Identity

My Ideal Man
I rarely or if ever divulge details about my love life, but this story is perfect for me to do just that. It's been nearly six years since I was in a long-term relationship and at one point, was engaged to be married. Dating has drastically changed over the years, but as for me, I'm still looking for that special man to spend the rest of my life with. As someone who has Autism, it has been difficult for me find a man to date or be in a relationship with, because some assume that my disability is a burden to them. When they hear the word disability, they assume that they'll be taking care of me forever. Despite my disability, I have a job and live a regular life. So no, I'm NOT a burden. My expectations of finding an ideal partner aren't outrageous or unreasonable. Once you have finished reading this story, you'll know a little bit about the things I expect from a man.
By Mark Wesley Pritchard about a year ago in Pride
Pride: Beyond Rainbows—A Lifeline for Millions”
Understanding Pride: More Than a Parade, It's a Powerful Movement When someone says the word Pride, many people instantly imagine colorful parades, rainbow flags, glitter, music, and celebration. And while those visuals are absolutely part of Pride, the heart of it runs much deeper. Pride isn’t just an event or a month—it’s a movement, a message, and, for millions around the world, a lifeline. In this article, we’ll explore what Pride really means, what it stands for, and why it's so important. Whether you're part of the LGBTQIA+ community or an ally trying to learn, understanding Pride is a step toward compassion, equality, and change. What is Pride? At its core, Pride is about visibility, dignity, and celebration for LGBTQIA+ people. It is a response to years—decades—of silence, shame, and societal rejection. It's the opposite of hiding. Pride originated as a form of resistance. It began as a protest, not a party. The first Pride marches took place in June 1970 to mark the one-year anniversary of the Stonewall Riots—a series of confrontations between the police and LGBTQIA+ activists in New York City. These riots weren’t planned or polished. They were raw, real, and fueled by frustration over systemic oppression. Pride, today, honors that history. It’s about saying: “We are here. We are valid. We won’t hide.” What Does Pride Include? While Pride events vary by location and culture, here’s what is commonly included: 1. Parades & Marches These are often the most visible aspects of Pride—colorful, high-energy parades where people walk in solidarity, often with music, banners, floats, and speeches. But beyond the celebration, parades are also protests. Many Pride marches still highlight political demands—equal rights, protection from discrimination, and justice for queer and trans lives lost to violence. 2. Community Events Pride includes a variety of events—panel discussions, art shows, film screenings, poetry nights, and more. These platforms help amplify LGBTQIA+ voices and share stories that often go unheard. 3. Support Resources Many Pride festivals include health booths, mental wellness spaces, and outreach from nonprofits offering help for LGBTQIA+ youth, housing resources, HIV testing, and counseling services. 4. Education & Awareness Pride is an opportunity to educate the wider public. Schools, companies, and local governments often host diversity training, sensitivity workshops, and awareness programs during Pride Month to promote inclusivity and understanding. 5. Memorials Pride also includes moments of reflection—remembering those lost to hate crimes, HIV/AIDS, suicide, or systemic neglect. Vigils and tributes are a solemn but essential part of Pride. The Many Colors of Pride The rainbow flag is the most recognizable symbol of Pride, but there are actually many Pride flags representing different identities within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum: Rainbow Flag – General LGBTQIA+ unity Transgender Flag – Light blue, pink, and white for trans pride Bisexual Flag – Pink, purple, and blue Asexual Flag – Black, gray, white, and purple Non-Binary Flag – Yellow, white, purple, and black Progress Pride Flag – Includes