There’s no way that these situations are going to happen because the X doesn’t have money. The X doesn’t have that power… The X doesn’t have the ability or the capacity to do that… The ex is a nice person- he or she would never do anything like that. And I’ll tell you something, if you think that you can PREDICT what your ex or soon to be ex is going to be like, you are DELUSIONAL. You cannot predict what your soon to be ex is going to turn into just as much as you cannot predict that they’re always going to say and do what they say they’re going to do. Things change, life changes, situations change, people come and go into their lives: new girlfriends, new boyfriends, new husbands, new wives, new circumstances arise. You cannot predict. And this is why all I always say you must at the very, very beginning, even BEFORE you talk about getting divorced, you must carefully and logically plan your divorce.
You MUST carefully and think about all the different angles and components of your divorce. You cannot be like in a fast-food restaurant and say “I’ll take one hamburger, one french fry, and one coke I’m done for my meal. It’s not a pick and choose situation. Divorce comes with a lot of analysis and logical planning that makes SENSE for you and for the kids moving forward so that everyone can move forward with their lives from that point on. If you don’t do it that way, and you do the fast-food menu style, you’re going to end up doing the fast food system the rest of your life saying, “OK I’ll give you this, you give me that” it’s going to be a bartering system. It’s going to be a constant negotiation. It’s going to be constant bickering and screaming and yelling and freaking out at each other. It’s never going to end. You have to do it RIGHT from the very beginning, so if you want to learn how to carefully and logically plan your divorce, I’ve created a course in Divorced by Rose, which gets you through a 10 page analysis that gets you “thinking outside of the box”. It gets you thinking like a person who’s about to get divorced: What are all the different things you need to think about? How do you carefully and logically plan everything so that it makes sense today AND for the future? How do you remove the emotions from the equation so that you could think logically, meticulously and plan it out in a way where you and the other parent can just move forward with your lives in parallel.
You don’t want one, if you staying behind and one going forward, because that disconnect is what’s going to cause the craziness and the sadness and the dramas and the stupidities that end up happening. So, if you’d like to learn more about this course, Logically Planning your Divorce, please join the Divorce by Rose Community APP that I’ve carefully created to bring together parents with coaches. What does that mean? Parents have questions, concerns and worries and the coaches, experts, and professionals that I’ve carefully selected have the wisdom, the knowledge, the experiences, the know-how to answer your questions. We’re bringing these two together so that you can move forward with your life. So please check the link below for the link to this amazing course that I’ve created on this very detailed analysis that is going to change your life and the course of your divorce completely.
The Divorce by Rose Community App was inspired by Ravit Rose: Divorce Coach & Mentor | Author of “Unwanted Nasty Divorces” | Founder of the Divorce by Rose Community App designed for parents who are either contemplating divorce or newly separated and wondering “Should I stay married or should I get divorced”?
We are not pro marriage. We are not pro divorce either. We are a select group of coaches, experts & professionals from various industries offering you realistic strategies and solutions and support to help you find the LOGICAL answers that YOU need to help you decide whether you should stay married or get divorced. And then, regardless of your decision, we provide you with your next steps.
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