Happiness Requires Goals
Earl Nightingale once wrote: Happiness is the progressive
realization of a worthy ideal, or goal.
You only feel truly happy when you are making progress, stepby-
step, toward something that is important to you. Victor Frankl,
the founder of Logotherapy, wrote that the greatest need of the human
being is for a sense of meaning and purpose in life.
Goals give you a sense of meaning and purpose. Goals give you
a sense of direction. As you move toward your goals you feel happier
and stronger. You feel more energized and effective. You feel more
confident and competent in yourself and your abilities. Every step
you take toward your goals increases your belief that you can set and
achieve even bigger goals in the future.
More people today fear change, and worry about the future,
than at any other time in our history. One of the great benefits of goal
setting is that goals enable you to control the direction of change in your
life. Goals enable you to assure that the changes in your life are
largely self-determined and self-directed. Goals enable you to instill
meaning and purpose into everything you do.
One of the most important teachings of Aristotle, the Greek
philosopher, was that man is a teleological organism. The word
teleos in Greek means goals. What Aristotle concluded was that all
human action is purposeful in some way. You are only happy when
you are doing something that is moving you toward something that
you want. The great questions then become: What are your goals?
What purposes are you aiming at? Where do you want to end up at
the end of the day?
Clarity Is Everything
Your inborn potential is extraordinary. You have within you,
right now, the ability to achieve almost any goal that you can set for
yourself. Your greatest responsibility to yourself is to invest the
whatever time is required to become absolutely clear about exactly
what it is you want, and how you can best achieve it. The greater
clarity you have regarding your true goals, the more of your potential
you will unleash for good in your life.
You have probably heard it said that the average person uses
only 10% of his or her potential. The sad fact is that, according to
Stanford University, the average person functions with only about
2% of his or her mental potential. The remainder just sits there in
reserve, being saved up for some later time. This would be exactly as
if your parents had left you a trust fund with $100,000 in it, but all
you ever took out to spend was $2,000. The other $98,000 dollars
simply sat in the account unused throughout your life.Develop A Burning Desire
The starting point of all goal attainment is desire. You must
develop an intense, burning desire for your goals if you really want
to achieve them. It is only when your desire becomes intense enough
that you will have the energy and the internal drive to overcome all
the obstacles that will arise in your path.
The good news is that almost anything that you want long
enough and hard enough, you can ultimately achieve.
The great oil billionaire, H. L. Hunt, was once asked the secret
of success. He replied that success required two things, and two
things only. First, he said, you must know exactly what it is you want.
Most people never make this decision. Second, he said, you must
determine the price that you will have to pay to achieve it, and then
get busy paying that price.
The Cafeteria Model of Success
Life is more like a buffet or cafeteria than it is a restaurant. In a
restaurant, you eat the complete dinner and then you pay the bill. But
in a buffet or cafeteria, you have to serve yourself, and pay in full
before you enjoy the meal. Many people make the mistake of
thinking that they will pay the price after they have experienced the
success. They sit in front of the stove of life and say, First give me
some heat, and then Ill put in some wood.
As motivational speaker Zig Ziglar once said, The elevator to
success is out of service. But the stairs are always open.
Another important observation from Aristotle was his
conclusion that the ultimate purpose of all human action is the
achievement of personal happiness. Whatever you do, he said, it is
aimed at increasing your happiness in some way. You may or may
not be successful in achieving happiness, but your happiness is
always your ultimate aim.
The Key To Happiness
Setting goals, working toward them day-by-day, and ultimately
achieving them is the key to happiness in life. Goal setting is so
powerful that the very act of thinking about your goals makes you
happy, even before you have taken the first step toward achieving
them.
To unlock and unleash your full potential, you should make a
habit of daily goal setting and achieving for the rest of your life. You
should develop a laser-like focus so that you are always thinking and
talking about the things you want rather than the things that you
dont want. You must resolve, from this moment on, to be a goalseeking
organism, like a guided missile, or a homing pigeon, moving
unerringly toward the things that are important to you.
There is no greater guarantee of a long, happy, healthy and
prosperous life than for you to be continually working on being,
having and achieving more and more of the things you really want.
Clear goals enable you to release your full potential for personal and
professional success. Goals enable you to overcome any obstacle, and
to make your future unlimited.
Unlock Your Potential:
1. Imagine that you have the inborn ability to achieve any
goal you could ever set for yourself. What do you really
want to be, have and do?
2. What are the activities that give you your greatest sense
of meaning and purpose in life?
3. Look at your personal and work life today and identify
how your own thinking has created your world. What
should you, could you change?
4. What do you think and talk about most of the time,
what you want, or what you dont want?
5. What is the price you will have to pay to achieve the
goals that are most important to you?
6. What one action should you take immediately as the
result of your answers to the above questions?
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