Forget it, I still decided to give up on you

I saw a quote: "You know, from when I decided to give up? It was from the time I knew that I was just backing up. "

In some relationships, the reason for not going to the end is not because not enough love, but, because since the beginning, one party has not loved.

They, simply because after the loss of someone, need another person to fill the void inside themselves.

The person who was approached, however, naively thought that the other person was with them because they liked them.

This should only be a male and female starring in the scene, but the addition of a third person with an identity, then, is destined to not have a good ending.

1. disappointment, not a day to save up

Once read a story: a couple married for 8 years, still had no children, to take care of his wife, and the man said he hated children.

For so many years, the family pushed them to have children, to later, let them go, as long as they are happy.

At one time, the woman also thought that they were destined to live this way for the rest of their lives, which is also, what she was looking forward to in married life.

However, in the ninth year, a strange woman came to the door, she said she was bad for the man's children, asking them to divorce.

The man knelt in front of his wife, admitted his cheating, and said that he could leave his wife a sum of money, but the child, he wanted

The woman did not cry, nor did she make any demands with the man who thought he would go all the way, and they went through the divorce so calmly.

Out of the registry door, the woman took out the man's marriage certificate from the bag, he does not have that ability.

For so many years, the man has always thought he was accommodating his wife it is his wife who has been keeping the man decent.

2. The third-person movie

Why would someone be willing to give up a relationship that he once fought to keep and guard?

In a museum of lost love, I once saw a gift that belonged to three people, a total of four movie tickets.

The story reads: 'I never thought that you would watch the same movie twice, even, I was the second half of your rush."

The boy had a new love a long time ago, only, he was not willing to give up his girlfriend, and already have a stable life

Therefore, for the gifts for New Year's Day, he would prepare two. Even if it is a new movie release, he will buy two copies of the same movie tickets.

The girlfriend never noticed until one day, when she was washing his clothes, she found the movie stubs.

Then associating this period, the boyfriend's various busy and not home, even the initiative to contact, can not find this person.

The fact is that she realized that her position had been replaced by someone else, and even the whole world knew about it, just that she hadn't noticed it yet.

3. Forgiveness, worthless

Someone said: "In fact, forgiveness betrayal, is the world, the most worthless thing."

Because, people who deserve your forgiveness, will not choose to betray you. And those who you give forgiveness will continue to betray you.

Sometimes, when some people have sweetened the deal on one thing, he subconsciously planted a fluke seed in his heart.

They will think that as long as it is still you, as long as they are willing to bow down, they can be forgiven countless times and they can repeat the same mistake.

Then, in the end, that hurt party can get, is only the ability to be hurt repeatedly, and the ability to constantly help each other find a step.

'He should still love me 'He will always have something to suffer from' 'He still stays with me, everything can start over again.'

These people, in this over and over again self-anesthesia, go and waste their time, with someone they do not love that much.

They naively tell everyone that they have met someone they like. The person who likes it is telling others how naive she is.

4. love, can disappear and be replaced

Many times, why do you want to ask a person who does not love you, to get a reason why he does not love you?

It's because you still want to tell yourself that he just can't choose you because of objective conditions.

You are the one who is hurt the other party has made the attitude very clear, and push and pull have been tried many times.

However, you still do not die, not willing to turn back, desperately pulling that humble self to the extreme.

Perhaps, there is a saying on the internet that is right: "No reply, is the best reply. Not to love, can never become love. "

Like, is a two-way arrow, not just having the effort, will be able to go to the end.