Don't set conditions for life, take back your joy and vitality.

You may adhere to the belief that "I must find a man who loves me, and only me."

This idea is actually an excuse, it masks the deeper truth that you are refusing to accept life as it is.

The reason why this idea is superficial is that it seems to show that your uniqueness, strengths and values can only be activated when you have a strong love or marriage.

In fact, your survival, your unique abilities, and your goals do not depend on them.

If you insist on such a marital relationship as a condition for the acceptance of life, then these beautiful qualities cannot be revealed.

Because you are saying, "unless I live according to my conditions, I would rather not survive." No one has the right to fight against his natural vitality and the joy of life.

Once you enjoy your life with all your heart, you may really get what you want, but not when you insist on it as a condition for survival.

You have no right to set such conditions, just as a flower has no right to insist that it must grow in the most favorable and sunny position in the garden to survive and grow.

You are pouting and angry, you are picky and complaining, and in doing so, you cut yourself off from the joy and vitality that makes life worth living.

When you let go of your conditions, your own goals will make life happy every day. You forget what you really have-health and vitality, you forget your talent and intuition. A lot of people are not lucky to have these.

If you try to forcibly use these to achieve your goals, the goals you set as living conditions, then you will misuse them.

You have to live in this confidence:

I believe that your goal has been achieved, will be achieved, and is being achieved.

You have to live in this confidence:

You have such a meaning and purpose, otherwise you wouldn't be here.

The uniqueness of your own personality should be cherished. It has its own meaning. You have no right to crush it, just as you have no right to crush a flower.

The specific purpose of your current personality can only be achieved in the current environment in the best way as a whole. The people you can help now, and the good deeds you can do, will never be done in exactly the same way.

And when you deny your own life, you will eventually deny the lives of others.

You don't make yourself aware of the beauty and complexity of your existence.

You don't make yourself aware of your inner self's spontaneity and burst of joy, and your current personality, the person you call yourself, is born out of it.

You also do not realize this creative energy, it strives to enter and form your life, and it sings in your life as if it were the first dawn of heaven and earth.

You put yourself against all this, against the nature, joy and vitality of life. You turned your back on it with a trivial excuse:

"in this life, if no one loves me in a relationship, then I threaten to destroy myself and break this spiritual body like a child who loses his temper and breaks a glass."

Now you have a lot of potential and a lot of people need your help. It's not going to be a boring task, but you're making it boring-you can't live happily while rejecting life.

You must accept life according to its own conditions and have the confidence that your life now has its meaning, beauty and purpose.

I know you can do that. Then you will begin to see the meaning that has always existed in your life, the purpose and joy that you have not been able to fill.

Men and women who do not have your 1% blessing or 1/3 reason to look forward to another day have gladly praised dusk and dawn and listened to their heartbeats with gratitude and joy.

They make themselves and bring happiness to others. They accept life on its own terms, and in such acceptance, they are full of grace-the grace comes from giving all you have to life.

Your basic personality in this life is open, but you try to shut it down. It touches all kinds of people, beyond the boundaries of gender, and you try to bind it within.

You feel the need for a great love, but you already have this great love without knowing it. You're trying to keep your personality safe. You're trying to hide yourself in a man's arms.

Your love is very deep and wide. Because of its vast size, it can help a lot of people. When it helps others, it will bring you a lot of satisfaction and happiness. But you must not adhere to any of the conditions as a prerequisite for survival.

Again, I'm not saying that you won't have what you want, but as long as you take it as a condition for survival, you won't get it.

Some people think that without wealth, there is no point in survival.

To you, it sounds stupid. Some people commit suicide because of their wealth as a condition for survival, because of this obsession, they cannot appreciate the relationship of love; and because of your obsession with your lover, you have been unwilling to appreciate the real miracle of your existence.

Dear young man, my beloved friend, there is no other way. Life must be accepted. You don't have to make terms. When you stop using this as a condition for survival, you are likely to be loved by a man.

You are valuable, unique and brilliant--

Whether you are loved by a man or not

You have your own goals waiting for you to achieve-

Whether you are loved by a man or not.

Accepting life according to its own conditions will unlock the secrets of joy, peace and abundance. There's no other way. Never. You can't intimidate life, you can't force life, you can't set conditions.

Don't set conditions for life. This is the biggest lesson anyone can learn. Basically, there is no other homework, because this lesson contains all the other lessons.

If you do not set up obstacles according to prejudices and conditions, energy, joy, and creativity will flow through you completely automatically, and all your wishes will be fulfilled. But when you set them as conditions for survival, they will never come true.

Life within you only knows this condition: continuous, non-preset development and expansion.

Life does not follow predefined patterns or requirements. Life can satisfy you and others, it can bring you unexpected satisfaction, but when you try to force it to follow a certain direction, it can never be. How can you threaten your life and its vitality?

When you throw away all the conditions and accept life as it is, you will be your own joy and will help those you will still come into contact with.