Janessa Kara
Stories (2/0)
Intangible Blockers
Is writers block real? Or is it just not being able to focus on the main point. I honestly believe the society we have created for our selves does not allow for pure mentorship. I often find people are not waiting to listen they are waiting for there turn to talk. When looking for advice, people will give you information that perceives themselves as favorable. Regardless if it works or not. So where do we find our role models? Find mentorship? When guidance is needed, where do we get I from? If you have not found “yourself” where do you find you? When trying to learn boundaries, where do you study? When learning your worth, where does it get appraised? Anyone one else about these questions? If not you have probably had a good laugh and have stopped reading around this point. If you have had theses questions you may be getting impatient, the answer is. The answer is you. All these things come from you. It is impossible to seek a role model when you already know the role model your looking for. To elaborate. If you see someone chewing with their mouth open, you may love it. You may hate it. If you have not had one good or reliable role model it is okay to observe different mannerisms/behaviours. From that observation pick out what you like and do not like. Once you know what you like and do not like. Think about the different ways this can apply to you. If you cannot fathom how it could be applied to you. Research that activity. If you see someone using chop sticks, do the homework. Figure out the first steps, proper etiquette, foods it works with, etc. This observation and application technique is really useful. It should not be the only self learning/growing tool to be used. Mix and match your self growth tools.
By Janessa Kara3 years ago in Motivation
The Truth Hurts
The collective research on trauma, memory, diet, new people and how they work together. I am unsure how to explain but everyone has been traumatized. Not everyone stays traumatized. Through simple logic and experience or therapy eventually overcome those feelings and accept the event.
By Janessa Kara3 years ago in Psyche