Is it me?
Something about my face/aura/voice/frame/skin color/hair
because this time it is virtual, but my fight or flight has me scanning the room for potential threats anyways
the potential threat’s voice leaks through the phone
”I can do it on mute, you won’t even hear me”
i am awash with shame again, like i’m the one who suggested it
i feel my body say something tinny back
Last time it was my boss “I bet you were totally dripping sweat”
and the time before that it was a coworker “ I wouldn’t mind an assistant that looked like you”
and in the Uber the other day “your body is the greatest gift you can give your husband, keep it pure”
each time i felt sure that if i had only been colder, harsher, more stern, had firmer boundaries, or was intimidating
They wouldn’t have spoken to my body like that
they weren’t speaking to me, i’m almost certain
because each time my body is addressed She answers the questions
while i float somewhere above the pit in my body’s stomach
tethered by an invisible cord
Who am i?
Anchored by someone’s greatest gift
Who am i?
let me ask my body
Comments (1)
Gosh this was so deep. We should never be defined by our body.