Trey Anderson
Bio
Greetings. I am Trey J. Anderson. I am an inspiring cook, a father of two, and in the works of creating my own autobiography into a book 1 day.
Writing to me is therapy really, and truly my peace of mind. I hope my work can touch & inspire.
Stories (3/0)
Lock N Me
My Story. Loc journey My first decision contemplated on my Loc transition began at age 24 nearly after my birthday passing in June. At first the idea only dawned on me due to my inspiration from one of my favorite hip hop artist, J. Cole. It was also a time of one of my darkest moments in life. Till this day the album 4 Your Eyez Only remains an eternal stain in my livelihood due to much of the lyrics giving me reminiscent memories and events that I’ve lived through. At the time, my hair was a messy fro with not much care being tended to it due to my lack of concern of myself. I would sport this messy hairstyle for roughly 9 months straight until deciding to cut it down to a czar myself. The thought of adorning locs fell short to not much surprise, as my decision to wanting to sport a high top fade came to much liking. This style I would sport for about the next 2 and a half years of my life, following my transition into moving from my hometown of NY to Wilmington, DE to be with my own family. Those years sporting this style would come with much internal deconstruction of myself as a man, father and ex boyfriend to my past lover. As the years of dealing with these battles only continued to rise, so would my frustration with maintaining my appearance and style of choice.
By Trey Anderson4 years ago in Blush
My Everything
Shaai, I want to be as transparent with you at this moment, while I am comfortable doing so. Some things I will say, that is strictly my opinion. Some things I will say are coming from a place of pain & things I am still working on to move forward with. Some things I will reiterate because it still lingers with me. I don’t want you to take any of these as attacks to make you be defensive, nor I don’t want you to think the things I will say is to put you down. Which is why I am expressing that beforehand that I do say it, so you can better understand me and where I am coming from. I will understand if you disagree or agree with the things I will say. If something I say sounds out of line or makes you uncomfortable, I apologize beforehand, and in return please tell me so that I can fix it. If there is anything you would like to in response to after this letter. I would be more than welcome to read it and understand from your perspective and work on what it is that you find me lacking in or not doing.
By Trey Anderson4 years ago in Humans
Nothing without a Queen
My Definition a Woman: To be a Black woman, it entails the kinks and curls of one’s hair, the fierceness in her eyes and the drive in her heart and mindset. Black women are the backbone of black men. Black Queens are the backbones of black Kings, pulling the weight to make sure her children are thriving. Black Girl Embedded in every day is a magnificence that is so easy to miss because they are so mired in the struggle and what society says they are. Black women know they deserve better, which is why they strive for the best. Black girl magic is the epitome of style, grace, beauty and doesn’t forget aging backward. They don’t know everything. They know a fraction of what there is to know, and They don’t think they ever know everything, but it’s important to them to constantly challenge themselves. To understand the world and the energies manifested within it. To tap into their abilities, to produce the most magnificent & lucrative things to be seen and felt into this world.
By Trey Anderson4 years ago in Humans
