from lost to found: discover your own life's direction

Direction, Di; re ; c;tion

Direction is the way or course in which someone moves or progresses forward.

Author's Letter

I wish I could tell you what to do, but that's not my place. Today, I feel like talking to someone who feels stuck in life, someone who feels like life is unfair and questions God's love for them. Why isn't their life moving forward? Do they feel like God loves them less because He watches them suffer and does nothing?

People who cry day in and day out, lose hope in life and wish they could die. I want to say to you, my sister and brother, that this is part of life. It's how our journey is. Without trials and tribulations, there's no life. You're actually not living.

As a big fan of Nicki Minaj, I listened to one of her songs, and one of the lines was, "To live doesn't mean you're alive." It the same as to living is different from existing. I mean you can have all the things desired but if you don't have what actually makes you happy you're not alive. My point here is, imagine you get everything you want. You don't face any trials,You get born, grow without any struggle, live life without all these trials we go through until you die. Life would likely be very different. We might not appreciate the value of our accomplishments or the beauty of our relationships.

Struggles and challenges help us grow, learn, and become stronger. They give us a sense of purpose and direction. Without them, life might feel empty, meaningless, and unfulfilling.

Imagine if every time you wanted something, it just magically appeared. You'd never have to work hard, never have to persevere, and never have to learn from your mistakes. It's likely that you'd become complacent, bored, and unfulfilled.

The struggles we face in life are what make the successes so sweet. They're what give us a sense of pride, accomplishment, and fulfillment. So, while it might seem appealing to get everything we want without any struggle, it's unlikely that it would lead to a truly happy and fulfilling life.

×Nokwanda

Today, I attended church and the priest asked some powerful questions that deeply resonate with me: 'Where are you going in life? Do you know the direction you are heading?.' Those questions touched me profoundly, and I began to question whether I'm headed in the right direction.

The priest then opened the Bible to Mark 4, which tells the story of Jesus asking his disciples to cross the sea with him. They set off in a boat. As they sailed, a fierce storm arose, causing the disciples to panic. In their distress, they wondered where Jesus was, only to find him sleeping peacefully amidst the turmoil.

They were shocked because Jesus remained calm, unlike them. They woke him up, and he miraculously calmed the storm. He said " Quite!! be still". He then asked his disciples, ' why are you so afraid, Do you still have no faith?' The disciples began to wonder, 'Who is this? Even the waves and the wind obey him.

The interpretation of this verse is quite profound. It is mostly about faith in god, but to me. It's about who you turn to in times of need. Do you seek solace in prayer, sharing your troubles with God, or do you confide in with friends instead? Have you considered what you hope to achieve by sharing your struggles with others? Do you want them to spread the word, potentially attracting unwanted attention and exacerbating your problems? And then, when things spiral out of control, you turn to God, questioning His ability to intervene? But didn't you neglect to inform Him of your troubles in the first place, choosing instead to share them with friends?

My message is simple: choose to turn your struggles to God instead. Trust in His power as the Creator to guide and support you through life's challenges. It's not about who can offer temporary solutions, but about who you report to in times of need. When facing battles, remember that your first and most reliable ally is God.

So, here, I'm not telling you what to do or how you should do things. You can interpret this Bible verse in your own way, as you see fit. My point, however, is to try to make you see that sometimes it's not that Jesus isn't answering your prayers, but rather how you choose to handle your troubles that hinders everything. We are not perfect, but small changes can help us improve and become better.

Let's revisit the question about direction in life. We're all born with a unique gift that defines who we are. But do you truly know who you are? Or are you simply drifting through life without direction? Are you allowing others to dictate your path, being swayed by their opinions and losing your sense of purpose? If you're clear about your identity and direction, you shouldn't be easily swayed by others'doubts and criticisms.

I believe that, as we are all born with a unique gift, our life's journey was crafted while we were in our mother's womb. No matter the decisions you make along the way, your journey will still lead you to your gift. However, the effects of your decisions can only slow down the process of reaching your destination.

In my personal journey of self-discovery, I've come to realize that taking accountability for my decisions is crucial. Even when I make mistakes, I acknowledge them and take responsibility for my actions. I believe that there's no such thing as a 'wrong' decision, but rather, it's about owning up to our choices and learning from them. By doing so, we can make our journey easier and more fulfilling, rather than blaming others for what happens in our lives.

By following your own path, you'll likely reach your destination faster. However, there's no need to rush; move at your own pace. The truth is, few people know their direction in life from birth; most discover it along the way.

The best approach is to stay positive, Take accountability for your actions, and

focus on the present while planning for the future.

If your plans don't work out as intended,

simply reassess and set new goals for the following year.

And, of course, remember to pray for guidance before sharing your plans with others.