black, brown, trans colors with the rainbow to highlight inclusivity Each flag tells its own story, showing how diverse and intersectional the queer community really is. Why Pride Still Matters You may wonder: "Why do we still need Pride?" Because, around the world, being LGBTQIA+ is still criminalized in over 60 countries. In many places, people can be fired, evicted, or attacked just for being who they are. In others, same-sex couples still can't marry, adopt, or live openly. Even in more progressive countries, queer and trans people often face bullying, mental health struggles, and a lack of representation. Pride isn’t just a celebration—it’s a statement. A declaration of humanity, resilience, and the right to exist without fear. What We Get from Pride Pride gives people something many never had before: belonging. Here are a few things Pride offers: Visibility: For many, Pride is the first time they see themselves represented in public. That kind of visibility can save lives. Community: Pride is a gathering of chosen families, friends, and allies. It reminds people they are not alone. Healing: From past trauma to internalized shame, Pride helps many begin the process of self-acceptance and healing. Inspiration: Pride often sparks movements, campaigns, and conversations that push for change—whether in schools, the workplace, or government policy. Pride Is for Everyone Some people say, “Why isn’t there a straight Pride?” But here's the thing: straight people have always been allowed to live, love, and be recognized without fear. Pride exists because LGBTQIA+ people didn’t have that luxury. But allies are welcome! Pride isn't about exclusion—it's about inclusion. Allies who support, protect, and amplify LGBTQIA+ voices are crucial to the movement. Being an ally doesn’t mean speaking for the community. It means standing with them, listening, learning, and using your privilege to uplift others. Beyond June: Pride All Year While Pride Month is officially celebrated in June (to honor the Stonewall Riots), being proud doesn’t end on July 1st. LGBTQIA+ people exist and struggle year-round. So should support. Whether it’s advocating for inclusive education, supporting queer-owned businesses, challenging harmful stereotypes, or simply being a safe person for someone to come out to—there are many ways to live Pride every day. Final Thoughts Pride isn’t just about rainbows. It’s about rights. It’s not just a party—it’s protest, remembrance, and a celebration of love, diversity, and resilience. Pride reminds us that love is love. That identity is valid. That no one should be made to feel ashamed of who they are. Whether you’re celebrating for the first time or standing in solidarity as an ally, remember: Pride is for everyone who believes in a world where everyone can live authentically and safely. So wear your colors proudly, listen with your heart, and most importantly—support each other. Because Pride isn’t just a month. It’s a movement.
By Tanushree Dasabout a year ago in Pride
Stand Proud
Identity? I’m white. Male. Cisgendered. A couple of young women once threatened (offered?) to rape me. I don’t think it’s the same thing. Certainly not the same impact.
By Randy Wayne Jellison-Knockabout a year ago in Pride
I Quit Social Media for a Week: Here’s How It Saved My Mental Health
I Quit Social Media for a Week: Here’s How It Saved My Mental Health In 2025, social media is inescapable. TikTok trends, X debates, and Instagram reels flood our screens, demanding attention. But what happens when you step away? I quit social media for seven days, and the results shocked me. Here’s my story, plus tips to protect your mental health in the digital age.
By Doctor Strangeabout a year ago in Pride
Who am I?
"What is love? Baby...don't hurt me." The music faded as the popular song by Haddaway came to an end, and I let out a sigh.
By Sai Marie Johnsonabout a year ago in Pride
Hidden Layers. Honorable Mention in Pride Under Pressure Challenge. Content Warning.
"I'm completely straight," I told myself while sitting in the school classroom trying to keep my eyes on my work to avoid staring at the beautiful girl sitting on the table opposite me.
