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Do not face to grab the inside, you will find that life is much more exciting to live

Life will be more exciting

By La VignauPublished 2 years ago 4 min read
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Do not face to grab the inside, you will find that life is much more exciting to live
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When I opened my notebook, I overlooked a passage that I had previously written down: life should eat three bowls of noodles, a bowl is decent, a bowl is a scene, and a bowl is the face of love.

I forgot who said it, but I'm sure that the person who said it, must be a person who wants to face it.

Because whether it's decency, the scene, or the face. In general, it is all expressed in the face.

It cannot be denied that we are more face-conscious compared to people from other countries.

This was said earlier by a foreigner named Hegel: "To die to save face and to live for others is the death of the Chinese."

I don't know how people understand this statement, but from what I have seen and heard, the face is indeed very important to us.

Otherwise, there would be no "death to face live to suffer the saying."

If the children next door together with the size of Lee are playing with soy sauce, you do not even have a girlfriend, at this time, you will feel very humiliated to face him.

Look at the classmates gathering, most of them drive to the table to talk business and talk about the project. You are an ordinary working class, no car, no house, you will feel very humiliated.

Eat with friends, there is not a little money in your pocket, but still reluctantly choose to go to a more senior place to eat, afraid to lose face in front of friends. ............

If you think about it, the face becomes a great burden on our hearts.

The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are getting into. But in the end because of a sentence: no words to face the father and mother of Jiangdong, in the Wujiang River to kill themselves, really lamentable!

Zhou Yu in the Three Kingdoms was such a brilliant man. As a result, because of a few insults from Zhuge Liang, he was so angry that he became very sick and died.

Sometimes I do not understand, everyone knows that face is something false, but why do people still prefer to lose the inside, to save face? I remember watching a variety show last year, a host shared one of his stories. He said that a few years ago, there is a company owner about 30 years old, who pay a high price to help me officiate their wedding. According to him, that wedding was held very grandly. Since he presided over the wedding, the most lively. The whole city knows that the sound is particularly huge. But after the wedding, guess what?

The groom told him that the wedding was fake. It was a play he put on for outsiders to see.

Because when the groom was small, his family was very poor.

The neighbors laughed at him, saying that he was so poor, who would want to marry him?

Even if someone was willing to marry, he couldn't afford to hold a wedding or something like that.

Now that he has money, he has to prove himself to the people who once looked down on him. Let those people see, that he not only married his wife today but also hosted a huge banquet.

Yes, the groom has earned back his face. But he didn't know that he had lost his face again.

What's the "lizi"?

If the face is the outer performance, there is the essence of your inner nature.

You wear brand-name clothes, wear high-grade shoes, wear a gorgeous tie, and a generous hand, you do a good job on the face.

But you don't have the lizi to support, useless, then the good mask, can't withstand a blow from others, but also difficult to escape the silence of the years, might as well put down the face.

In the "master of the generation", there is a sentence: people live in the world, some life into the face, some life into the son. The only way to win the real face is to have a face.

When I speak, I sometimes say things that I don't want to save face.

Others will say I "do not want to face it."

What would you say if it were you?

Did I say: face how much a pound, 10,000, or 100,000? I'll buy it for you.

If you are not yet successful, or a loser, do not talk about what face, you also do not have a face.

Who will give you a face? Is it because of a few words at the table, "do not drink or give a face, and so on?"

If so, I can only say: that you take yourself too seriously.

From the second half of last year to now, because of some unexpected events, each various industries have been affected to varying degrees, and have to consider a new direction of development.

So live with the fire, Gree's Dong Mingzhu, hammer technology Luo Yonghao, the entertainment circle of Libyan, Zhu Zizhi, Liu Tao, Li Xiang, and so on. One by one, "no face", has joined the live army.

Compared to them, you think your face can be worth a few dollars.

So you don't need to bend over for your cheap face, and can't put down your body.

You just have to understand that when there is no money, face! is the most worthless thing.

To succeed in the future, the only thing you can do is throw the face aside. Put the lane to replenish the reality, the time to earn money first.

You will find that the face is naturally back, and slowly, you will find again, that your face can make money.

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