The most advanced self-confidence is not to prove that you are great

In life, everyone desires self-confidence, but what is the highest level of self-confidence? True self-confidence is not to prove that you are great.

True self-confidence is to put down one's ego and to know how to live out one's three noble qualities, which is the fundamental connotation of our self-confidence, and the fundamental way to enhance our self-confidence.

If we want to truly live out our confidence, please learn to live out our three noble qualities, which is the highest level of confidence.

The first quality is: the willingness to open themselves

The more confident a person is, the easier it is to open one's heart. A confident person is not obsessed with right and wrong, on the contrary, he likes to say that this is only my perception, and does not necessarily mean that it is correct.

They deeply understand that their world is different from other people's worlds. Not clinging to right and wrong is the highest level of literacy we can evolve ourselves.

When you stop clinging to right and wrong, you can truly read human nature, which does not come from being right or wrong. We all know each other's underlying codes of human nature.

A confident person will admit their own mistakes, but also willing to accept the views of others, but also very willing to open themselves, more willing to update themselves, and always remain unassuming, such people are truly confident.

People who open themselves are the most confident, people who open themselves will not judge themselves easily, but deeply understand that a good life is a process of constantly welcoming, accepting, and letting go.

When you stop clinging to right and wrong but keep welcoming, accepting, and letting go, you will find that your life will be more and more abundant inside.

The second literacy is learning to accept your imperfection

Learning to accept our imperfections is also a sign of our self-confidence. When we stop hurting for our imperfections, it means that you understand what imperfection means. Confidence never means aggressiveness. The more confident you are, the more humble and tolerant you are.

Being happy with our imperfections is a complete acceptance of ourselves. No matter our height or looks, we need to understand that it is unique to us. Being happy with our looks may not always meet the aesthetic standards of the outside world, but once we can accept ourselves, we can live our uniqueness.

Model Lv Yan tells how when she was young, she was known to be ugly, with a collapsed nose and small eyes, but then she was discovered by a booster who thought she had a lot of character, and Lv Yan became more and more accepting of her looks, and her performance on the field became better and better.

True growth is a process of being happy with your imperfections. Acknowledge your shortcomings generously, instead of ushering in more recognition of yourself.

Good growth is not a process of hiding, good growth is to live with your true self and experience everything authentically, this is the highest level of self-confidence.

Advanced self-confidence is never about being yourself, being openly yourself, being able to talk to outside standards, and turning to the process of respecting yourself.

The third quality, self-confidence is not to prove that you are great but to achieve others

Confident people are not afraid to lose, not afraid to give, not afraid to give. The highest level of self-confidence is not to prove that you are great, but rather, the process of achieving others.

Self-confidence is never to think that you are very powerful, very invincible, others are not as good as me. Deep confidence is having seen heaven and earth, having seen themselves, knowing that everyone will have their world, and they allow others to be as they are, rather than stressing that others have to do what they want.

They know better than good self-confidence is encouraging more people to live their own lives, and prefer to inspire more people to live their good with a mission to achieve.

The weaker the person the more they want to attack, the wimpier they are the more they are afraid to give. The most confident time is not the time to defeat others, but the time to achieve them.

The most confident leadership is not when I suppress you when I establish absolute authority and you must do my bidding, but when I am at the bottom, holding you all up, supporting you, accompanying you, making you thrive and grow taller and bigger.

Confidence is not because I am complacent about my past accomplishments, but because I am confident in my future and have confidence in it.

Not from flowers and applause, money and glory but from exercising every morning, reading every day before bed, and contributing to the world.

Good confidence never needs to prove itself, instead, it is a process where we know how to give, how to contribute, and how to make the world a better place.

The attention of a confident person is to look inward, not outward, not to cheer and shout, but to moisten and grow together with more people.