For the rest of your life, be a truly mature adult

When I was young, I always looked forward to growing up, thinking that the world of adults is rich and wonderful and full of infinite possibilities.

After growing up, I realized that the world of adults is not as beautiful as I thought, too much sorrow and suffering, and helplessness had to be endured, so I couldn't help but miss my youth or childhood, thinking that it was the best time in life.

People, the more they grow up, the more they realize that life is not easy. The face of life is not easy, cowardly people choose to escape, and strong people choose to bear.

We all want to have a haven, where warm and solid, comfortable and safe. Just, everyone wants to take shelter, who will be the "port" it?

A truly mature person, not just looking for a haven, but will try to be strong, so that they become a haven, to bless themselves, but also to bless the people they care about.

For the rest of your life, may you be a truly mature adult?

A truly mature person has many qualities, in my opinion, the most important is the following three points.

Not thinking about the past

The past is like the wind, the floating life is like a dream. No matter what you have experienced, no matter how ups and downs your experience, heartfelt, but also ultimately like the wind blowing past, can never return. Life, but also a dream of red dust, all the final everything is empty.

The reasoning is understood by all, but there are still many people immersed in the past, who can not learn to let go. Maybe it was a mistake that was once made and could not forgive itself; maybe it was a decision that was rashly made that completely changed the direction of life and was too late to regret; maybe it was a relationship that was not cherished and easily given up, which later became a lifetime of regret ......

A person who is always immersed in the past will be blind to the beauty of the immediate future.

Just like some people, after breaking up with their predecessors, for a long time can not come out, even though there is better opposite sex appear, and take the initiative to show themselves, but also always no feeling.

Always like a saying: "Life is only understood when you look back, and life must go forward."

We can look back and miss the past, but not the present and future because of the past.

A truly mature person never misses the past.

Here the "not read", not that not nostalgic, but not obsessed.

Not obsessed, not entangled, let the past with the wind, so that the thoughts of precipitation. If you do this, you will be considered a truly mature adult.

Not to be disappointed in the present

Some people are immersed in the past, some people look to the future, as for the present time, it is used to spend and squander, but also look like a matter of course.

Since we were young, our teachers have taught us: "Tomorrow is another day, and there are so many of them! I live for tomorrow, everything is a waste of time!"

In this life, people always have to love something, pursue something, to live an interesting, meaningful.

And the heart of the love, the dream, must be proven with practical action, to chase. Otherwise, love is just empty talk, dreams are just dreaming.

Life is a life, like a horse passing by.

Yes, life is only a few dozen years in a hurry, and in the blink of an eye, from a dumb child into a mature adult, if you do not cherish the moment, grasp the time and opportunity, when the twilight will certainly have a lot of regret and resentment.

A truly mature person knows how to cherish time and live up to the moment. If you want to do something, you should do it as much as possible, even if you don't succeed, at least you have tried.

In addition to the fact that the company has a lot of people who are not in the market, the company also has a lot of people who are not in the market.

They already have everything, it is all to cherish. The only way to cherish is to live up to the moment.

Not afraid of the future

Life will not be smooth sailing, both now and in the future, may face sudden storms.

If a person is not mature and strong enough, he or she will be afraid of the unknown storms. To avoid the risk of the unknown, reject all possibilities.

Just like some people are afraid of marriage, afraid that they have met a person who is not good, married to their bad, or married life is trivial and bland, or raising children is too bitter and too tired, in short, all the bad may have thought, and therefore do not dare to enter into marriage.

Not married, living alone, and often feeling lonely, more terrible is the future of old age with no one to take care of ......

There are a lot of worries and I don't know what to do. The first fear of the wolf, the second fear of the tiger, the result is exhausted body and mind, wasted years, missed the best time.

On this road of life, how to choose will have regrets. No one can say what will happen in the future. Therefore, there is no need to worry too much about what did not happen.

A truly mature person is never afraid of the future. They have a strong heart, no matter what happens in the future, they can face it calmly.

We should do the same, no matter what the future is, bravely, firmly, step by step to go forward, just right.