Life's right and wrong, which has completely absolute

The same thing, different angles, see the scene is different.

Some things, the public says that the public has a reason, the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law has a reason all have a point, just stand from a different perspective.

The world is not completely right and wrong, arguing right and wrong, is undoubtedly a waste of time, adding contradictions.

Even if you win and what can you get, after a short period of happiness there may be endless trouble.

There is this time why not go more to improve yourself and make your life path more and more smooth.

A person who only learns not to argue right or wrong can move towards maturity.

1.

Since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts only more and more, how many people did not survive the past, and eventually ended up in divorce?

No one is a bad person, nor is it intentionally trying to target anyone, but most are used to thinking from their point of view.

However, what is right from your point of view may not be right in the eyes of others.

Each holding their views does not give way to the other, the final pain is the person caught in the middle.

Although husbands play a vital role in the mediation of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationships, not many people can handle it well.

Instead of relying on others to resolve conflicts with each other, learn to give up meaningless quarrels.

Bickering will only make onlookers look at you funny, and whoever wins will lose.

Not only will it spoil your reputation, but it will also waste a lot of time and delay what you should have done.

Many times, learning to see things from each other's point of view, mutual understanding of difficulties and conflicts will naturally become less.

There is time to quarrel, why not quietly talk about it?

Right and wrong, it is not an absolute thing, maybe all right, maybe all wrong.

2.

The same is true for quarrels between mothers and daughters, but they are quarrels from different perspectives.

The starting point is good, but there is a problem with the expression.

In real life, many parents like to arrange their children's lives, originally for their good, but in the rebellious children's view, not their own life, the arrangement is good is also forced on themselves.

"I'm doing this for your good, why don't you understand?"

"I don't want this kind of life at all, are you doing this for my good or your face."

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Each according to the word, right, but also wrong.

From the parent's point of view, she just wants her children not to repeat their mistakes and can circumvent unnecessary troubles under their arrangement.

From the child's point of view, she feels that her parents' arrangements are like shackles that bind her life, so she wants to struggle to break free.

One does too much, one thinks too little, and they don't understand each other, so they have to learn to communicate.

The more you quarrel, the more you will deepen the conflict between each other.

Even if you win the argument, what can you get? Win the truth, lost feelings, not worth it.

3.

If the quarrel with relatives is hurt feelings, then the quarrel with colleagues is undoubtedly smashing the rice bowl.

Even if what you say is right, once the quarrel, both sides are at fault and need to be punished.

Anyone can argue, but I'm afraid no one will listen.

It is better not to argue with each other at the beginning, say more words, others do not listen, that is nonsense.

Some things are better said than done, with real evidence to hit the face, often more powerful than empty words.

Others do not want to listen, you do not say too much, do their own thing.

Arguments are meaningless, facts are better than arguments.

The most meaningless thing is to argue, argue about this and that, whether right or wrong, the result is a waste of time, rather than do what you should do.

In the second half of life, only know how to put down arguments, to embrace their own happy life.