How to Turn Defeat Into Victory

The philanthropists and others working on Skid Row are America's most disadvantaged

He noted the differences in religion, education and background. Some of them

Surprisingly young, yet very old. Some are college graduates,

Some have no formal education. Some are married, some or

Chirkumar But one thing stands out about Skid Row residents: everyone

Defeated, frustrated, beaten, they all lost to circumstances. everybody

Eager to tell you the waterloo of his personal life, the account of his defeats

Includes experiences such as 'My wife has left me and gone into the water.'

“All lost, I have no shelter,” “For some work today

I am an outcast, so I have taken refuge here."

From skid row this time if the general middle class Mr. And from the world of Mrs. American

Look at them, their lifestyle details are clearly visible. However, we again

Let's look at the reasons why the middle class lives its very ordinary middle class life

Sounds like a resident of Skid Row. Mr. here too. The middle class is defeated, battered. that

The wounds of the circumstances that lost him have not yet healed. now he

Be very careful. He took cautious steps, hesitant to enjoy the joy of victory.

Displeased with himself. Prajit calls his middle-class life “an irony of fate”.

Accepted the clause as a sentence.

He also succumbed to defeat but relatively clearly

Neatly, with social 'recognition'.

Even if you look at the rare world for success, you will see many things

People from the background, corporate executives, ministerial ministers, government officials, all walks of life

Leading leaders, yet in the pages of their life history you will find poverty,

Family separation, fragmented land, Ghinji slums. who are different in today's society

Those holding leading positions in the branch also had to face dire situations.

A comparison will show that age, intelligence, background, nationality, any

Regarding Skid Row, Mr. Middle class and Mr. Successful peers—there is only one exception. One thing they all differ from each other is defeat ,their response to harsh situations

Mr. To fall and pull yourself up after a skid row injury

could not. It was lying there, lying scattered. Mr. Middle class hurt

He got up but could not stand, crawled away from there.

Reaching safety, he ran so hard that second-timers were likely

He was not seen in the three borders of the area.

However, Mr. The response to success was quite different. Despite the injury, he is head

Stands up, learns, forgets defeat and moves forward.

A close friend of mine is a successful management consultant by profession. In his office

As soon as I entered, I felt like a 'king'. Perfectly beautiful furniture, carpets, busy people,

A very special client, seeing that he is on the path to success for his company

to continue

Cynical people may say, “Such activities are only for the blind people

Possible.” But this idea is completely wrong. It is not necessary for people to be "dhurandhar" for this.

People don't need to be smart, rich and lucky to be successful. only

(just different meanings, I'm using the word with hesitation here) such a stubborn one

People need to never feel defeated.

On the surface of that rich and respected institution was a human struggle

Story, his fight to get ahead: 10 in the first 6 months of starting the business

Loss of savings of years, lack of house rent money for several years in office space

Spending the night turning down several of the best job offers because he's on his own

Wanted to implement the idea, the consent of potential users of its services

Getting 100 times more rejections than answers

For success he has suffered for seven years and I am in his face

Never heard a complaint. He would always say, “Dave, I'm learning. In this business the competition is so high, and because it's untouchable, it's hard to sell. But I'm also learning to sell.” And he really learned.