How to find Happiness?

What is felicity/happiness?

Tranquillity is the main root of someone’s happiness. If you are at ease from inside and from mind then felicity automatically becomes your destiny- and you feel happy.

_____Are you waiting for someone to make you feel happy?

What are you doing? Are you in senses? For whom you are waiting? For whom you are looking forward that he/she will bring happiness to you? For whom?

No one my dear! No one is there. Think a bit! Who would be looking ahead to make you happy until you yourself are not ready to feel happy? Who?

Only you! Yes, you can bring pleasure to yourself because your felicity just only depends on within you. No one cares, every person is searching for his own pleasure and happiness. Others can make you feel good but not happy from inside. If you are not content, then lac of sources wouldn’t suffice. Try to make yourself content- you will come to meet a lot of happiness. Learn to live happy with yourself because you are the prestige of yourself. Learn to become your own inspiration- no one would be able to take you down.

Sources of Happiness:-

There are numerous mediums of happiness such as; your parents, family, your soulmate, your hobbies, your mindset – imaginary world, pleasing moments, travelling, nature, company of good friends, events- depending on the individual’s taste.

Company of good folks:-

The company of good folks is the foremost source of happiness. Good people can bring felicity on your face in every situation if they are pure to you. They will change your mood in no time. They will try to do different things for your happiness because they know you. Most probably, you may feel pleasant with some people. The reason behind this is that you can share the internal situation of your heart with them and they will heal it either through some activities or conversation what you like and whatever they know about you. They make you feel happy & felicitous and realize you that they will stand by you in every worst situation- when you feel half-hearted.

Your Soulmate:-

One of the crucial and essential medium that brings you to feel felicitous is your soulmate. Because he/she is the only person who knows your inner in advance. He/she knows well, what are the things which make you feel like in heaven. That person makes you feel special and stands by you in each worst situation. That’s the person who takes your pain to give you happiness. But if you are at fault then he makes you realize instead of cursing you.

• Nature:-

Those people who feel themselves alone & sad- they can make their selves happy by pondering and feeling nature. Sit under the blue firmament and take a deep breath, a wave of happiness and serenity will blow and touch your soul. Eventually, you will feel happy.

_______. Other sources are also valuable depending on the tastes of individuals.

• Be generous and compassionate:

You might feel smart for thinking that winning a lottery ticket could make you happy, but you'd be wrong. Money increases happiness only up to a certain level, where your basic needs are met. After that, money makes you no happier than other people. What does make you happy, however, is compassion.

One study has found that people who look at others giving money to charity makes us just as happy as receiving money ourselves! That means you should find ways to be compassionate if you can.

• Arrange an Appointment with Yourself

we all are busy in living our lives but we do not invest some of time for ourselves.

Look back, just look back for a while!

Can you claim you are happy and satisfied with your life? If you can't how would you perform it for others? So, the first and the foremost thing to do is your happiness, your blissfulness, your satisfaction and the most important your honesty with yourself. It will lead you inner peace and happiness.

Don’t waste your existence & your life just because of a few worries. Don’t worry my dear. Relax and cool down. These are part of everyone’s life. Nothing remains permanent. This world is the name of variations. So, no one situation remains permanently. Everything comes to its end and goes on to change. So don’t be sad- you are strong enough to face all the circumstances. You are your own inspiration_ keep in mind. Try to make comfort zones for yourself & by yourself. Make yourself consistent and zealous. In no time success & happiness would be at your doorstep.