People Who Are Truly Strong inside Allow Everything to Happen

If we can understand that things happen for a reason and that we are always at the root of all problems. Then we will no longer blame others, but to see the deep meaning behind what happened. As author Tao Jie once wrote in his book, "Standing at a fork in the road at the time, I saw a thousand masts in the wind and clouds; the day you made your choice, in your diary, was rather silent and mundane, and thought it was an ordinary day in your life." You don't know how a certain decision you once made will inadvertently set the stage for destiny. But the ending derived via this trajectory will surely come, sooner or later. Many choices, which at the time seem perfectly ordinary, have been shaping our lives without moving a muscle. One day, when it comes to you in the form of difficulty, it's time to fix the problem. Wrong decisions need to be corrected; delayed efforts need to be compensated. If some of the changes occur so that you feel very frustrated, that is precisely to remind you: you still have to experience, to grow.

A lot of things, happened is happened, the story can not be rewritten. Allow the results outside the expectations, whether willing or not, can have the courage to undertake everything, the initiative of life will return to their own hands. It is written in the Mid-Levels Anthology, "The more things a person can accept, the freer he is." Every kind of difficult to accept, all to their own tree up a wall, wall tree more, not a maze that is a cage. Gains and losses, blessings and curses in this world are meant to go hand in hand. From the moment you accept that bad things happen, so that the energy field can flow, it has become the past, new opportunities have been on the way. What is lost is gained. Sometimes, you think you miss the regret, in fact, may be the fate of your surprise before the test.

In the journey to maturity years, there is a very important sign, is: gradually began to "why this happened to me" thought, into "this thing in the end want to teach me what". After that, we realize that people are not trapped by the thing itself, but by the way they think about it. Learn to change your mind, use a positive mindset and positive thinking to deal with it, and the problems that you once thought were insurmountable will naturally take a new turn. As the saying goes, "A force comes at me head on, I will bend down and withdraw, and use it to learn and reconcile myself." True power is never about controlling everything, it's about allowing everything. Not being stuck in gains and losses, losses and births and wins, only shaking hands with the world with softness, only to walk the next path with more clarity and certainty. This in itself is a kind of success.

I like Haruki Murakami's quote, "You don't have to be too obsessed with the present, and you don't have to worry too much about the future." When you have experienced something, the scenery in front of you is not the same as before. Since impermanence is the constant, try to think of all experiences as gifts. Tell yourself every day that whatever happens to me will come to enrich me and fulfill me.

If things don't work out the way I want them to for a while, there must be another plan. Allow it to happen and then take every opportunity to get better. I believe that flowers have their own time, people have their own luck, walk through the mountainous years, we will eventually live into a successful and comfortable mold.