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Will a Libra Man Go Hot and Cold?

Libra Men May Have Issues

By Justin LongstikPublished 11 months ago 8 min read
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Will a Libra Man Go Hot and Cold?
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If you are a Libra man, then you might be wondering if your boyfriend is going hot and cold. This could be a normal thing for a Libra guy, but it could also mean something more serious.

One of the main reasons why he might be cold to you is because he doesn’t know whether he wants you as his girlfriend or not. He needs time to figure that out.

1. He is not sure about you

When it comes to relationships, this sign is notoriously indecisive. He has so much empathy for others that he finds it difficult to make a decision that could cause someone else pain. Instead, he will try to find harmony and avoid confrontations as much as possible.

In the long run, this can be a real problem. It can lead to a lot of tension in your relationship, especially if you two have agreed to an exclusive partnership.

He might start dating other women, even when you think you’re still together. This can be a serious warning sign, and you should consider getting out of the situation if you’re not sure that he is really into you.

Alternatively, he might try to keep you in limbo for as long as possible by making promises that he can’t keep or engaging in other white lies. He’s hoping that you will eventually give up on him, and then he can move on with his life.

You should also be careful if he starts talking about his family and friends. He will do this in an effort to impress them, so you should be suspicious if he does this regularly.

Ultimately, he is not afraid to fall in love, but it can take some time for him to do so. Fortunately, there are things you can do to help him along the way. If you are struggling with a Libra man, then you should definitely check out my guide on how to handle this personality type. This guide will help you figure out what’s going on, and how to pull him in closer without creating drama that will scare him away!

2. He is afraid of losing you

Libra men are afraid of losing you, so they will try to hold on to you as long as possible. This is because they are very sensitive and emotionally reliant, and they are constantly worrying about the future. They need to know that you will be there for them, and they are always looking out for you.

They are also very logical, so they will do everything they can to make sure that their decisions are the right ones. However, they will often avoid confrontation or tough conversations because they are so concerned about how their actions might affect others.

Another way that a Libra man is afraid of losing you is that he might be jealous. He loves his social circle, so if you get close to other guys, it will make him feel jealous of you and want to compete for your attention.

He might also be feeling that he is not being treated the way that he deserves. He might think that you are not valuing him enough, or that you aren’t being romantic or affectionate towards him.

If he is not being very affectionate, then it is likely that he has just had a really hard day. He may not be able to respond to your texts, so it is best to wait for him to tell you what is going on.

Usually, a Libra man will apologize fairly quickly when they realize they hurt their partner. They will then feel a lot of guilt and want to make things right.

The problem is that they are so scared of hurting people that they will often go into hiding or avoiding confrontation, even when they realize they are wrong. If you are able to make them talk to you, it can help them come to terms with their mistakes and be more understanding of your needs.

3. He is afraid of confrontation

When it comes to confrontation, a Libra man doesn’t like to get involved in fights. He is always trying to find a peaceful resolution and prefers to work out problems in a fair and neutral manner.

He is also not a fan of people who use emotional manipulation or lie to gain what they want. This is because they believe that everyone deserves to be treated equally and have a strong moral code.

They are fair-minded and don’t like to see any of their friends or colleagues being hurt by other people. This makes them not very good at gossip or slandering other people.

However, they are great confidants and will be happy to share their opinions with you. They are also very loyal, so you can trust them to be there for you when you need them most.

Libras are also very social and tend to talk a lot. They enjoy discussing different things and meeting new people. This can make them the perfect companions when you’re looking for someone to hang out with or spend time with.

If you’re dating a Libra man, make sure that you let him know how much you appreciate him and what he means to you. He will be more likely to respect you if you do this.

You can also demonstrate your independence by not getting involved in his social life. Instead, perform activities that you enjoy on your own. This will show him that you are a confident, independent person who has her own interests and is not dependent on him for them.

Finally, he will be more likely to forgive you if you apologize to him for what you said or did that damaged your relationship. This will help him to understand your feelings and he may feel more willing to start talking to you again.

4. He is afraid of losing his freedom

One of the reasons a Libra man might be afraid to commit to you is that he doesn’t like feeling boxed in. He wants the freedom to switch partners whenever he feels the need.

He might also be worried that he’s not being heard or respected in the relationship. If you feel he’s being overlooked or ignored, try to be patient and show him that you care about his needs and feelings.

You can try talking about the future with him. Ask him about his goals for the future, and make him think about them without making it sound like you are pressuring him to make a commitment.

This will pique his interest and he might be more willing to talk to you about it. He’s also likely to give you a straight answer, which will help you determine whether or not he is ready to take the next step.

A Libra man is always looking to achieve something in his life and will work tirelessly to get it. He is also a dreamer, and often gets obsessed with the dopamine rush that comes from achieving his goals.

When he’s thinking about the future, it can be difficult for him to see things in perspective. He may have lofty dreams that don’t seem realistic to others.

Keeping his expectations in check is essential to a happy Libra man. He needs a balance between giving and receiving in order to feel satisfied with his relationships.

He also craves a sense of security and stability in his relationships. This is why he might be resistant to an ultimatum, but he will respond well to compromise. If you want to make your relationship work, you need to give him the space he needs to stay flexible and spontaneous.

5. He is afraid of losing you

Whether you are in the middle of a relationship or just starting out, it is normal to experience doubts at one point. There will be times when you start to question if your relationship is going to last forever. In these situations, knowing how to spot the signs that your Libra man is afraid of losing you can be very reassuring and helpful.

If you notice that your Libra man has been ignoring you for a long time, it may be because he is feeling unappreciated. He may be worried that you haven’t been showing him the attention and love that he deserves, so he’s decided to take it out on you.

This can be a really hard situation to deal with, but it’s important that you don’t give up on your relationship! There are a few things you can do to keep your Libra man interested in you and ensure that you stay in his life.

First, you should try to make him feel loved again. This can be done by putting in an extra effort to communicate your emotions.

Second, you should send him encouraging messages and compliments about the things he has been doing. This can help him see that you are still a good person and are there for him.

Finally, you should give him space to process his feelings and work through the problems that have caused them. If you do this, your Libra man will be more likely to apologize and take the necessary steps to fix what has happened.

You should also remind him of how much you loved him and that you will always be there for him. This will show him that you still care for him and he will probably return your love.

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Justin Longstik

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