A top quality: dependability

When you live to a certain age, you will understand that the top quality of a person is: dependability.

Reliable people say reliable words, do reliable things, and live reliable life.

On the contrary, for a person who lives unreliable, and often makes people feel unreliable, the road gets narrower and narrower.

Reliable people are low-key, mature, humble, and lonely.

However, they are also comfortable, relaxed, bashful, and confident.

As Montaigne said.

"Man, after all his attempts and explorations, amid all this diversity and complexity of knowledge and all kinds of things

and cannot find anything solid and reliable but emptiness.

So they abandoned their pretensions and admitted their original position."

The greatest dependability of man is to know his insignificance and then simply admit his inadequacy.

Give up pretentiousness, drop self-righteousness, and then are also willing to take the initiative to make up for their shortcomings, so that they become more and more reliable.

1: Doing things reliably

How do reliable people behave when they do something?

First of all, their things can be done, will be done promptly, and things that can not be completed, will not be full of nonsense to fool people.

One is one, two is two, will be honest in the first place.

Even if the things promised to others can not do, but also each other promptly explain the reasons, as well as bear the corresponding consequences, to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and grievances between each other.

A person as long as some sincerity, and integrity, will be able to live in harmony with other people in interpersonal relationships, the power of sincerity than any pretenses more powerful.

Doing things reliably can make you invincible among the crowd. Like a truly mature person, they will be like the ripe ears of rice, to reach maturity, the wheat grain will show a bulging state, and then humbly bow their heads, and calmly express themselves.

On the contrary, those who have not yet matured the ears of rice, on the contrary, show a strong and upright posture, obviously empty inside, but like to look askance at everything.

Do something reliable, even if at first you need to pay more patience, and more energy, but as long as you seriously pay, and insist on the heart, time will give you the answer you want to see.

When more and more people around you feel that you are reliable, they will believe more and more that you will not let them down when things are put into your hands.

Every thing in life is every brick in the building of your history.

Therefore, take each thing in your hand a little more seriously, polish it patiently, be responsible for some, and live up to the trust others have in you, as well as not waste your life, going further step by step.

2: Be reliable

People who do things dependably, do people dependably.

It can be said that a person in the character to do reliable, trustworthy words, then they are also in the handling of affairs when there are requirements, there are principles.

This requirement and principle, perhaps in some people seem to be stubborn or do not know how to improvise, but if you insist on doing so, down-to-earth to do, then you can always win in the end.

Because a person who is not perfunctory to his own life or others at any time is like a person who is patiently carving a work of art.

The panoramic view is not visible at the beginning, but one day when it is finished, it will be amazed and admired by the world.

Doing and doing is the same thing, never just do superficial work, do not think that a moment of negligence and casual will not affect the overall situation, but, your words and actions have long been destined for your life's fate.

Do people, or do not have a fluke mentality, for what they should do, they should find ways to do a good job, to be responsible, responsible, and principled.

To believe that the rigorous style, the attitude of excellence, and the spirit of the pursuit of perfection, even if the final result will not be as you wish, but you try your best, always do not regret it inside.

Seriously do everything, do not be annoyed, do not give up, silently ponder, slowly polish, not to get what you want, but to seek a guilt-free heart.

Then, do everything reliably, behave reliably, and truly live a fulfilling and satisfying life.

3: Live a reliable life

For people who live a reliable life, talking and doing things are reassuring so that people feel at ease.

People live to the end, the most test of a person's ability, is to see if he has a body to make people feel reliable ability.

People who live a reliable life, do not play tricks and do not play false, sincere, honest work.

When a person's heart lives with fear, but at the same time can burst out with great courage, he is reliable.

Because dependability is often both a choice and a responsibility.

Living a reliable life is enough for a person to win the recognition and support of others in the world, as well as to live a life that belongs to him or her, honestly and openly.