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How to Do Eyeliner as a Femboy: Step-by-Step Guide for a Flawless Look
How to Do Eyeliner as a Femboy: A Step-by-Step Guide to Perfect Liner If you're a femboy exploring makeup, mastering eyeliner is one of the most transformative skills you can learn. A sharp wing or a smoky smudge can elevate your look from cute to stunning in seconds. But let’s be real eyeliner can be tricky, especially if you're just starting out.
By David Femboyabout a year ago in Pride
Wiaan Mulder’s 367: A Historic Innings That Fell Just Short of Immortality
On the second day of the second Test match between Zimbabwe and South Africa, as the players headed for the lunch break, it seemed that one of cricket’s greatest and most iconic records was on the verge of being broken. Fans worldwide held their breath in anticipation that Monday could mark the day when new history would be written in the sport’s record books. But fate had other plans. South Africa’s stand-in captain, Wiaan Mulder, was unbeaten on a monumental score of 367 runs at the lunch interval. After losing the toss earlier, South Africa had been invited to bat first by Zimbabwe. Mulder, stepping in at the critical number three position, had embraced this invitation with open arms, putting on a batting masterclass that would be spoken of for years to come. During his innings, Mulder struck an impressive 49 fours and 4 sixes, dominating the Zimbabwean bowlers with an array of elegant strokes, powerful drives, and precise shot selection. His triple century, which came off just 297 balls, was recorded as the second-fastest triple century in the history of Test cricket, an achievement only a handful of cricketers have ever approached. As the lunch break approached, fans and cricket pundits alike were buzzing with excitement. Many hoped that immediately after lunch, Mulder would continue his majestic form and surpass the legendary Brian Lara's record of 400 not out, the highest individual score in Test cricket history. Lara’s record, achieved against England in 2004 at Antigua, had stood unchallenged for over two decades, a testament to his greatness and the enormity of the feat. However, in a surprising and somewhat bewildering turn of events, the South African skipper made a decision that left fans stunned. Before the lunch break concluded, Mulder declared the innings, ending South Africa's first innings at an imposing 626 for 5 wickets. This abrupt declaration meant that Mulder walked off the field unbeaten on 367, just 33 runs short of the magical 400-mark. The decision sparked immediate reactions across the cricketing world. Many found it baffling; why would a captain declare when he was so close to rewriting cricketing history? Mulder, now the second South African cricketer to score a Test triple century, would forever be remembered not only for his incredible batting display but also as the player who fell tantalizingly short of eclipsing Lara’s legendary record. --- Expanded Analysis: The Weight of a Cricketing Record: To understand the gravity of Mulder’s decision, one must appreciate the significance of Brian Lara’s 400 not out. Set in 2004, it remains the highest individual score in Test cricket. The next closest competitor is Matthew Hayden, whose 380 against Zimbabwe in 2003 briefly held the record before Lara reclaimed it. Only a handful of cricketers have ever reached 350 in a Test match, and breaking the 400-run barrier is a feat almost mythical in its difficulty. Records in cricket are not just numbers; they are milestones that define careers and inspire generations. Lara’s 400 was a statement of batting dominance, endurance, and technical mastery. For Mulder to come so close to this number and then declare voluntarily is almost unheard of in cricket’s rich tapestry of legendary innings. Who is Wiaan Mulder? Wiaan Mulder, a talented all-rounder, has been on the fringes of South African cricket for several years. Known primarily for his bowling skills and lower-order batting, few expected him to play such a monumental innings, especially while acting as a stand-in captain. This match, therefore, marked a career-defining moment for Mulder—a transformation from an all-rounder into a batting colossus, if only for this Test. Mulder’s temperament throughout the innings showcased maturity beyond his years. His shot selection was measured, his technique solid, and his ability to switch gears when needed spoke volumes about his growth as a cricketer. Why Declare? Possible Reasons Behind the Decision The question on everyone’s mind remains: why would Mulder declare when within touching distance of a world record? Several possible factors could have influenced his decision: 1. Team Before Self: Cricket, especially Test cricket, is a team game. South Africa may have wanted to give themselves enough time to bowl Zimbabwe out twice and secure a win. The weather forecast, pitch conditions, and match situation might have influenced this call. 2. Respect for Opponents: Sometimes, captains choose not to prolong the suffering of their opponents. Zimbabwe's bowling attack had been thoroughly demoralized, and continuing might have been seen as unsporting in some circles. 