Be In Love With Someone You Know Won't Always Be Easy

Everyone always think that Love is an expensive investment and time consuming matters. But the truth is, love isn't an expensive pass to some wonderful place where you can spend the rest of your life with your partner without difficulty or concern. Encountering numerous obstacles will be part of your journey towards a happily ever after. There is nothing such as a perfect relationship. Every relationship will experience its fair share of flaws and issues. It is something that you will not be able to escape from within a relationship. There is no relationship that can be guaranteed to be free from suffering, letdown, and the sporadic grief.

Love doesn't function in the same way as a fantasy or a fairytale, when everything seems to go according to plan and you are assured of eternal happiness. That is not at all how it is. It is inevitable that each love tale would include its fair share of arguments and clashes. You will inevitably experience your fair share of mishaps, difficulties, and hardships.

However, that is quite acceptable. In all honesty, you shouldn't be concerned about it. It's not really necessary to have a romantic, storybook ending for your love to be genuine. Actually, what makes your love genuine is its unadulterated imperfection. That is what adds to the excitement.

If there were no difficulties associated with love,

Love would be terribly uninteresting if there were no difficulties in it. Love is so precious because it is so tough at times. Nothing worthwhile in life ever comes lightly. And the greatest things in life—love, above all—are always worth battling for.

To be happy in a relationship, you don't need a perfect story to tell. All you actually need is someone who truly gets you and accepts you for who you truly are.

It's important to have a spouse who understands that things won't always be perfect. Someone who is prepared to take on the obstacles you may face on your romantic journey is the one you should be with. All you need is to be in the company of someone who takes the risk knowing that things won't always be simple. The person you should be with should be someone who will support you through your lowest points and who won't abandon you when things become tough. You need to be with someone whose love and passion will never fade and who will support you even in your worst moments. You should be with someone who is self-aware enough to understand that there is always space for progress and who is humble enough to acknowledge their own imperfections. You need someone who will accept responsibility for their mistakes, offer an apology when needed, and constantly go above and above.

You must understand that it makes no difference how successful you are, how steady your work may be, or how much money you may have in your bank account. That does not shield you from interpersonal problems and conflict. As a pair, you are still extremely susceptible. You cannot remain indolent. You still can't be assuming everything about one another. You must get ready for the unfathomable and the unknown. You have to be aware that there will be some obstacles in your path that you is never going to be able to predict or anticipate. And that's when the true test of your friendship will come. You will then truly be able to gauge the strength of your relationship.

There will never be rainbows and sunny days in the world of love. You will never always agree on everything, no matter how much you love each other. You won't always agree with each other. Because you are two diverse individuals with unique personalities, you will inevitably have disputes and conflicts. And it makes great sense. Just keep in mind that a relationship's strength isn't determined by how often or how little a couple fights. It isn't about how they manage to stay clear of arguments and confrontations. No. How well a couple handles these disagreements and obstacles, how well they work through these issues and difficulties, is a good indicator of their strength.

That is the essence of love. It will always require a fight to obtain. However, you know that it will always be worthwhile in the end.