Confessions logo

10 Bad Habits You Should Break

This lesson will go over ten bad habits that you should break in depth.

By Alin BoicuPublished 2 years ago 9 min read
Like

Let’s get this party going.

1. The Appropriate Situation

Are you on the lookout for a sign from the universe? Do you need a motivator to get your life moving in the right direction? Too many people put off pursuing their dreams, hoping that the right time will come when everything will fall perfectly into place.

No matter how long you wait, the perfect moment never comes.

There is no point in waiting because there will never be a perfect time to start working on oneself.

You will never receive a sign from the universe telling you that it is time to begin a new chapter in your life.

It is impossible to change your life and achieve your goals if you spend all of your time waiting for the right sign or looking for the right time. As a result, the best time to embark on any journey is not someday in the future… but right now. We are now in the present. To be honest, you may be nervous or unprepared for the event.

You may not be confident in your ability to succeed right now, but you will feel the same tomorrow and the next day.

So, rather than wasting time waiting for the day when you will be completely prepared, muster the courage to begin today.

There’s a chance you’ll fail.

It’s possible that you’ll discover that you have a lot to learn or that you don’t know what you’re doing. Even if your journey starts on a rocky path, you’ve already overcome the most difficult obstacle you’ll face. You’ll have taken a significant step closer to realizing your long-held ambitions and goals once you begin your journey.

2. Constant Scrolling.

How frequently do you log into your social media accounts? Do you update your feed every five minutes or so? Do you find it difficult to stop yourself from reading and rereading the same posts 20 times?

When you’re feeling unproductive or anxious, it’s easy to turn to social media for relief. If you want to relax, you can always open your phone, scroll through a few dozen posts, and turn off your brain for a few minutes.

This bad habit, on the other hand, has the potential to quickly take over your day, wasting hours of your time and completely halting your ability to be productive.

Constant scrolling can also elicit negative emotions such as anxiety, jealousy, and loneliness, all of which can reduce motivation and self-esteem. So put your phone away for the time being. Close and restart all web browsers on your computer. You should also avoid social media for a while.

If you’re having trouble disconnecting from your devices, consider installing a website blocker, which prevents you from accessing distracting platforms like social media.

It may be difficult to transition away from social media at first, but once you reduce your scrolling and take a break from your devices, you will discover that you have reclaimed hours of your day.

3. Unusual Rhythms and Cycles

Do you struggle to fall asleep at a reasonable hour? Nobody has the same sleeping habits as everyone else. For whatever reason, some people go to bed at 9:30 p.m. every night. Some people, on the other hand, aren’t tired until well after midnight. It’s critical to maintain a consistent sleep schedule from day to day, whether you’re a night owl or an early riser.

Assume you go to bed at 11:00 p.m. every night. But you’ll be awake until 4 a.m. tonight, which is unusual.

Although one late night may not seem like much, a single irregular cycle can cause major disruptions in your schedule for the rest of the week. If you go to bed at four a.m., you’ll be awake until noon. You’ve completely forgotten about breakfast. You’re tired, and you skipped your morning routine, which can all impact your ability to be productive throughout the day.

Worse, one disrupted sleep cycle can disrupt subsequent cycles, causing your bedtime to be pushed back and interfering with your body’s natural circadian rhythm. In other words, a late-night is never just that: it is always the culmination of a series of late nights. Disrupting your sleep cycle can quickly escalate into a much more serious problem, so stick to a consistent schedule, go to bed at a reasonable hour, and allow your predictable schedule to promote a more productive lifestyle.

4. Extremely Exaggerated Expectations

Do you find it difficult to meet your goals? Some people never achieve their goals because they are either too large or too complex to be realistically achieved. If this sounds familiar, it doesn’t matter how strong your willpower is because you will give in to your desires.

You could be the most motivated person on the planet, but you would still fall short of your goals.

Fortunately, there is a solution.

Replace your lofty, outlandish goals with smaller, more attainable goals that are easier to achieve. In no way am I suggesting that you lower your expectations further than they already are. Make a strategy for breaking your dreams down into smaller, more manageable chunks. Focusing on specific goals will allow you to make significant progress toward them… and, in some cases, even achieve them.

5. Habits that cause stress

I’m curious about what people do when they are stressed or overwhelmed.

Something in your life is causing you stress, anxiety, and frustration, whether you’re relocating to a new city or have recently been assigned a large project at work.

And negative emotions encourage you to engage in unhealthy behaviors like snacking and overeating. When people are stressed or anxious, they eat, but why do they do so?

Stress-relieving foods have a limited time of effectiveness.

At the moment, a chocolate cupcake is irresistible. Although it may appear that your stress is dissipating, this state of euphoria is fleeting. It is more likely that your poor eating habits will have long-term consequences for you.