3. Leadership Responsibility: As stand-in captain, Mulder may have felt it inappropriate to pursue personal glory at the expense of his team’s chances of victory. Declarations are a captain's responsibility, and perhaps he prioritized the match result over an individual milestone. 4. External Factors: Time constraints, potential rain delays, or even team management’s advice from the dressing room could have played a role in prompting the declaration. Whatever the reason, Mulder's choice reflects the difficult balancing act captains face between personal achievements and team priorities. Reactions from the Cricketing World Social media exploded with reactions as soon as the news of the declaration spread. Many cricket legends, commentators, and fans expressed both admiration for Mulder's selflessness and frustration at being denied the spectacle of a new world record. Fans’ Disappointment: For many fans, cricket is as much about moments of individual brilliance as team victories. The anticipation of witnessing a new world record had captured global attention. Cricketing Ethics: Others praised Mulder for upholding the spirit of cricket, placing the team first, and showing humility in the face of personal glory. Comparisons to Past Declarations: Historically, few captains have declared when on the brink of a major record. Perhaps the most famous instance of a declaration depriving a player of a milestone was when Don Bradman was left stranded on 299 not out due to a declaration in 1932, though the circumstances there were different. A Legacy of 367 Not Out Regardless of the record, Mulder’s 367 not out cements his place in cricketing history. It is among the highest scores in Test cricket and makes him only the second South African to achieve a triple century, following Hashim Amla’s 311 not out against England in 2012. His innings displayed every quality that defines great batsmanship: patience, aggression when needed, tactical awareness, and the ability to adapt to different bowlers and conditions. Zimbabwe’s bowlers tried everything—pace, spin, short balls, full deliveries—but nothing could dislodge the resolute Mulder. The Context of South Africa vs Zimbabwe While Zimbabwe is not considered among the strongest Test-playing nations, their bowling attack has often been gritty and disciplined. Facing them at home or abroad requires patience and concentration. Mulder’s innings, while dominant, should not be dismissed because of the opposition’s relative inexperience compared to cricketing powerhouses like India, Australia, or England. Every Test triple century is a monumental achievement, regardless of the opposition. What Could Have Been: The 400-Mark Had Mulder chosen to continue, there is little doubt he was capable of surpassing 400. He was scoring fluently, showing no signs of fatigue, and Zimbabwe’s bowlers were struggling to contain him. With 367 already on the board, another 33 runs could have taken as little as 5 to 10 overs at his current scoring rate. If he had reached 400, Mulder would have joined an elite club of cricketers who changed the record books forever, his name immortalized alongside Lara's. The missed opportunity will likely fuel debates for years. --- Final Thoughts: A Heroic Yet Humble Performance In the end, Wiaan Mulder's innings will be remembered not only for the runs scored but also for the decision not to chase personal records at the expense of the team's objectives. Cricket fans will debate whether this was the right call, but few will question the character Mulder displayed. This innings, and the declaration that followed, tell a story bigger than numbers: a tale of leadership, humility, and the eternal tension between individual ambition and collective responsibility. Whether history views it as a missed chance or a mark of true captaincy will depend on the final result of the match and South Africa’s long-term cricketing legacy. But for now, Wiaan Mulder stands tall—not just as a batsman who could have broken a record, but as a captain who chose his team’s quest for victory over his own place in history.
