Steps To Better Communicate With Others

Explanation: The more things go, the more unstable relationships are... So let's take a look at 21 steps to communicate better with others.

The longer it goes, the more unstable the relationship.

Friendships are unraveling, couples are breaking up and families are being torn apart...

And that often brings its share of suffering.

The problem is that when arguing with a friend, brother, mother, or/partner, it is more often a matter of a lack of communication than real and serious problems.

In this article, I decided to talk about how to communicate better with others?

I'm going to start by explaining to you why you need to communicate better with others.

Next, I will show you 6 steps, to communicate better with others.

Finally, I am going to introduce you to my book: “You don't know how to communicate! 21 steps to communicate better with your loved ones, your friends, and even your co-workers. “

Good reading!

PS: I look forward to your review! Besides, do you think you communicate well with those around you? What are your shortcomings?

Let it be said, the priority is to keep lasting relationships and above all not to destroy them.

No matter what, we all argue with our friends, some family members, or even our partner. Sometimes for serious things, but in the majority, it is for trifles and a war of ego.

Let me explain, we will say that you sir, left a dirty pair of socks lying around.

Madame makes you a reflection because she is tired of seeing your socks lying around and going behind to pick them up. Since she's pissed and frustrated because it's not the first time she's told you this, her reflection is pungent.

On your side, you have just taken a nasty thought for no real reason. Besides, you don't understand why you're getting this reflection, it's nonsense for a pair of socks. Suddenly, you dismiss her using a violent vocabulary.

Finally, a fight occurs and it does not stop. Both of you chain violent words as if to show you are superior to the other. All for bullshit.

Whereas in the end, it would have been enough to listen to each other and say things clearly. Madame could have said clearly that she is tired of repeating herself and that she has the impression that he is not listening to her. Mr. could have shown listening and understanding.

Instead, you're injecting poison into your relationship and ultimately destroying it.

Why communicate better with others?

Maintain relationships.

When we see friends we haven't seen for a long time, we very often tend to say this sentence: “We should see each other a lot more often! “.

The problem is that we all live 200km/h lives, have endless to-do lists, and barely manage to get halfway done.

So hearing from your friends is far from being a priority...

However, if you want to maintain your relationships, it is super important to keep in regular contact with your relatives, friends, etc.

Meet new people.

I did not experience my last move very well. I arrived in winter at a seaside resort. So you can imagine that at that time, it was not very lively as a place. To this, we add that I am teleworking. So it doesn't make it easy to meet other people...

Loving communication and talking with others, it was quite easy for me to meet new people.

However, fortunately, I like it because the opportunities to meet new people were ultimately quite slim.

It is therefore important to learn how to communicate better to meet new people, especially if you have just moved or know a few people where you are.

How to better communicate with others?

Listen.

Most people hear but don't make the effort to listen and that makes a huge difference.

Indeed, it may seem silly, but to communicate better with others, you must first learn to take a real interest in others. (Not only to his little person).

Listening is above all being in the present moment and having the firm intention to be interested in the person opposite. If not, be honest with the other person and don't waste their time. There's nothing worse than arguing with someone who doesn't feel like it.

Worse than that, sometimes someone asks us a question, we try to help him and he doesn't even make the effort to listen... Believe me, I often radically cut off the discussion or even the relationship with these people.