Self First, Partnership Second

Choose the lifestyle you want first, then choose your partner.

The prerequisite for happiness isn't meeting someone; it is having the ability to build a good life for yourself. Frankly, the life you live now reflects your aspirations for the future. When you have the ability to manage your own life well, you’ll naturally understand what kind of person you can truly live with.

A relationship shouldn't be about one person simply entering another's world; it should be about two people enriching each other's lives. Anyone who has been in love knows that feelings can be adjusted, but you shouldn't waste your energy on someone whose mindset is fundamentally different from yours. It’s not that they are a bad person, but simply that you aren't compatible.

Wanting to be in a relationship doesn't mean rushing into one. Taking it slow is perfectly fine. Life is short, and you don’t have the energy to spend pleasing everyone else. Prioritize treating yourself well. When you live a life you love, you won’t worry about being unloved. One day, someone will appear who makes you feel that life is truly worthwhile.

Thank you for reading!