Why is the shelf life of sweet love only one to three years?

Love is a flower, and flowers always have a flowering period. It is often heard that the freshness period of love is between one and two years, and that love is the most beautiful during this period. When the love develops into marriage, the freshness period of love starts to change subtly as two people live together, and love is converted into affection.

I don't know if you agree with this point of view, take my love to the third year of constant quarrels, always feeling the lack of what, and not each other in the heart of someone else, nor mutual love, it is like to the third year of the endless number of annoying things came one after another, I often because there is no previous patience and blame themselves, and the girlfriend said the most phrase is "you do not have I often admonish myself that it is not easy for two people to know and love each other and to cherish each other, but to be honest the two of them always feel that habit and responsibility are greater than love, and love has become affection.

I have been trying to manage my love, often feeling confused, I do not know whether the world's other people love like me, look around seems to be parents' sister and brother-in-law are also more affectionate than love.

I stumbled upon a scientific report

"Why only people with brain problems will fall in love with you".

I seem to get the answer between, and then share this with all of you, I hope to get a little inspiration. Scientists have found that people fall in love when their brains do undergo incredible changes. Scientists speculate that at the heart of the intoxication is a substance called methamphetamine, or PEA for short, a chemical that is quite similar to amphetamines and also brings us a feeling of euphoria.

Methamphetamine is secreted by the nervous system, and when it enters the circulatory system, it produces a feeling of euphoria similar to that of drug addiction. It is this substance that makes your mind throb, makes your hands sweat and tremble, and makes your whole body excited and upset. There is also a rumor that methamphetamine can cause you to rip off your intended person's clothes as fast as possible. (① i.e. dopamine, adrenaline, and phenobarbital - engorged skin, moist palms; rapid breathing; full-body tension. ② Pandemonium, which is a natural painkiller. (③ Compounds of methamphetamine, which are rapidly produced in large quantities in the body of people who first fall in love)

All of these substances produce intoxicating chemicals only after the first romantic love, which is the most natural substance that gives the body the most euphoric feeling.

But please note that this ecstatic feeling does not last, dopamine and other substances in gender relationships reach their peak in about six months when your love is the sweetest, each other can accept any of each other's shortcomings, and this time you just do anything together and are very happy.

Here I have to remind all the male compatriots if you want to cross into the hall of marriage as soon as possible, it is best to ask for marriage when you are the sweetest, when you are like glue, the later the more difficult, female compatriots if you do not want to play the role of housewife prematurely this time also have to remain rational, of course, this varies from person to person, not all of them, theoretically, the fewer the number of love people dopamine brings the feeling The longer it lasts, too many times in love dopamine lasts a very short time, which explains why first love is infinitely better, fast food love most of the pursuit of sex, why some people can't get out of a relationship, these are dopamine at work, he/she can no longer find the heartwarming feeling, accompanying many people into marriage is not necessarily the most loved person, he brought the feeling far inferior to the first love.

Of course, this is only the physical level to explain the shelf life of love, perhaps some people say I will always love each other spiritually, but take my personal experience this is very difficult, not that I am scum, I have said before, I also know that it is not easy for two people to love each other, but after the sweet period of love, some of the previous mutually tolerable things such as habits personality, etc., now seems to be the source of quarrels, so girls will say The classic words "you did not love me before", to be honest, two people in love for three years have become each other's lives in the family how will not love it, just not before the feeling of ecstasy.

Many couples in life have been in love for many years and are still very sweet, in fact, they just inadvertently turned on the key to making methamphetamine last, people do not wake up in some mysterious morning and find their brains full of excess methamphetamine, and then fall in love with their significant other, methamphetamine and other chemicals are only after people encounter specific stimuli, emotions and internal organs react accordingly, and then only by The body secretes them.

What are the specific stimulants? For example, the little surprises you create for her, the unintentional romance in your life, etc. These will extend the shelf life of your love far longer.

About how to keep each other from producing chemicals such as methamphetamine, this involves the way the sexes get along, space is limited, we will talk about it when we have a chance.

In conclusion, if you are at the end of your sweet period, be more tolerant of each other, don't think he doesn't love you as much as he used to, and maybe he doesn't know what the problem is, although it's dull, but is the love gone? --I don't think so. It just has a new face and still exists between two people in its calm form.

The love that exists for a lifetime also needs to be managed hard. Love is like a bank, and each of the two couples must keep depositing money into the bank for the bank of love to continue to operate and even get richer. This is difficult to do, how to run the relationship between the sexes fact many people seem to know, such as the most online church that boys need to tolerate the need for tolerance need patience, etc., in fact, this is not the optimal answer to love preservation, this is only the last straw to maintain the marriage, the key also lies in how to keep each other's passion, so that dopamine has been secreted.