Really powerful people, often have five "mixed" social skills

This thing a, understand the world of people.

Be a person beforehand, the world first understands things! This society has the ability of many people, but the social mix relies on the ability not simply, but also to behave, can understand things, that is, to understand the social world, can deal well with a variety of people. For example, in dealing with others, to say more good things, when reasonable, but also to let people three points, can give others to leave face, leave the room, leave a step, when you can help people try to help, the need to refuse to be polite and subtle, do not hurt people, know how to read people's minds, do not just talk to yourself ...... do not understand these human feelings, you in this It is very difficult to mix in this society.

This thing two, master the art of reading people.

You want to mix in this society, you can not read and write, but not to know people. No culture, low education, although it is also a major social disadvantage, the early entry into society, after the refinement of the social university, practice a variety of skills, especially good at reading people, reading people, it does not necessarily be worse than those with high education, and, often, mixed better. On the contrary, if you do not know how to read people, can not see human nature and the human heart, and can not distinguish between false feelings and false intentions, it is easy to suffer losses and be hurt.

This thing three can tolerate will also tolerate.

Society is complicated, you have to say they are great, there are always more powerful people than you, even if they are not as good as you in this aspect, other aspects may be stronger than you. So, get along with people, many times, you need to learn a word of patience, do not try to win. Besides, if you have not yet mixed in society, but also people under the roof, it is more have to bear, remember the saying: bear to bear on the bear, the party is the people! Of course, can tolerate but also will tolerate, have the heart to tolerate, but also have the strategy to tolerate, know what to tolerate, and when not to tolerate.

This thing four, have a tolerant heart.

People on a hundred, all kinds of shapes and sizes. People in the community, will meet a variety of people, which inevitably you are not accustomed to, or do not deal with you, or even have a grudge against each other, for this, if you want to continue to mix up, up, the pattern must be a little larger, to be able to tolerate these people. As the book "capable" says: "How big a person pattern, how big the business; how much tolerance, how much possession." On the contrary, if you do not know how to tolerate, treat people harshly, calculate, making too many enemies, it is impossible to mix well in society.

This thing five, manage the mentality.

People working in society will encounter a lot of things, some of which are beyond your expectations of the unexpected, and some are very important to your life events. To deal with things, the key is to manage the mindset, especially to have "every major event has a quiet" good mindset, which is also a very important skill. In society, some people are very capable but work for many years, but never made any great achievements, and even mixed worse and worse, which is a very important reason, is not to manage their mindset, so that the pessimistic, negative mindset of the accumulation of control of their own.

In shofar rt, for a person, to mix well in society, mix the head, there must be a good skill, this skill is not only the ability to do things but also includes the level of people.