By Carol Ann Townendabout a year ago in Pride
"King Promise: From Nungua to the World – The Rise of Ghana’s Global Music Star"
🎤 Early Years and Musical BeginningsGregory Promise Bortey Newman, commonly known as King Promise, was born on August 16, 1995, in Accra, Ghana. He grew up in Nungua, a neighborhood within Accra, in a family that loved a variety of music styles. His father, who enjoyed both traditional highlife and Western pop and R&B, exposed him to different musical inspirations such as Osibisa, Daddy Lumba, Boyz II Men, and R. Kelly. This rich musical atmosphere played a vital role in developing King Promise’s unique sound and his ambition to pursue a career in music. After finishing his studies at De Kings Academy, King Promise went on to attend Central University in Ghana. While his education was important, his love for music was his main focus. He began to display his skills at school events and started recording demo songs, which set the stage for his entry into the music scene.---🎶 Career Launch and Rise to FameKing Promise’s music journey took off when he caught the eye of Killbeatz, a well-known producer in Ghana. Killbeatz recognized his talent and helped him refine his abilities. In 2016, King Promise officially entered the music world with his debut single "Thank God," featuring Fuse ODG. This track gained significant attention and kickstarted his thrilling career in music. His major breakthrough occurred in 2017 with the release of "Oh Yeah," a captivating Afrobeat song that quickly became popular both in Ghana and around the world. The infectious rhythm and King Promise's smooth singing contributed to its success, earning him widespread recognition. Following the triumph of "Oh Yeah," he released "Selfish" in 2018, which also became a hit, further establishing his reputation in the Ghanaian music industry.---🌍 Global Acclaim and CollaborationsIn 2019, King Promise released his first album, As Promised. The album showcased a mix of Afrobeat, highlife, and R&B, demonstrating his versatility as an artist. It included popular songs like "Commando," "CCTV" in collaboration with Mugeez and Sarkodie, and "Bra" featuring Kojo Antwi. The album was both a commercial success and critically acclaimed, earning him multiple award nominations and solidifying his status as an influential figure in Ghana’s music scene. One of the standout tracks from As Promised was "CCTV," which became a popular anthem in Ghana and beyond. The song's uplifting message and King Promise’s smooth delivery resonated with audiences, making it one of his most acclaimed pieces. King Promise has collaborated with many artists from Africa and across the globe, including Wizkid, Omar Sterling, Sarkodie, Simi, and Raye. His partnership with Wizkid on the song "Blessed" from the Made in Lagos album expanded his reach and introduced him to a wider international fanbase.🎼 5 Star and Global RecognitionAfter taking three years after his debut album, As Promised, King Promise released his second album, 5 Star, on July 22, 2022. This project features 15 songs and reached the top of the Apple Music charts in Ghana within just one day of its release. The album includes features from artists like Bisa Kdei, Nigerian stars Omah Lay and Patoranking, American rappers VIC MENSA and Chance the Rapper, British group WSTRN, and artist Frenna, who is based in Germany but originally from Ghana. 5 Star strengthened King Promise's reputation in the worldwide music scene, showcasing his ability to blend different musical genres and collaborate with musicians from various parts of the world. 🎤 Authenticity and Artist DevelopmentIn June 2024, King Promise released his third studio album, True to Self, through 5K Records Limited and Sony Music UK. This album contains 12 tracks and features collaborations with Shallipopi, Fave, Gabzy, Fridayy, Lasmid, Ladipoe, Sarkodie, and OliveTheBoy. By incorporating Highlife and Afrobeats in its songs, the album reflects King Promise's unique sound and artistic style. The lead single, "Terminator," won the Song of the Year award at the 2024 3Music Awards and received recognition for Most Popular Song and Best Afropop Song at the 2024 Ghana Music Awards. Furthermore, King Promise was honored as Best Afrobeat/Afropop Artist at the 2024 Ghana Music Awards. To commemorate the album launch, he began the True to Self world tour, covering 12 cities in North America, Europe, Asia, and Australia. 🎧 Streaming Success and Worldwide InfluenceIn September 2024, King Promise became the first male artist from Ghana to surpass 400 million streams on Spotify across all his credits. His total streaming numbers exceeded 401 million, including 262 million as a main artist and over 123 million from his solo tracks. This achievement underscores his growing international appeal and reinforces his status as a key player in the African music scene. Averaging more than 450,000 streams daily, he has established himself as one of the most popular artists in Africa. His collection of 99 songs includes a wide variety of heartfelt ballads.
By Rifat Khanabout a year ago in Pride
I’ll Always Dress I Suit
Dressing in suits has long been associated with professionalism, sophistication, and a sense of personal style. Suits have evolved over centuries from functional garments to symbols of authority, elegance, and social status. Today, understanding the importance of suit dressing involves exploring its history, components, styles, occasions, and tips for choosing the right suit to make a lasting impression.
By obadiahabout a year ago in Pride
What I Had
There she was, sunlight shining through her golden hair as she threw her head back in laughter. Her smile always made my heart skip a beat, she looked at me, eyes still watery from her laughter.
