What do you love about yourself?

Some serious thought provoking questions: What do you love about yourself? What are the beautiful things that make you truly unique ? Have you ever realized how fast we are to name all the things we don’t like about ourselves vs. the things that we love?

Learning to love the person you are, and knowing who you are on the inside is pivotal in something as small as knowing what you like vs. don’t like or as big as making life changing decisions.

Other people’s opinions do not keep a roof over your head. Opinions do not feed you, put clothes on your back , or sign your check every week - two weeks. The only person’s opinion that will always matter is your own.

That smile of yours is beautiful and warm.

Those big and bold eyes are so captivating.

That laugh is contagious.

The way your nose crinkles as you laugh is so cute !

Your resiliencey is admirable.

That scar in your eyebrow , makes you unique , builds character. I bet it has an interesting story behind it !

When you look in the mirror , try to look at 𝐀𝐋𝐋 the beautiful things you like about yourself , the things that make you unique. Genuinely feel happy each time you look at your own reflection. I am a firm believer that confidence really makes woman preetier, it’s a noticeable GLOW.

For many centuries, woman are conditioned to be meek and in turn lack self esteem. Some weird notion that in order to be liked by others , requires you not to like yourself. We are not doing that anymore . Every day is a new day, a new start, use that to its fullest. You never have to downplay your successes, accomplishments, beauty , or what you’re good at either ! Your worth is not up for negotiation. Your value does not suddenly decrease because someone’s inability to see that you’re worthy. Let’s normalize , loving on ourselves.

It’s perfectly okay to not be what your idea of perfection is, and still love who you are. The truth is, loving yourself is realizing that perfection is just an idea. Perfection is an opinion. Perfection simply doesn’t exist.

Be proud of the woman you are becoming. Uplift her. Mold Her. Love on her.

Playing small is cancelled. Self sabotage is cancelled. Undervaluing yourself is cancelled ! We are no longer walking into rooms , and shrinking to fit them. We walk into rooms and command them because of who we are. Confidence is knowing not everyone will like you. Confidence is feeling good about yourself, it’s not needing approval and truly knowing how amazing you are in your divine right. Whether someone likes you or not.

Never forget that you were not meant to be mediocre. You are extra ordinary. No one else can be you. Learning to be more comfortable in your own skin and get to know who you really are as a person is really important. Fall in love with the way you speak, walk, talk, and operate. Your energy is contagious. People have nothing but good things to say, simply because you have the same respect for yourself. You are one of a kind. Start thinking , believing and acting like it.

Never feel inadequate. Never, allow yourself to feel like you are not enough. Believe in your infinite potential. You are worthy of everything good. You are an inspiration when you believe in yourself. You have your own uniqueness, energy, and personality.

As woman, we often put a lot of pressure on ourselves to make sure other people see us in a certain light, whether it’s perfect pristine, or wild . While there is certainly nothing wrong with wanting to give a good impressions. I do believe , you should just be yourself whatever that is.

You control the level of confidence in yourself, not your job, not your title, not your followers, not your environment – just you. You have the tools, the resources, and the power to walk into any room like you own the place.

Be YOU. Self confidence is the best outfit. Rock it , OWN it . They will adjust.💕

-Ss