For example, stress eating can cause emotional distress as well as feelings of guilt or shame. By providing an incentive, also encourages bad habits such as a sedentary lifestyle and an unhealthy diet. There are better ways to deal with negative emotions than overeating if you eat when you’re stressed.

Rather than burying your stress in sugary foods, try writing it down in a private journal to relieve stress. Journaling may help you reduce your stress and anxiety while having no negative effects on your physical health.

6. A proclivity for being late on a regular basis

Are you always late for everything?

Many people struggle to keep appointments and meet strict deadlines. They’re always ten to fifteen minutes late for everything. He or she is never finished when he or she should be, and he or she is always apologizing for being late.

Being late is a frustrating habit that irritates those around you. It does, however, have an effect on more than just your interpersonal relationships. It has an impact on your relationship with yourself as well as your relationships with others.

Consider the consequences of this. You’re 15 minutes behind the rest of the world every day. You never seem to have enough time to finish your chores or prepare nutritious meals. You feel frazzled and guilty about your actions every time you miss an appointment or a deadline. As a result, being late causes stress and confusion in your life.

When you’re racing against the clock, the feeling of being out of control can be overwhelming. It’s easy to feel as if your responsibilities are slipping through your fingers.

You’re always on the go, rushing from one location to another. You don’t have time to catch your breath or relax. If any of this sounds familiar, it’s time to rearrange your plans. It’s time to put an end to your tardiness once and for all.

It will make a significant difference if you get up 15 minutes earlier in the morning.

Reduce the number of commitments you have on your calendar to give yourself some breathing room. Developing the habit of arriving 5 or 10 minutes early will assist you in succeeding. Whatever method you use, it’s critical that you change the pace of your daily routine. As a result, you will be able to regain control of your lifestyle and find time to rest and relax.

7. Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

Do you obsess over things over which you have no control? Examine your own flaws and weaknesses. Do you have a crush on them? Too many people are preoccupied with and critical of things they have no control over. Consider how you may dislike the sound of your own voice, despite the fact that it is a fundamental aspect of who you are.

You can criticize your voice all day long, but it will not change the way you sound no matter how hard you try. It is a waste of time and energy to spend time worrying about things you cannot change. Instead, concentrate on things over which you have control, such as your health.

Consider the aspects of your life that you can change, such as your career or relationships. You may not be able to change the tone of your voice, but you can always influence the decisions you make and the way you live your life.

8. Using the snooze function

A stressful day is frequently preceded by a stressful morning. Instead of getting out of bed on time, you hit the snooze button a few times until you realize you’re late.

You leap from bed, rush through your morning routine, and dash out the door, feeling tense and anxious the entire time you’re awake. But what if you hadn’t gotten out of bed when you were supposed to? What if you had refused to press the snooze button on your alarm clock?

You might discover that hitting the snooze button can mean the difference between a chaotic, stressful day and a calm, efficient routine. Giving yourself a few extra minutes in the morning can help you establish new, healthy habits. You can take a break to eat a healthy meal or simply sit in silence. In other words, reclaiming a few minutes of your morning allows you to reclaim control of your day.

Rather than racing against the clock, live your life the way you want.

9. Making Emotionally Driven Decisions

Do you have a habit of making rash or irrational decisions? The vast majority of people make decisions based on their emotions, both big and small. You become engrossed at the moment and select the option that feels the most rewarding at the time, regardless of the consequences.

However, a few hours later, you may find yourself wishing you had done things differently.

Set aside some time to consider your options so you don’t make decisions you’ll come to regret later. Consider the following example: Someone approaches you and requests a favor. Consider whether this is the best decision for you for at least 5 minutes. “Do I really want to commit to this?” If the answer is no, you should not be embarrassed to say no.

Making thoughtful and honest decisions now, on the other hand, can save you a lifetime of regret in the long run.

10. The Deep End

Do you have lofty goals for yourself and your life? Are you prepared to take the necessary steps to make your dreams a reality? Many people confidently throw themselves into their passions, determined to succeed, but they rarely achieve long-term success.

Instead, they are met with failure. They have given up on their goals and aspirations and have lost all hope. Why?

Because they are diving into the deep end before they have learned to swim.

Every journey, whether personal or professional, requires humility and patience from both parties.

As much as you want to dive right in, you need to spend some time in the shallows first, building confidence and learning the fundamentals.

Remember this when making your next move: While it’s exciting to imagine yourself accomplishing great things, no dream can be realized in a single day. You will eventually succeed if you remain humble and patient… It will, however, take some time to complete.

Bad habits
Like

About the Creator

Alin Boicu

Reader insights

Be the first to share your insights about this piece.

How does it work?

Add your insights

Comments

There are no comments for this story

Be the first to respond and start the conversation.

Sign in to comment

    Find us on social media

    Miscellaneous links

    • Explore
    • Contact
    • Privacy Policy
    • Terms of Use
    • Support

    © 2024 Creatd, Inc. All Rights Reserved.