By Kylie Hunnelabout a year ago in Pride
Unchained Horizons
The sky was bruised with clouds, swollen and heavy, hanging over the broken link of chain that lay abandoned on the asphalt. Beyond it stood a wall—tall, whitewashed, cruelly clean—ringed with barbed wire and crowned with silence. A metal ladder leaned against it like a whisper of rebellion. This was not just any wall. It was a divider of lives, of truths, of past and future. And the chain, once taut with containment, now lay slack and shattered. I. The Crack Luca remembered the first time he heard the wall speak. It didn’t speak in words, but in sounds—the shuffle of boots, the dull thud of fists on stone, the sharp shriek of sirens. He had grown up in the shadow of it, believing it to be eternal. But one day, after the rains, he noticed a crack at the base. Thin, defiant. It wasn’t much, but in a place like that, hope had a habit of seeping through the smallest fractures. II. The Chain The chain had bound more than just bodies. It had anchored dreams, weighed down thoughts, rusted the idea of change. On quiet nights, Luca and the others would sit around it, not speaking of escape—no one dared—but instead sharing memories of sky-wide places, of childhoods in motion, of books that smelled like possibilities. Each link held a story. Each story fed the fire. When the first link finally snapped, it didn’t break with a bang. It groaned, almost mournfully, as though reluctant to release what it had held. But once broken, the rest followed in silence. III. The Ladder No one saw who placed the ladder against the wall. It appeared one morning, as if conjured by belief alone. Worn and weathered, it leaned with tired dignity. Some said it was a trap. Others called it a test. But Luca saw it as an invitation. It didn't promise salvation—only the chance to rise. The night he chose to climb, he told no one. He moved like a shadow, heartbeat loud against the hush. The ladder swayed beneath him, but his hands gripped with purpose. Halfway up, he paused—not in fear, but in reverence. Below, the world he had known. Ahead, the unknown. He climbed anyway. IV. The Wall From above, the wall looked different. Less impenetrable, less monstrous. Just a thing. A relic. On the other side stretched a road, cracked and lonely, but open. Trees lined its path, trembling slightly in the wind like they were trying to remember how to grow wild. The air was different too—not freer, just fuller. He realized then that escape wasn’t a destination. It was a decision. V. The Break By morning, others found the broken chain. Rumors rippled. Some feared punishment, others clung to the moment like a miracle. But no guards came. No sirens screamed. The ladder stood tall, quiet as a promise. One by one, others followed. They didn’t run. They walked. Proudly, painfully. Carrying the weight of what they'd left behind, but walking still. VI. The Vignettes They called them “vignettes” later—these fragments of escape. Each person’s climb, each tear shed at the top of the wall, each breath drawn on the other side. They were stories passed down, painted on underpasses, whispered into the ears of newborns. No one remembered who placed the ladder. But everyone remembered what it meant. They never tore down the wall. Instead, they painted it. Murals of chains unlinked, of ladders reaching stars, of eyes looking forward. It stood as a canvas for memory and a warning to power: that no wall was forever. That freedom, though fragile, had teeth. VII. The Beyond Luca never returned. Not physically. But his story did. Carried by those who followed. His image stenciled on city walls, his words etched into benches and bridges. And though some days the road still felt uncertain, the sky above remained open. The chain was broken. The wall climbed. The silence pierced. And the people—once bound—had learned how to move again.
By Usman Ali about a year ago in Pride
Unbound: A Personal Journey of Gender Identity and Expression
Introduction In this narrative, we delve into the profound experiences of an individual navigating the complexities of gender identity, societal expectations, and personal transformation. Through a series of poignant reflections spanning several years, we explore themes of body autonomy, societal perceptions, and the pursuit of authentic self-expression.
By Lila Hartabout a year ago in Pride
US and China Strike Deal to Tackle Trade Deficit: Details Expected Monday
Geneva, Switzerland - Following intensive high-level talks over the weekend in Geneva, U.S. officials announced Sunday that a deal has been struck with China aimed at significantly reducing the long-standing trade deficit between the two global economic powerhouses. While specifics remain under wraps until a formal announcement expected on Monday, May 12, the development signals a potential de-escalation in the trade tensions that have characterized relations in recent years and imposed significant costs on businesses and consumers worldwide.
By Safe khanabout a year ago in Pride