We use our shortcomings, and the advantages of others ca motivate us to work hard

A person has not yet reached middle age, all people are in their youthful years, gritting their teeth with all their might to fight for their lives, only to seek and their hearts that a pair, hand to hand. Therefore, we run, again and again, exhausting all the strength of the body, forgetting the joy when winning, sobbing in secret when losing. All youth is we wrestle with others traces, irrational and jealous, often able to easily, confuse people's glasses.

With time, at that time these shouting and shouting teenage girls, now also long grown up, achieve their growth. Perhaps, in the body of what can still be seen in the trance of the former figure, but the adult life, objectivity always beats reason.

To middle age, it means that everyone's life has passed half, in the past, we have been indulging ourselves so that in the future must learn to cherish doubly.

In this world, the overall strength is always put first, only if you have a strong enough ability to gain the dominant power.

In the past, people fought with others, and in middle age, their opponents were left only with themselves. Those who were once seen by us as competitors most likely can no longer appear in the lives of everyone. After a big heartfelt fuss, the group eventually moves towards separation and returns to its life movement. Each person is a unique individual, there are their strengths and weaknesses, and we should not always compare with others to do.

Because our situations are different, no matter how we compare them, it is too biased to get a truly accurate conclusion.

In the past, we used our shortcomings, and other people's strengths to can motivate us to work hard.

And with personal merits and other people's shortcomings, but to be able to meet their small self-esteem, so that they get a little comfort. We all run on the road of growth, always meeting thousands of people by chance, to confirm the countless scenery.

Not every person we meet can be with us for life, the road of life is a lonely journey, and the only one who can accompany us is himself.

In other words, we can never interfere with where other people go, and we can't take ourselves as competitors. We never betray ourselves, but we can transcend ourselves again and again in the process of growth.

There are indeed many factors influencing the external transformation that are difficult for everyone to manipulate, only everything about yourself can be in your hands.

Others are just you just passing through, can not always linger in your world, they also have to rush to their own lives. Those who were enemies are leaving, only you are left, you can only be friends and enemies with yourself.

If you transcend yourself, it is the same as getting a win. In the days to come, you have to compare yourself with your past self, improve a little bit every day, and eventually you will be able to succeed.

You know your situation best, and you know your strengths and weaknesses best, and only by recognizing them can you make changes.

You have to believe in your ability, you are not considered the ultimate person, but also have the potential to bloom and shine in development. Each person is a star in the shadow, can flash their unique light, and with their efforts, that light will become more bright. If you see others shining brightly, don't be anxious or impatient, you are a luminary yourself.

If you keep your eyes on others, you will only jeopardize your definition of yourself. How about focusing your attention on yourself, correcting your shortcomings, and promoting your strengths little by little?

Success is usually not achieved overnight, but by your overall strengths accumulated over time. Opportunity can only be given to those who are prepared, only withstand the test of time, their world in the dive, you will be able to laugh with success gift.

People live a life, loneliness is the normalization of the cultivation, and you will only get lonelier and lonelier, why not just integrate early and improve yourself in solitude?

In the future of the road, you can resort to people, only yourself, and their enemies are open to facing the lonely future.

External sound can provide you with only the proposal, only you can then decide whether to solicit. In which, not all the ringing, all the kind reminders, why not some people division.

If you focus on yourself, automatically blocking out the external noise, these clamping words will not hurt you. You can also get development in PK with yourself again and again, and know yourself more and more clearly. Even after experiencing setbacks and harsh blows, you can immediately stand up and summarize the experience of failure, to lay the groundwork for the next success.

When the flowers and applause are crowded up, you can also not be impatient, from the beginning maintain a humble mind, and have a grateful heart.

By beating your past self, again and again, you may have boosted your self-confidence. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter so much what the outcome is, failure and success are only temporary for you, and then you are confident that you can succeed in the end.

Your heart is full of sun, even in the barren land, but also can live bright.