Is this person your true love or a bad romantic influence?

"I've developed feelings for a guy recently, but since he seems to be on good terms with several girls, I'm not sure if his interest in me is genuine or just casual."

July reconnected with a high school classmate at a friend's wedding over the Spring Festival holiday. What started as a polite exchange turned into engaging conversations, discovering they shared a lot in common, including hobbies. This serendipitous connection led them to exchange WeChat information on the spot.

Their daily WeChat conversations gradually became a source of anticipation for July, as the dialogue increasingly hinted at a romantic interest.

However, starting last week, the guy's responses became delayed, and his demeanor changed, prompting July to seek my advice.

After examining her astrological chart, it's clear that July often finds herself in such ambiguous romantic situations early in relationships, with partners who tend to be flirtatious and impulsive, lacking responsibility. With her Venus aspecting Neptune, she tends to lose clarity in the early stages of romance, idealizing her partners excessively.

Her true match is evidently not someone like this current individual. Her marriage house is ruled by Mercury in its dignified position in Virgo, conjoined with Venus and the Sun, suggesting her ideal partner is someone of refined taste, capable, with an intellectual charm, and who can positively influence her wealth, career, and other life aspects. Interestingly, July is currently in a period where marriage prospects are favorable, and she may meet her significant other in a professional setting.

Given these insights, I recommend that July refrain from rushing into anything further with this man and instead patiently await the arrival of her true match.

It's natural to view a new interest through a flattering lens initially, but as time reveals the true nature of the relationship, the importance of discerning a genuine connection and avoiding premature emotional investment becomes clear.