By Ikram Ullahabout a year ago in Pride
Tahkyah Brings Plenty Confirms Relationship with Bella Ramsey Amid Growing Public Interest and Franchise News
After months of online speculation and subtle clues scattered across social media, Indigenous actress Tahkyah Brings Plenty has officially confirmed her relationship with The Last of Us star Bella Ramsey. The announcement, made via a direct Instagram post earlier this week, puts an end to swirling rumors that had been circulating since early 2023 and 2024 — and adds a deeply human element to the on-set chemistry fans have long admired.
By nativeamericannewsacresabout a year ago in Pride
Good Vibes at Northwest Arkansas Pride 2025
Greetings, Vocal readers and subscribers! This past weekend was eventful and filled with unity. As Pride Month comes to a close, the fight for our equal rights is far from over. Regardless of who's in the White House, we won't rest until everyone has access to the necessary accommodations, such as respectful and proper health care. We have to fight the good fight daily, not just during Pride Month. Also, we won't let a bigoted President and his cohorts devalue and dehumanizing us. We exist and here to stay. As I've stated in my previous stories, equality has always existed. No one is "forcing " it on you or anyone else. Being a decent human being and showing compassion who are different from you isn't optional. It's neither indoctrination, nor controversial. It's also neither a Democrat or Republican thing. It's both a common sense and humanity thing. No group of people should feel unsafe or be discriminated against, just because of who someone is or what they look like. Conservatives tend to call people like us who care about other causes and people's plights woke. Yes. Yes, we are. You know why? It's because I said before, no one deserves to be mistreated in any way, because of one's race, gender, or sexual orientation. We don't want people to lose their lives or suffer due to these Republican politicians and lawmakers having these oppressive laws that harms others. So yes, Republicans. We are woke and yes, we give a damn about those who can't stand up or defend themselves. We refuse to shut up or walk on eggshells in order for us to make you feel comfortable. Our voices will only grow louder and bigger. If we stay silent, then the bullies would win. When I say bullies, I'm referring to conservatives and conservative politicians.
By Mark Wesley Pritchard about a year ago in Pride
The Art of Doing Nothing: Why Rest Is the Most Productive Thing You Can Do
I used to believe rest was a reward you earned after hard work. So I worked hard. Every hour of my day was filled with tasks, goals, errands, and deadlines. Even my “free time” wasn’t really free — it was packed with side hustles, content creation, or catching up on messages I missed during the week. If I sat still too long, I felt guilty. If I wasn’t being “productive,” I felt like I was falling behind. But eventually, my body and mind gave me a loud message: Burnout. I was exhausted. Not just tired — soul tired. That’s when I started learning about something that sounded simple… but felt radical: > The art of doing nothing. --- 🧘 What “Nothing” Really Means Let me be clear — doing nothing doesn’t mean being lazy. It means being present without needing to perform, produce, or achieve. It’s the quiet hour in the morning when you just sip your tea. It’s lying on your bed staring at the ceiling. It’s sitting under a tree, letting thoughts pass like clouds. It’s space — not just physical, but mental. In many cultures, this idea is sacred. The Dutch call it niksen. In Italy, they call it dolce far niente — the sweetness of doing nothing. In our hustle culture, though, it feels almost rebellious. --- ⚠️ My Burnout Wake-Up Call One Sunday afternoon, I sat down with the intention to “relax” — but instead of feeling calm, I felt anxious. I had nothing to do for once, and instead of enjoying it, I grabbed my phone, then my laptop, then got up to reorganize a shelf I didn’t care about. That’s when I realized: I didn’t know how to rest. I was so used to being busy that stillness felt uncomfortable. That’s when I decided to change — not with a vacation or a day off — but by practicing doing nothing on purpose. --- 🌿 Learning to Be Still I started small. Every morning, before checking my phone, I sat in silence for five minutes. No goal. No breath-counting. Just me and the morning light. At first, it was hard. My brain raced. I thought about laundry. Emails. Instagram posts. But after