If you can keep your head when all around you are losing theirs and blaming you for their turmoil, if you can maintain your trust in yourself when everyone else doubts you while also understanding and respecting their doubts, if you can wait patiently and not grow weary with the passage of time, if you can endure being lied about without resorting to lying yourself, if you can face hatred without succumbing to hate and yet avoid seeming too superior or too wise, then you possess a rare fortitude.
If you can dream without letting dreams control your life, if you can think without making thoughts your ultimate goal, if you can meet both triumph and disaster and treat those two impostors just the same, if you can withstand hearing the truth you've spoken twisted by knaves to entrap the gullible, or if you can watch the things you dedicated your life to fall apart and then bend down and rebuild them with worn-out tools, you exhibit remarkable resilience.
If you can gather all your winnings and risk them in one game of pitch-and-toss, lose, and start over again from the beginning without ever breathing a word about your loss, if you can force your heart, nerve, and sinew to serve you long after they have wearied, and so hold on even when there is nothing left in you except the will that commands you to 'hold on,' then you demonstrate extraordinary perseverance.
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue intact, or walk with kings without losing your common touch, if neither foes nor loving friends can harm you, if all men count with you but none too much, if you can fill each unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run, then the earth and everything in it will be yours, and—what's more—you'll be a man, my son.
The beauty of these words lies in their timeless wisdom and the profound life lessons they convey. They speak to the essence of character and the virtues that define a true and honorable person. Keeping your head amidst chaos, trusting yourself while respecting others' doubts, waiting patiently, and maintaining integrity in the face of lies and hatred—these are qualities that build a strong foundation for a meaningful life.
Dreams are vital, but allowing them to dominate you can lead to disillusionment. Thinking deeply is essential, yet overthinking can become a barrier to action. Triumph and disaster are both fleeting; treating them as equals helps maintain balance and perspective. The truth is often distorted by those with ill intentions, but standing firm in your convictions and rebuilding from the ruins with resilience showcases your true strength.
Risking everything you have and starting anew without complaint demonstrates unparalleled courage and determination. Pushing your physical and mental limits and holding on through sheer willpower when all else has failed exemplifies the spirit of endurance. Engaging with people from all walks of life while retaining your virtue and humility highlights the importance of empathy and balance.
Being invulnerable to both the harm of enemies and the pain of loved ones, valuing every person without letting anyone dominate your life, and making the most of every moment underscores a life lived to its fullest potential. The ultimate reward of such a life is not just success in worldly terms but the attainment of true manhood, characterized by maturity, wisdom, and inner strength.
In a world where external validation often takes precedence, these principles remind us of the importance of inner fortitude. They teach us that true success is not measured by the accolades we receive or the wealth we accumulate but by our ability to remain steadfast, virtuous, and resilient in the face of life's challenges. They encourage us to build a character that can withstand the test of time and circumstances, to be leaders and pioneers in our own right, guided by an unwavering moral compass.
These words serve as a guiding light, inspiring us to strive for greatness not through superficial means but through the cultivation of inner strength and virtue. They remind us that the journey to becoming a true 'man' or a person of substance is not an easy one, but it is a path worth treading. In embracing these principles, we embark on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth, ultimately achieving a state of being that transcends the ordinary and touches the sublime.
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making space
Since the only thing that might pull us back up is caring, it only makes sense that here, long after I’ve let my anger born of heartbreak and grief misplace, multiply, misdirect itself, let the enormity of my solitude turn into something I don’t know how to dispute with, something thick and heavy and suffocating, let the coldness thrash and fight under my skin, deeper still, in between the arches of my organs; here where the ground is always close and the fall is easy and I surrender to it often, lie without purpose for hours, it only makes sense that it is here, I decide to show up and surrender to the possibilities of the night. Show up to those who I deserted. Drawn to the sense of accomplishment, something I haven’t felt in a while, to memory of finished dish sending its aroma into the world and with it, wrapping the room with a strong sense of sweet nostalgia, I get up and decide to cook. I pick up my phone, type a message that reads “Dinner at mine @ 8PM, don’t bring anything” and before my courage deserts me again, drop it in our friends’ group chat, the way one would do when diffusing a bomb in the movies: one eye closed, snip at the wire, hoping for the best.
By Mesh Toraskarabout 21 hours ago in Feast
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This was extremely powerful! I loved it!