Your life is yours to say

like the following quote.

"There is no pearl of glitter, is painted on by others."

Life in the world, everyone is doing their own, you should not be an exception.

Do not please others and condescend to yourself.

The writer Maugham wrote a story like this.

A small person became famous overnight and became a best-selling author.

The doorstep before fame was in stark contrast to the doorstep after fame.

One day, a friend, with whom he had little contact, came to visit him at home.

The writer was conflicted, torn whether to see ......

I thought about it, if I don't see it, it seems to say that I can't, so I received the friend.

After the meeting, the other party is very enthusiastic, and also invited the writer to the house as a guest. Although inwardly very reluctant, but the hospitality, the writer still agreed.

In the friend's house, in order not to be cold, the writer forced himself to have nothing to say.

This awkward scene made the writer unbearable.

However, he was reluctant and offered to invite his friend back, even though he did not want to.

Because I can't cook, so I must find a suitable restaurant: find a first-class bar, the writer worried that his friend thought he was showing off; find a general bar, and worried that his friend would think he was stingy ......

This scene makes people cry and laugh.

To know that you are you is unique.

Life is short, do not force yourself, and learn to reject others.

Only if you know how to reject others and please yourself, you can make life pleasant.

Don't think about things that are already true

Read a saying.

"Never look down on yourself, your current state does not mean that you will always be like this, you can change and you are able to change."

At all times, do not deny yourself.

Respect yourself and believe in yourself to give yourself a run for your money.

There is a legendary figure in British history - Sir Geoffreys Hudson.

As a teenager, Hudson entered the Foreign Office, on a mission, with bravery and wisdom to repel the pirates and save the entire fleet.

Later, he participated in the war to support the Netherlands against Spain for independence and was knighted upon his return.

At the age of 61, the retired Hudson was not willing to be lonely, and also joined the king's secret army.

His life was eulogized by poets and sought after by celebrities, and he is ubiquitous in the literature of his time.

But one thing, please do not forget: he was only 46 centimeters tall.

This Sir, who was not even half a meter tall, was ridiculed and criticized by people, an experience he could not grow up without.

But he never despised himself, nor did he fall into bitterness, but, on the contrary, did his best to become a "giant" in the history of the name.

If a person is immersed in things that cannot be changed, he will be trapped in darkness and will not see the light.

There are trials and tribulations in life, some of which are innate and some of which are encountered later in life.

But none of these can be an excuse for a person to give up on himself.

One's path should be taken by oneself, and one's own life should be mastered oneself.

If you want to be fast, you can learn to be calm

Read a quote.

"When you are confused, do not rush; live your life a little bit, life will give you the answer."

Life is a long road, a moment of gain or loss proves nothing.

Persist in your efforts, the future that you are looking forward to will eventually come and embrace you.

Many times, the reason for frustration and failure is not because it is not good, but because it is too anxious.

The things that should happen and how will happen, anxiety is useless.

Once upon a time, there was a child who picked up a chrysalis playing in a field and took it home to find out how a chrysalis breaks out of its cocoon and becomes a butterfly.

After he got home, he went to observe it every day.

A few days later, a small crack appeared on the chrysalis, and the butterfly inside began to struggle, trying to break out of its shell and fly out.

The butterfly struggled for several hours in the chrysalis, but it did not come out.

The child looked at it and wanted to help it, so he picked up the scissors and cut the chrysalis open so that the butterfly could break out of the chrysalis.

But what he didn't expect was that the butterfly came out with a bloated body, because the wings were not strong enough to fly, and soon after, the butterfly died.

To know the process of breaking the cocoon into a butterfly would have been very painful, and only after breaking this barrier, it can flutter and fly.

Life is the same, the desire for speed is not achieved, too anxious but will fail.

Do not be in a hurry to do things, thick and thin, the time has come naturally to the water.

Many times in life, it is because you think too much that you feel very tired.

When you stop embarrassing yourself, you will be more real.

When you stop obsessing about the truth, you are much more relaxed.

When you are no longer anxious to get, you will be more relaxed.