a week, I noticed something: My anxiety softened. I felt more present in conversations. I started enjoying simple moments again — like watching leaves move in the wind. It wasn’t instant magic, but it was real. --- 🧠 Why Doing Nothing Is Actually Productive Here’s what I learned: Your brain needs stillness to process information. Creativity blooms in boredom. Rest improves focus. Instead of shallow, scattered work, I was doing deep, meaningful tasks. Presence is powerful. I stopped rushing through life and started feeling it again. Some of my best ideas came while staring at the sky. Not forcing them. Just being available when they arrived. --- 📵 Letting Go of Productivity Guilt The hardest part wasn’t stopping. The hardest part was letting go of the guilt. I had to unlearn years of programming that said my worth was tied to output. That I had to “earn” rest. That downtime was laziness. Now, I believe this: Rest is not a reward. It’s a requirement. It’s
By Abdul Musawer about a year ago in Pride
A Shy Person’s Guide To Building A Personal Brand
Creating a personal brand often seems like a competition built exclusively for outgoing personalities. Standard guidance consistently emphasizes the same approach: publish continuously, broadcast everything, connect aggressively, maintain omnipresence. For many people, this strategy feels completely overwhelming.
By Muhammad Sabeelabout a year ago in Pride
When I Lost My Job, I Found Myself — And an Income Online
I never thought I'd be the kind of man who would cry over a job. I always saw myself as the strong one—provider, planner, protector. You lose a job, you get another one, right? That’s what I used to think. But that idea collapsed the day I walked out of my office, holding a brown cardboard box with my name written in black marker on the side.
By Oguntade Hafeez Olalekanabout a year ago in Pride
Celebrating 10 Years of Marriage Equality . Top Story - June 2025.
Where were you and what were you doing on June 26, 2015? For me, it was just another day at the office. So why did I bring up this date, you ask? Because today is the 10-year anniversary of marriage equality becoming the law of the land in all 50 states. The United States became the 21st country to legalize same-sex marriage nationwide. It was a huge victory for the us, the LGBTQ+ community, activists, and same-sex couples themselves. Two other groundbreaking rulings also happened on this day: Propositional 8 and the repeal of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA). Propositional 8, also known as Prop 8, was a California ballot proposition that passed in November 2008, which previously prohibited Californian same-sex couples from marrying. In 2010, it was ruled unconstitutional and didn't go into effect until 2013. The Defense of Marriage Act, or DOMA, was a law that was passed and signed by then President Bill Clinton in 1996. It previously prevented the government from recognizing gay and lesbian couples. However, it was later struck down, specifically Section 3 (1 U.S.C. § 7).
By Mark Wesley Pritchard about a year ago in Pride
Be Honest
Honesty is one of the most important values in life. It means always speaking the truth, standing for what is right, and being fair in everything we do. When you are honest, people trust you. But when you tell lies, people stop believing you. That is why honesty is called the "best policy." An honest person is respected by family, friends, teachers, and even strangers.
By aadam khanabout a year ago in Pride
The Best Ways You Can Support Your Asexual Friends
When I first came out as asexual to my friends, it was...awkward to say the least. One said to me, "I've never met one of those before." Another looked at me in shock that someone out there could have no interest in sex. With each friend I told, I got bombarded with more and more questions, like I was a space alien waiting for the mothership to bring me back to my home planet. Believe me, times like that, I wish I were.
By The Scarlet Starletabout a year ago in Pride
How An Ace Can Set Boundaries in a Relationship
Setting boundaries as an ace person isn't easy. Known as "the invisible orientation," not experiencing sexual attraction is not something widely talked about like being straight, gay, bisexual, or transgender. With the asexual spectrum being so wide, everyone's comfort levels are different, and boundaries must be set for a relationship to work. Here's a guide for every ace person on how to establish boundaries with your partner:
By The Scarlet Starletabout a year ago in Pride
