Life's greatest rewards, in the face of difficulties

Who does not want to live an easy and relaxed life, but how easy it is to talk about?

The fact is that you will be able to find out how difficult it is to live, even if there are shortcuts to take, who can be sure that it will not be a trap?

There is no free lunch, and people who think they can get something for nothing are easily defeated by their greed.

As Zweig said: "All the gifts given by fate, in fact, in the dark has already marked the price."

Life is long, and relying on others is better than relying on oneself, do not work and get only lucky for a while, to meet the difficulties to break through themselves, so that life gets more options.

Are living, some people are getting better, some people are getting worse, the root will find: in adversity when the choice, is the fork in the road to life.

1, do not complain about life

When life is going well, the face naturally with a smile, but once it becomes unsatisfactory, most people will inevitably be sad face.

The mouth said they do not want to be a bitter face, full of complaints, but the action is to indulge their emotions.

The only thing you can do is complain about life's misfortunes and injustices, but you don't think about what you're doing wrong.

A person occasionally complain is to vent their emotions, but the habit of complaining is "self-importance", hard on themselves, disgusting others, and sooner or later will be disgusted by others.

Lu Xun once said, "Often people start complaining, things will accelerate in the direction of his complaints."

There are always times when people are not as good as they want to live, and complaining more can not change the situation at the moment, it is better to spend time on learning, and trying to improve themselves so that they become better and can deal with the unknown.

It may seem like there is no way out, but, if you turn a corner, you can see the way.

Instead of letting complaints cover your eyes, why not bravely face the suffering and seek solutions to problems?

2、Know how to deep plow yourself

"There is a way to study mountains diligently as a path, the sea of learning is endless and bitter as a boat."

The seemingly bitter path of learning is the shortcut of life, how hard you work, how lucky you are.

Many times, you feel that learning is bitter, but has not yet tasted the bitterness of life, experience will understand how lucky to have the opportunity to learn.

Most people suffer in learning, will eventually be transformed into nourishing their nutrients, only know how to deep plow themselves, the road of life can go more and more smoothly.

Whenever and wherever you are, learning is the strongest "weapon", because of its support, poor children have the opportunity to change their fate.

When you know how to cultivate yourself, what do you get? It is a letter of acceptance to a prestigious school, a chance to change their destiny.

What do you reap when you know how to cultivate yourself at work? It is the qualification of promotion, an opportunity for both fame and fortune.

What do you reap when you know how to cultivate yourself when you are at a low point? It is a Jedi comeback, a chance to start over.

Time will never fail, those who are willing to spend time deep plowing their own, live to learn, enrich themselves, plus the lucky.

3, insist on taking on the difficulties

If everyone wants to pick the easy things to do, then who should be given the hard things to do? There are so many things to take for granted, unexpected things are more training.

People stay in their comfort zone for a long time, it is easy to lose all their fighting spirit, only constantly challenge themselves, and adhere to the difficulties, to step on the "trials and tribulations" to forge a better version of themselves.

People who live will inevitably encounter trials and tribulations, a retreat, until the retreat, and then to face, I am afraid it will be more frustrating.

Instead of retreating for fear of "not getting through" and the "nonsense" of others, you should force yourself to face it.

The "can't" is temporary, know how to continue to deep plow themselves, and then the difficult road can go over.

And others say you can not, does not mean you really can not, easily listen to the words of others, give up is their own life.

People live, for themselves, not others, how others see them, and take the road they want to take.

Believe in yourself, challenge yourself, rise to the challenge and cast better.