Change, life has a chance to turn

It is said that "origin" is no choice, only through efforts to improve themselves, it is possible to change the fate of God.

Most people know to work hard, but not many are willing to pay the actual action, for no other reason than that the road is too difficult to take.

Either hesitate or give up, in the end, an empty.

Such a life, is really what you want?

Because of the fear of suffering and giving up efforts, give up the opportunity to change their own, think it is a wise move, but is in the foolish, young do not eat the bitter, to old will live a very bitter.

What cause is planted, and what fruit?

How you treat life, how life will treat you.

1. Accept the reality and rise to the occasion

Life is a long run, do not run to the end, never know how the results are, so now does not mean that later, the cards are bad again also have the opportunity to flip.

Just you must first learn to accept reality, accept your shortcomings, and have the courage to change the status quo, to achieve a better self.

Some problems may seem small, but it is enough to kill, such as sloppy, which is the most taboo to financial workers, filling in a decimal point wrong, and may cause a major impact on the company.

Shortcomings are not the problem, the problem is to know the "wrong" and not to change.

The gap between people, in the small changes.

You do not change, others are changing, and the gap will naturally open up.

Perhaps change is not possible overnight, but can be gradual, from the simple beginning to do, slowly increasing the difficulty, and finally success.

What you thought was impossible to change will eventually become a reality under the efforts of the day and month, like water dripping through stone and an iron pestle grinding into a needle.

When life can not be changed, compared to complaining about life, blaming fate, accepting reality, to meet the difficulties is the wisest way to deal with it.

2. Accept the loss and understand gain and loss

Bai Xiangyong said, "What you have is never a fluke, impermanence is the norm of life, and all maturity begins with loss."

When you live, you will inevitably encounter "loss", either a sincere relationship, a person you cared about, or something you had ......

Those unacceptable moments of "loss" will eventually become the nourishment for maturity, pushing and pulling you towards a new level of life.

The only way to understand the meaning of living is to accept loss, not a one-way gain, but a two-way output, there is bitterness and sweetness, and there is gain and loss.

The loss of love, the loss of a relationship, the gain is a memory, once the good, experience exists, the loss is the end, but also the beginning.

After a certain age, the more you experience, you will slowly understand that life is constantly losing and gaining.

Inevitably will be sad and sad, but learn to accept.

Now all the lost, in the efforts of another form will appear so that you can grow from it, and meet with the good.

3. Accept change and go with the flow

Life is not in the quiet but the movement between the quiet.

It is not a way to get by, a way to the end, but to change, choose the best and strive to achieve better.

In "When the Stars of Mankind Shine", Zweig mentioned, "When the time comes to change your destiny, hesitation defeats you."

Instead of leaving your life with regrets, you should be brave enough to do what you want to do, and when the moment to change your destiny comes, go with the flow and be yourself.

Perhaps the process of change is difficult, but there is nothing that is not difficult, want to become better you have to "get through" first, to come to the bitter end.

The mud-stained in the process is a stain but not a stain, it will become a nutrient for transformation.

The metamorphosis of a cocoon into a butterfly is the achievement of time and effort, and so is the evolution of human beings, through long years and trials, from ape to human, growing in the change.

Life, in the process of change, changes, to have a breakthrough, beyond the "self", to achieve better.