When it comes to things, the foolish blame others, the wise man's introspection

"My children are so smart, the results are not good, you must be a teacher's poor teaching!"

When I was studying, there was a family in the community where the children's grades were very poor when the parents blamed not the children's lack of seriousness in learning, but the teacher would not teach, and for this reason always constantly complained that the teacher did not teach well.

But, the problem lies in the teacher.

It is not, whether the student's performance is good or bad, although the teacher is responsible, more is the students themselves have not learned by heart.

When you encounter problems, always habitually look for reasons in others, only to make yourself go further and further down the wrong path.

There is time to blame others, it is better to reflect on where they are wrong and know the mistakes can be corrected to get out of the dilemma and achieve a better self.

1. Being human, the most afraid of mistakes and do not know

It is said that "to know the mistakes can be corrected, there is no greater good".

However, there is no shortage of people in life who are wrong and do not know themselves, always habitually blaming the fault on others, as if their suffering is the result of others.

"If it weren't for you, how would I be like this."

"It's your fault for not reminding me, otherwise how could I have missed it."

"It's all because of you, you pay me back."

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Do you remember the story of the child who stole a needle when he was young and stole gold when he was old?

The child who stole the needle is the typical "wrong but do not know", originally the child stole something well educated on it, but the mother in the story praised the child's behavior of stealing so that he thought he was doing the right thing.

So, he later stole a lot of things, and finally got himself into prison, dying only to wake up to their mistakes.

But he blamed not himself, but his mother.

Because there is no set of the correct three views, so he does not feel that they are wrong, even if they realize that "wrong", the blame will only be on others, not themselves.

Many times, the beginning of the wrong path, and later will be more and more wrong so that they are stuck in the mud and can not get out.

Instead of letting yourself make mistakes again and again, why not start learning self-reflection from now on, while reflecting on yourself, and constantly correcting your shortcomings?

2. Constantly correct yourself, in exchange for the way forward

People are not saints, who can not be at faulted.

Some things to do wrong to admit, know the wrong to change, otherwise, it will only make their mistakes wrong and finally make a big mistake.

Some children are born without knowing anything, but they are spoiled by their elders to be capricious and become annoying "bear children".

The elders are always habitually "children do not know how to" to cover up the mistakes made by the child, but do not know that they may end up indulging in a "demon", not properly disciplined as a child when they grow up is too late to control.

The "indulgence is like killing a child" thinking good, may "harm" the child's life. Instead of just indulging your child, it is better to educate your child properly from the beginning, so that he or she understands that if he or she makes a mistake, he or she will be punished and that there is room for improvement only if he or she can change his or her mistakes.

A person is not afraid of being wrong, what's scary is not admitting it.

In the face of mistakes, only if you know how to reflect on yourself and correct your shortcomings, you can make yourself grow.

Born as a human being, no one is free from mistakes, just the difference between more and fewer mistakes.

Instead of worrying about how many deficiencies are in their own body, why not learn to look at the problem from a different perspective, each correction of the "wrong", means that they can go further.

Constantly correct their own "wrong", in exchange for a better version of themselves.

So, a person doing something wrong is not good, but know that mistakes can be corrected before it is too late, handled properly in exchange for perhaps the future of the road to prosperity.