Why & How You Can Get Anything You Want.

If you had everything you wanted, your life would be better than you ever imagined. Why don't you have everything you want right now? The reason might reside within yourself. Are you holding on to relationships that drain you? Are you allowing others to deny your thoughts, dreams and ambitions? Have you taken on more than you can chew in life? All of these factors could be the reason why you are in a position where you have to read this article. I am here to tell you that it's quite a bit easier than that.

The first step is simply writing each of your likes and dislikes. Truthfully write these likes and dislikes out, do not lie to yourself. If you like certain activities that everyone might not agree with that's fine, just write them down. Once they have been written move on to a new page and begin to write the skills and or character traits you have, such as honesty, integrity, manipulation skills, IT/Computer skills etc... This may take some time, but this is not a race, take your time. Now take stock of each item you have written, what can be erased, moved or improved upon? What is a negative that can be used as a positive?

Moving forward, write about what type of person you want to be. Whose company do you want to keep? What do you want to own? Where do you want to live? Once your own dream life is written out again take stock of all the past skills, likes, dislikes and apply them to your dream life. Do they truthfully align with your imagined lifestyle? If they do not, what needs to change? Remember, at this stage you are only writing and thinking about your life.

Once this has been procured begin to embody the list. In order to achieve this attempt to summarize the feeling and mindset of the person you have drawn up with all the analysis you did prior. Adding in and expressing emotional adjectives such as regal, respectful or jubilant can be helpful in this process. If anything, embody these feelings in every situation at all times. You will miss your mark a couple of times, but the habit is important here and if you feel yourself slipping into a personality which is toxic or unbalanced readjust your list and overall feeling. New beginnings are always paramount to your success.

This is your process and once you begin it's hard to stop. Improvement is incremental then exponential. Keep your journey to self perfection a secret because the results start to manifest in your life much faster this way. A side effect of this working will illuminate personal issues and expose the faults in others. This can result in distancing friendships and ending relationships. However, have no fear new beginnings are on the way! You will create new connections that will foster your growth and place you in the lifestyle you wish to live.

Be warned, there is a dark side to the new-found you in this beautiful transition. It is incredibly easy to get adjusted to the new changes you are making within yourself and begin to shame or judge others for their lack of self-improvement. Know that you too were in the same position before you started your journey, so judgement is a handicap that will keep you from achieving more than you would have ever thought. Additionally, it is even more often the case that once you start your journey you want others to as well. I'm here to tell you that everyone is on their own path, and they will start when they have awakened to the fact that true change is rarely accidental. Trust me when I tell you, you'll want to drag them kicking and screaming, but you can't because the journey is individual.

Lastly, remember that pitfalls, accidents and misjudgments are all a part of the plan and if you get stuck refer back to your list. The list is who you want to be plus you will be editing your list from time to time because some of the characteristics you wanted to embody are not the right ones for you. Consistent evolution is the key to greatness. Keep your spirit light being careful not to be too hard on yourself because this will stop you.

Having all that you want and being who you are meant to be is all that matters, stick to this and your life will fulfill itself!